This 19-year-old girl, almost 20, Jemma Michelle, who is a young fiancé, continues to provide the extensive information that I want and need so as to be able to help other girls who are similarly situated. This is the 2nd installment of her report.
REPORTS THAT WILL NOT BE USED: I have also received several new reports on my Spanking Survey that will not be used since they just provide statistical information rather than personal experiences and the details that help other girls and are of more interest to everyone. While the new reports are interesting, and of value for my statistical surveys, from a 28-year-old girl, a 30-year-old girl, and a 23-year-old girl, in particular, they just describe the routine spankings and punishment of a girl, but no real specific details as Jemma Michelle provides. Jemma Michelle is a very special girl who is actually striving to be the best girl she can be, who is pleasing to her fiancé and appreciates all of the work he actually does in helping to train her properly to be his bride and wife. Many girls do not know how to serve properly to please their boyfriend/fiancé/husband, and need to be trained to please him properly. Jemma Michelle realizes this and appreciates the training that her fiancé provides her. I do have many messages from girls who want to be spanked hard and trained to be obedient, behave properly, and learn to provide desired sexual services. It is not obvious for a girl to know what to do, and, as will be seen in this post, there are many spanking and loving positions that a girl must learn, there are a variety of implements that help to punish a girl properly, and there are a variety of items that contribute to a properly spanked and trained girl.
I hope to have a series of the spankings and training of a young fiancé girl and a follow-up with her as a young bride. We’ll see what can be done, but for now I just need more detailed information about such girls.
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Our young fiancé has updated her report to me and is providing a lot of interesting information that should be helpful for other girls, and interesting to everyone. She wrote:
I really don’t mind if you use my name. I would actually prefer it if you did. It would make me feel special…
And Jemma Michelle, her real name, is very special—she is very forthcoming in terms of how she is disciplined and punished, and how much she appreciates her fiancé, James, in providing that discipline and punishment, as well as the training he is providing her in helping her to become the best bride she can be for his pleasure and her own.
I’m just giggling to myself thinking about what would happen if my parents would wonder if it was me if they read this post. I don’t even know if they read blogs! Maybe we could find out?
And I did ask her to provide an email of her parents for me and I would send them a link! But she has not provided one yet!
In regards to a “Punishment Room”, we don’t really have one [in the home where she and James live]. We have a chest in front of our bed that acts as a toy box, and a few implements around the house. Frequently I am sent to my bedroom to get ready to be spanked, so, to that extent, I guess our bedroom is my Punishment Room.
As shown below, a chest in the bedroom can be used for many different purposes.
A paddle is hanging up in the kitchen, and a hand carved spoon, but in regards to a punishment room per say, nope, other than my bedroom.
Hanging a paddle and strap on the inside of a closet bedroom door, which some girls have to do, helps to remind the girl every day when she opens her closet door what happens to her bottom if she misbehaves or is disobedient. Also, hanging a strap and paddle on the wall beside her bed or dresser serves the same purpose. Of course, if, as with Jemma Michelle, she is often spanked by her mom, then hanging a paddle in the kitchen makes it very convenient for her mom and, again, “reminds” Jemma Michelle every time she sees it what happens to her bottom if she does not help with the kitchen chores that have to be done. One girl had to keep a hairbrush on her dresser that was not used for her hair, but for her bottom and reminded her each day to behave properly or it would be used on her. When it was, she was sent to her bedroom to get undressed and wait. When her dad came in, she had to hand him the hairbrush and then bend over his knee to be spanked.
The following 7½-minute video shows 3 different spankings of Mila in 3 different positions, one of which is a hairbrush spanking in her bedroom. These spankings also show the loving-attention that should be given to a girl, even as she is being spanked hard.
We have kinda sorta punishment places … the chair by the fire place, the couch in the den, the kitchen table chairs which I have to occasionally fetch and bring to either the living room or bedroom… honestly I don’t know why we just cannot leave the chair in the bedroom … ha-ha.
The bedroom is an excellent Punishment Room. See photo-story below.
As for chair placement, a chair placed in the foyer to the home makes it convenient to spank a girl when she most needs it. See photo-story below.
If he sends me to any room it’s typically the bedroom. If I am told to “dress” for my spanking, I can get to be a little creative … corset – leggings – makeup and I always lay out the implements on the end table nice and neat. But typically when I’m told to “dress” for a spanking it’s never just a spanking, it’s followed by love – training and teaching.
