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Spanking Moms, Daughters, & Bad Boys

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As noted above in the photo-story, I have had many requests from boys who want me to spank them.  With the current exception, all have involved sex, which I just do not do.  I spank girls during private sessions or for films, moms for domestic discipline, and girls who normally are 18 or over, especially for any films, but I have, in the past, spanked girls who were 16 in high school for domestic discipline, and when I also spanked their mom.  I have provided some information on those spankings in this post. 

I do have posts in this Blog concerning Nancy and her mom, Karen, both of whom I spanked during a 3-year mentoring in Florida, instead of the only 2 years I have previously reported on.  I do not provide any extensive reporting on the spanking of girls under 18, since I do not promote nor recommend such spankings, although they are, frequently, required for the proper training and discipline of a girl.  Any such spankings must be given in a very loving and caring manner.  

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In the 1960’s I mentored, trained, disciplined, spanked, and punished a mother and her daughter for about 3 years who lived in Florida.  The daughter was the one who contacted me through Latent Image, a magazine that was a forerunner of today’s meeting sites for girls who want and need to be spanked.  I have recently reported about the spankings I gave to both of these girls on my Blog, but referred to Nancy as being over 18 and in college.  That is true for when she was in college, as I do not post anything that recommends spanking girls under 18.  However, Nancy contacted me when she was still in high school at 16.  I spanked her when she was 16 in the 11th grade, and continued when she was 17 in the 12th grade, and 18 when she was in a community college.  Her dad had died several years earlier, and her mom, Karen, 34 when we first met, could no longer give Nancy the spankings that she needed, and Karen also needed someone to spank her.  I went to Florida and met them in my hotel room initially, so we could get to know each other.  I had been recruited to be a pastor in the Methodist church, but declined, but was frequently involved in counseling girls due to my commanding presence and ability to understand their concerns and help direct them in a positive manner with recommendations reinforced with bare-bottom spankings.  Spanking girls was fairly common, as was ministers spanking girls. 

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Following is the message I received from Bob who lives in Detroit: 

Dear Sir:

I have followed your internet presence for some time now because of the dominance you exhibited in the first video clip I watched of you giving a ferocious punishment spanking. Both your verbal domination, etc. especially your tone of voice – as well as the very real bare ass blistering the young lady had earned at your eminently capable hands shook me, and badly. My own father had been in the service and also was a product of a family that used corporal punishment freely and frequently, so I grew up getting bare ass paddled over his knee very often, hearing him speak pretty similarly to the way you addressed that young lady and dreading him asking me any questions, as I was so upset each time that my sobbing prevented me from answering him. This he took as a sign of me still being insolent and disobedient, and would be followed by a volley of paddle smacks that sent me into screeching and babbling, trying to answer him through all the tears and snot but always pleading for him to stop, or simply no, no, no each and every time. What did this do? It taught me respect in no uncertain terms. It brought me out of myself and got me to realize all actions do have consequences. To this day I am grateful to him – and rue his passing as well.

Somewhere along the way there was a blog with some photos and text you’d put up of your time in the service, I was again impressed seeing what you went through and who you were then, on your way to becoming the gentleman you are now. As an aside, I have worked closely with members of the Marine Corps in a civilian capacity and have never, ever felt so included as part of any team in any other capacity. Those men helped me understand what it means to be open, inclusive, and grateful instead of the usual insular and protective in the workplace – as well as to enjoy what you’re doing while pressing forward towards the goal.

I also read with intense interest a blog you had posted about how you paddle and what constitutes different spanking punishments. There were key phrases included which helped me realize the depth of your intentions, which seemed written for me alone. About how you have no safe-words, and once you start a spanking, it cannot be stopped, and there are waivers to be signed to that effect. How there are some who simply need to be spanked and whipped for a minimum of 30 minutes followed by a 15- or 20-minute pause, then spanked again for another 30 minutes until they no longer “enjoy” being spanked. If there’s a failure to comply with your directions, you will spank harder, then even harder an hour later with a Disobedience Spanking. Again, written specifically for and directed at me, it seemed.

I just read your most recent statement on Spanking Tube yet still, with the above in mind, am going to ask if you’d consider giving a good paddle blistering to me, a male. Not for being in a video, but because all you do resonates so tremendously within me as someone I need to submit to with humility for punishment from a real man’s man. I’m single, living in Detroit so Columbus just isn’t that far away. My goal for a meeting would be to cause you as little distraction from normal as possible, to accept what is decided is necessary and humbly, with all the respect due to you, accept and take the spanking that IMHO should be unbearable by the time its approximately half over.

I would be honored to hear back from you SIR and am ready to answer any and all questions you might have.

Sincerely, Bob, Detroit, MI

I replied as follows: 

Dear Bob, 

 Thank you for your message.  Yes, good, hard, bare-bottom spankings are very effective in helping a girl (and boys) to behave themselves, be obedient, and achieve the goals that they want.  And, I do it in a very “clinical” manner; i.e., there are no sexual overtones, even when I inspect a girl, and it is my “job” to get the girl over my knee and go to work on her bottom, regardless of how much she screams, kicks, cries, and begs for me to stop.  She has signed various consent agreements, and many girls have come to me for their own personal development, discipline and punishment for things for which they want to be spanked.  I continue to provide such private counseling and spanking sessions for those girls who ask for them.  

 I have spanked boys, but that was many years ago.  I used to teach karate, and one boy, a 16-year-old, thought that he could then go home and threaten his single mom.  This often happens also with girls who think that karate is about dominating others through fighting, rather than learning self-control and respect.  I spoke with his mom, and she invited me over to punish her son.  I took my Punishment Strap and Punishment Hairbrush, and went to his home.  Being in karate, he understood only one thing … a sharp punch to his solar plexus that sent him to the floor, where he properly knelt before his sensei, me.  That got his attention.  I ordered him to get up and get his clothes off.  Then he was ordered to bend over the sofa arm, which he quickly did.  Standing over him, I lectured him for 15 minutes about the meaning of karate training and developing control and respect for others, and that the use of physical fighting skills was actually not the intent of karate.  

 Then I proceeded to whip him for 10 minutes, as he bounced, kicked and cried.  Then, I paused for a few minutes, and then administered another 10-minute whipping.  Then, another pause, and another 10-minute whipping.  By that time he was crying convulsively and begging for me to stop.  But, during the second whipping, he had reached back to cover his bottom with his hand, so I was going to have to give him a Disobedience Spanking, again, a part of his “karate training”.  However, I also had to spank him as part of his punishment.  So, I ordered him to get up and bend over my knee for his Punishment Hairbrush Spanking.  He immediately obeyed … hard spankings are very effective in obtaining not only obedience but hyper-obedience.  He probably had never jumped quite so fast before when ordered to bend over for a spanking.  I ordered him to present his bare bottom in the Inverted-V Spanking Position.  With him properly positioned I got to work on his bottom with 400 strokes of the hairbrush to each cheek as he screamed and cried convulsively, but kept the palms of his hands and forearms flat on the floor and his toes on the floor.  If he had moved, I would have to give him a Disobedience Spanking, and I had already told him that he was going to get one, and he did not want another one.  After his spanking I sent him back to the sofa to bend over and stay there until I called for him.  

 I left him there, bending over the sofa arm, as I sat down and had a discussion with his mom.  She seemed to be very impressed with what I was doing and with how submissive her son had become.  I told her that this one session would not be enough, and that to make sure that he had “learned his lesson“, I would have to return 2 days a week for the next 10 weeks, to make sure that he was in fact learning to behave himself, to be obedient, and to submit to his punishments and my control, as well as his moms.  If she needed to spank him, he was to immediately get his clothes off and bend over for her to spank.  If there was any problem, she was to call me and I would return and spank him.  As a result, she did not have any problem with him.  She agreed.  So, we arranged for me to come to their home every Wednesday evening at 8:00, and then again Saturday morning at 9:00 to administer an hour punishment session.  When I entered, he was already to be naked, and hand me the strap and hairbrush as he knelt on the floor in the living room as I entered.  After our discussion, which lasted for over an hour, I ordered the boy to get up and place a straight-back chair in the center of the room.  He jumped up and immediately obeyed, being very hyper-obedient.  I sat down and ordered him to bend over my knee, which he immediately did.  I then proceeded to blister his bottom with the Punishment Blistering Hairbrush.  I administer 80 strokes/minute with a hairbrush, and spent 5 minutes blistering that bottom … 200 strokes to each cheek.  Then I held him there for a few minutes as he continued to squirm, kick and cry, and I discussed his spanking with his mom.  Then, another 5-minute spanking was administered.  Then, a pause, as he begged for me to stop and said that he would be obedient.  I told him:  “I know you will,” as I proceeded to administer another 5-minute spanking.  There was another pause, and then one more 5-minute, very hard, blistering spanking.  I then just pushed him to the floor and ordered him to get up and stand in the corner with his hands clasped behind his head and to stay there until I told him he could leave.  His mom and I then went to the kitchen and sat and had a coke as we discussed what she was to do with him every day; i.e., she was to start ordering him to do chores around the home, to be in the home by 5:00 every day, to study for 3 hours in the evening every day, he was not to go out in the evening and was not going to date, or do anything else outside the home for the next 10 weeks.  If he disobeyed in the slightest way, she was to call me and have me come over and blister his bottom again, if she did not want to do the spanking, and I recommended that I do the spanking since I could spank him harder, and he would learn to be more obedient, in addition to our scheduled meetings.  After about 45 minutes I ordered him to come to the kitchen and bend over the kitchen table, with his arms crossed behind his back.  He immediately obeyed.  I told his mom that that is what she should expect whenever she tells him to do something–his immediate obedience.  I did not spank him, but told him that if his mom had to call me over for any additional spankings, that he was to be naked in that position when I entered the home, so I could get right to work on his bottom with my strap.  3 weeks later I was called over and administered a 30-minute whipping when he talked-back and sassed his mom.  And, he was very obedient and was in position when I entered.  One more such spanking was required about 4 weeks later, but that was it.  After his 10-week punishment sessions, his mom never had any problems with him again, with just a few times when she called me to come over and spank him.  

 Now, all of that said, that was many, many years ago.  The problem today is that I have had many, and I mean many requests from boys who want me to spank and whip them … but … sex is always involved.  I do not have sex with girls, and I certainly do not have sex with boys, nor do I inspect them in any way or allow them to masturbate before, during or after a spanking … Hence, I have not spanked any boys for a very long time.  Further, I actually have no interest in just spanking a girl or boy for any reason.  I just am not interested.  I spank girls for films, or as part of private counseling sessions that they have paid for.  I do not, and have no interest in just stripping a girl down and spanking her.  I couldn’t care less what a girl looks like or having her over my knee, or in any other position.  The same goes especially for boys.  I just have no interest in any part of it.  Further, even if your spanking was filmed, which you do not want and I have no interest in doing, I, most likely, would not want to film you as it appears as though you are much too old.  

 While I have and will spank single moms (or even married) who need to learn discipline in the home and to care for their daughters better, that is because it is part of my Family Counseling and Spanking Sessions that I give both the daughters and the moms.  Again, many years ago, I did spank a 16-year-old girl and her mom who lived in Florida as a live-in mentor for about 3 years.  I have reported about the spankings I gave them when the girl was 18 and in a community college, but actually I started spanking them when the girl was 16, as she asked me to, and her mom who was 34 when I first started spanking them.  

 While I greatly appreciate you recognizing my skills in spanking girls, and doing so in a very commanding and authoritative manner, I do not believe that there is anything I can do for you.  Again, over the past 10 years or so, I have had over 50 requests from boys (of many ages) to spank and whip them, and have never done so.  I am certain that I will not begin now.  

 I trust that you are not offended.  I told you the above report to let you know that it has nothing to do with spanking boys, it is just that I know from your request, that it is sexually-oriented, and I have absolutely no interest in sex whatsoever.  Whether I’m spanking a 16-year-old boy or girl, or a 21-year-old girl, or a 34-year-old girl, or a 40-year-old girl, or a girl of any other age, I have absolutely no interest in seeing her naked or spanking her naked over my knee.  She has to be naked when I spank her since that is the only effective spanking, and is the only way she will actually “learn her lesson” and become the obedient and behaving girl she is supposed to be and wants to be.  Spankings to me are very clinical with no sexual overtones, even when I use dildos and vibrators on girls.  Such use is for the purpose of evaluating a girls responsiveness and assuring her obedience, and I could care less how much she is enjoying the attention.  However, such is only done with girls who are 18+.  When I’m through, I always turn her over and whip and spank her, also in a very clinical manner.  When I spank a girl of any age, and especially one who is 16, it is very clinical and her mom is always watching.  

 I do wish you the best, and trust that you are not offended.  But, I do thank you for your message as it will provide me an opportunity to post a follow-up on my Blog to help further explain why I do not spank boys, and have not really spanked even girls for films for a few years now with the exception of Audrey Rose who I spanked last month.  I do spank girls during counseling sessions for discipline and punishment, but that is about it.  

 Best wishes, Headmaster Ken

Bob replied: 

Dear Headmaster Ken,

Thank you for your response, what a breath of fresh air. I had to take the chance and hoped to hear back from you, it had become important to me to try. As we reservedly tell each other (only for great reasons) at work: “You’re the best!”

Just one follow-up remark and then a question if you will.

There were zero sexual needs intended in my request, especially knowing what I did of your background. Had you responded in the affirmative, I would have expected to discuss compensation for your time and effort, again with total respect.

Question: Do you, by any chance, know of another man who thoroughly believes in the manner of spanking that you do, who would be open to discussion? I do get spanked and paddled weekly and have been for a year now but due to time limitations on his part find myself with the growing ache of submitting to something much more difficult / unbearable.

Sincerely, Bob, Detroit, MI

I replied as follows:

Dear Bob, 

 Thank you for understanding.  And my reference to sexual overtones simply comes from every single previous request that I have had from boys.  I am pleased that you do not have such expectations.  Although, even girls get excited when I spank them, or especially when I string them up to the ceiling in the Punishment Room for a whipping.  Girls always ask to be strung up and I always wondered why until one girl told me that it is because they get excited and wet when I am binding their wrists together and pulling them up overhead to a hook in the ceiling.  Other girls, several of them, have told me that they get excited and wet when they watch me remove my belt to use on them.  Of course, if I find out that they are too excited, I have to spank them for that.  

 I see that you allude to discussing my spankings of girls at your “work”, or at least that is what you appeared to say.  Hopefully, everyone is enjoying my movies and Blog.  

 As for others who might spank you, I would recommend the following link for Spanking in Detroit:  https://massagerepublic.com/spanking-female-escorts-in-detroit

It is an escort site, but, I can assure you that women will most likely spank you a lot harder than any man will.  Or just Google “Spanking Boys in Detroit“.  I do not know anyone personally in Detroit, but I am certain that there are many who would like to “assist” you!  

 Also, this applies to anyone else who is seeking to find someone near you to spank you, especially if you are a girl who cannot make it to Columbus, Ohio for my services or movies.  Of course, if you are a girl and want to be filmed getting spanked, contact me!  (OK, Mike, this is a plug for my movies!)  

 Best wishes, and thank you for your inquiry, 

Headmaster Ken

 

The following photo-story is instructive for both moms and daughters who are under 18:

The following photo-story is especially important for girls under 18 so that they learn to control themselves and learn from their spankings: 

I trust that this post has been informative and will help others in need of correction and punishment, and can contact me if they need some spanking-sessions. 

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Structure & Discipline for Daughter, Pamela—A Well-Run Home by a Loving Mom, Elaine

As shown here, this post is about a very loving mom, Elaine, who spanks her 14-year-old daughter, Pamela, when she misbehaves or is disobedient.  While I do not advocate for the spanking of children, since many families continue to do so, it is instructive for such families to validate the spankings they give, but to understand that such must be administered in a loving manner, and spankings are not beatings, but must be administered long enough for them to be effective.  Elaine believes that spankings should be for 10 to 20 minutes long as she holds Pamela over her knee and continues to spank her for a long time. 

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There have been many discussions concerning the pros-and-cons of spanking children.  We’ll consider those who are 13- to 17-years-old, and those who are 18+-years-old, normally 18- to 26-years-old.  I have many posts on this latter group, and they can be seen by clicking on the links cited below following the banner below asking for information on spankings by moms.

For those in the first group, 13- to 17-years-old, I believe that many arguments against spanking are refuted by the very nature of those in this group.  That is, Pol Pot and Mao Tse Tung actually recognized the nature of late teens—they are very physically-oriented.  They resolve problems by fighting.  Very few teens sit around philosophizing about their life and how they should settle disputes without fighting.  No, and especially girls, will just go out and beat up any girl they are mad at.  Too often we think that it is boys who fight, but in fact, girls are actually more prone to aggressive-fighting each other than boys are.  With boys, it is more of a structured activity; i.e., they will “agree to meet” at a certain time and place to fight.  With girls, they will just sneak up on another girl and beat her up!  This is what Pol Pot (The Killing Fields) and Mao Tse-Tung (Let a Thousand Flowers Bloom) recognized.  Give a teenager a tank and gun, and what will they do?  They’ll go and kill someone and take control of a village or community.  They are very physically-oriented, and only really respond to someone who will “beat” them or spank them to make them behave and do what they are told to do.  With Pol Pot, he let these teens travel the countryside and go into villages and take control and then kill anyone they wanted to kill.  With Mao Tse-Tung, he let the teenagers run amok and terrorize other citizens and get rid of anyone who did not support Mao.

To help her daughter the most, a mom must make her daughter bare her bottom and bend over her mom’s knee to be spanked.  The girl may not always be naked, but she must always be spanked on her bare bottom.

I previously posted reports about the structure and discipline programs for girls.  These described a number of different scenarios that occur in a variety of homes.  The report being posted here now is concerned with a very traditional spanking and discipline program in a strict, but not fanatically religious, Christian home, as are many homes in a religious Serbian community.  This is a home in which “Reasoned Spanking-Discipline” is administered.

I have posted many times about my own thoughts on the spanking of children—I do not recommend it.  However, from messages I have received from 14- to 17-year-old girls, and of girls who are 18- to 24-years-old, spanking girls of this age is quite common.  This post presents the report from a mom who does spank her 14-year-old daughter, Pamela, and my role as the mom’s, Elaine’s, Pastor who spanks Elaine, but not Pamela.  I never spank any girl who is not at least 18-years-old.  But, the spanking of younger girls is so common, that it is important to present a family in which such spankings are administered in a very reasoned manner.

As for my previous posts on Structure and Discipline Programs from 2013 can be found at:

http://spankedcoeds2.com/blog/2013/09/10/structure-discipline-program-for-girls/

http://spankedcoeds2.com/blog/2013/09/16/structure-discipline-program-for-girls-domestic-obedience/

http://spankedcoeds2.com/blog/2013/09/19/structure-discipline-program-for-girls-late-home-from-shopping-after-date-spanking-no-masturbating/

This current report is about Pamela and her mom Elaine who live in S. Carolina.

“We live in a small town — a very suburban middle-class environment.”

“Discipline in our family now is exactly the same as it was for me growing up in the 1970’s and 1980’s—spanking is part of the parenting tools that are used.  And spankings have always been used with Pamela, and the process for administering a spanking has remained the same—the same process that I had growing up; that is, she is taken to her room, her clothes come off and she goes over my knee to be spanked.  And this also includes the Pastor of our church who comes to our home to administer the spankings when necessary.   

Now, I do not spank Pamela as her “pastor”, because I am not actually her pastor.  At this time this family does not have a pastor who they can count on.  However, if they did, then the pastor would have every right to come into the home and spank Pamela as well as Elaine, since he would have more of a “family” relationship than I am who is just a counselor.  And, when the pastor spanks Pamela, he would do so the same way as Elaine does; i.e., take her to her room, remove her clothes and take her over his knee and spank her.  However, this ritual may also vary, and is often different in other homes, where the girl is just made to bare her bottom and bend over to be spanked.

“As a single mom, I cannot always give Pamela the hard spankings she needs, and I count on the Pastor to help me with that.  One important reason for the Pastor coming to our home is so that he can also administer the spankings that I need to help me be a better mother, to take proper care of the home, to control Pamela properly, to spank her properly, to behave myself by keeping myself under control in a responsible manner and being held responsible for Pamela’s behavior.  That is, if Pamela misbehaves, especially in public, then it reflects poorly on me and my lack of control of her and her behavior.  When that happens, not only does Pamela need to get spanked, but I also need to be spanked for lacking my parenting abilities.  After I am spanked, I am then lectured and instructed on what I am to do so that I become a better parent, a similar lecture and instruction that Pamela receives to improve her own behavior.”

Although Elaine is a single mom, there are times also when married moms may need the help of their Pastor in disciplining their daughters.  

The Pastor has a higher authority in the home than either the mom or dad, and when the Pastor comes in, his orders must be obeyed, and his correction will carry more weight than if the mom or dad just administer a spanking.  When the Pastor tells a girl to get her clothes off and bend over his knee, she will quickly obey with no resistance.  And, as he spanks her, she will hold her position until he is done with her bottom.  The mom and dad will watch approvingly as their daughter is properly spanked and corrected.  Then when the Pastor finishes the girl’s spanking and makes her kneel in front of him to be lectured about what is expected of her, she will listen better as she continues to cry.  Also, if the mom has been responsible for controlling the daughter but has not done so, then the dad will take the daughter to her room to wait, as the Pastor orders the mom to get her clothes off and bend over his knee for her own spanking to help her focus on her responsibilities in controlling her daughter. 

Concerning giving a girl a proper spanking, Elaine wrote to me concerning the proper spanking-position for a girl.  She wrote:  

“This is how I envision me when you take me to my bedroom to be spanked.  And, that is how I always spank Pamela.  I want to be treated as the naughty girl that I am when I do not take proper care of my home or spank Pamela as I should.  As our Pastor, we must submit to you for our spankings as you order, and we must obediently bend over your knee to be spanked when ordered.  I know that when Pamela turns 18, that you will also be spanking her, and I will train her properly so that she always presents her bare bottom to be spanked as ordered.  She must learn that her Pastor has total control of her.”

She provided the following photo:

“When I had to be spanked, Mom or Dad sat on the edge of my bed and draped me over their knee.  Spankings were almost always with the palm of the hand, slapping my bare bottom and backs of my thighs.  A wooden hairbrush was also used, but it was only used for severe infractions.  My parents slapped at a constant pace, alternating between left and right buttocks.  This went on, without stopping, until the spanking was over.  A spanking meant 10-20 minutes, and I pretty much cried and bawled throughout the whole time!  For me, a “time out” meant being put in a wooden chair (no arms) upstairs in the hallway for a given amount of time.  I guess this was our form of corner time.  The chair was next to a small desk in the hallway, the back up against the wall.  Being put in the timeout chair was something that happened regardless of how old I was.  Even when I went to college, I could still be found in the timeout chair after a spanking, spankings that I continued to receive for misbehaviors, disobedience, poor academic performance, and so on.  Our church was a small Protestant church in the neighborhood.  Our Pastor was invited to our home to discuss my behavior.  He was told about the timeout chair and he told me to go and stay there until he finished talking with my parents.  They told him how they punished me with spankings, mouth-washings, corner time, and so on.  Then he said that to control me better, I should be given some very definite rules to follow and be spanked if I failed to follow them.  He gave me definite chores to do in the home.  He said that I had to get all “A”- and “B”-grades in school.  He said that I had to be home during the week by 5:00 to help with dinner, and could not go out after dinner.  He said that I had to behave myself as mom and dad told me to behave.  He said that I had to be in church every Sunday morning and at Bible class every Wednesday evening.  He said that I had to obey anyone who was in charge of me at home or outside the home, like when I babysat, went to a friends’ home, went shopping or wherever I went.  He said that especially when I went to babysit the girl I did every Saturday afternoon, that if I did not take care of the home properly, or the girl, that I would have to be spanked by her parents, and he would tell them to do so.  And, when they spanked me, I would be spanked just I would be at home—I would be taken to a bedroom, made to take my clothes off and bend over the dad’s knee to be spanked.  Then, after the Pastor finished talking with us, to make sure that I would obey, I had to get undressed and bend over his knee to be spanked.  After that, I became much more obedient and always behaved much better, even though I still got spanked frequently, and a few times when I babysat on Saturday.  Whenever the Pastor came to spank me or any girl, we had to be completely obedient to him.  If he inspected us, which he did, we had to get undressed and kneel to be inspected or do whatever else he wanted to do with us.  When he wanted to spank us, we had to bend over his knee in a very passive and obedient manner and hold our position until he was done spanking us, and so on.”

How often a girl is spanked, depends on what is intended.  The ritual punishment session and spanking described below actually is designed to minimize the number of spankings a girl is given, since it takes a lot of time and effort, and most disciplinarians do not have the time to administer them.  Also, it helps so that a girl is spanked only when she really needs it, and otherwise is given other punishment, like simply lecturing her, sending her to her room for a period of time, sending her to do corner-time, given a short 5- to 10-minute spanking, or some other punishment that does not take a lot of time and effort on the part of the disciplinarian.  (Click on the following photo-story to enlarge it).

The effectiveness of focused spankings is stated clearly by a girl who receives them:  

“A very hard spanking shakes me into this place of being responsible and feeling like the punishment is useful!  I become hyper-obedient and jump immediately to obey when I am told to do something.  That is how a girl should respond.  After I am given a very hard focusing-spanking, and I am screaming and crying convulsively, and my bottom is red, bruised and blistered, it is a cathartic experience and I know that I had better behave myself and be obedient, or I will be right back over my Daddy’s knee receiving another very hard blistering spanking.  Spankings do work when administered properly; that is, hard and long, for at least 10 minutes, but most often for 20 minutes or longer.”

And, spankings are very important for helping a girl to get good grades in school.  See the following photo-story:

Elaine says that she has a time-out chair sitting in the hallway where Pamela is sent to sit when ordered.  This may often be used for her corner-time, or just when Elaine wants her under control.  I have recommended that such chair be placed in the foyer to the home and is also used for immediate spankings that may be required.

Also, I will often make a girl to assume other positions than OTK.  One that is excellent is to make her bend over the end of her bed.  Although in the following movie I am spanking Kyndall with my hand, such position is also excellent for the use of a strap, paddle, hairbrush, or any other desired implement.