One 18-year-old girl was very direct when she asked me to spank her, punish her, and train her:
I need sexual training, obedience training, domestic training, and submission training. I need to have vaginal sex training and sucking training, and I do want submission training and need to be dominated and controlled to obey sexually and domestically–and to be severely spanked when I disobey or misbehave.
I need to be told what to do domestically and sexually and spanked hard if I disobey–and I mean really hard! Regardless of how much I scream and cry, you are to keep on spanking me until you think I have been punished enough. I want the prolonged and sustained spankings that you administer–10 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes or longer! I do need to be made to be submissively obedient and need to be required to give oral sex on demand, and vaginal sex on demand. If I am ordered to bend over and present myself to be used, then that is what I must do. If I am told to kneel and suck, then that is what I must do. I must open my mouth to receive my Master, suck properly–suck hard and stroke slow–then receive his cum and keep my mouth open until he orders me to swallow, and then open my mouth again to show him that I have obeyed. If I disobey any order, I must be severely spanked.
I understand that you are in control of me from the moment I walk in the door. And I know that I will have to immediately remove my clothes and that you will take my clothes and hide them from me so that I will remain naked unless you order otherwise. I know that you are my Master and I must obey you and be spanked and whipped hard if I disobey you, or just any time that you want to spank or whip me, I must bend over as ordered and keep my bottom in position until you are through with me. And I know that after I am spanked I will have to suck my Master. I have been resistant in providing sexual services for my fiancé and need to have my bottom worn out until I immediately obey when told to present myself for sexual use. And, I know that this is all part of my training to be the submissive girl I want to be and am supposed to be. I am being sent to you by my fiancé so that you can train me to be a proper girl who is obedient at home and will serve my future husband as he orders and to take care of the home as I should and to be polite and submissive in public when he takes me to parties and out for dinner, and when we have guests in the home. And, I must learn to present myself for a spanking in front of company since my fiancé does spank me in front of guests and will continue to do so after we are married, but I resist now and need to submissively present my bottom as he orders for my spankings.
I know that you will have to just blister my bottom hard to make me obey and expect to have my bottom red, bruised and blistered as many times as it takes to make me obey. I need to be roughly handled, used and abused just any way that you want to use and abuse me, and spank and whip me hard and severely as many times as you want.
We scheduled an 8-week training program, after which she was returned to her fiancé as a well-spanked and trained girl.
James (yes that is his real name) pushes my limits. I’m younger and have no idea what I am capable of, so I guess in a way I am very absorbed in pleasing him. However it’s not just our home that I’m punished in … my parents’ home doesn’t have a specific punishment room either. But much the same as my home now it is kitchen chairs, recliner and couch that are used for my spankings as I am made to bend over as told. Sometimes I was spanked OTK on my bed. And that happens here at home as well—I am sent to our bedroom and James comes in and takes me over his knee and spanks me. Just no stuffed animals and posters to be strong for.
As noted in the following photo-story, sometimes a girl must get her bottom “prepared” to be spanked by having hot water sprayed on her bottom and then have a heat-ointment rubbed onto each cheek. When this is done, however, she must still be spanked just as hard as if her bottom had not been prepared, since the point of preparation is so her spanking will hurt more. The intensity of the strokes must be just the same, or even harder, than if her bottom had not been treated.
My parents always kept my underwear on until they found out that James was spanking me on my bare bottom. Ever since it’s been bare bottom. However there was and still is a tempo. I still get “Ready” for my spankings the same way, pants off and folded… and they always start on my underwear, they just now have doubled in time, as once my mother or father pulls them down they inspect to see how the spanking is going, they no longer wet my underwear (every time) with water to make the spanking more impactful and (my suspicion is that since I was only allowed to wear white) to make them see thru. James as well typically starts the same way – but still enjoys soaking, SOAKING, my underwear with near boiling misty water that he gets out of the Hot tap, followed by him pulling them hard up exposing my cheeks and reapplying the hot water (and if I used or he used the heat cream before it seems to just make it so much worse – open pores… maybe?) then off they come. Depending on how loud I am in screaming and crying they get balled up and put in my mouth. If they come out of my mouth before I am asked to take them out of my mouth, I get extra implements – time – or just spanked really, really hard.
In terms of positions, my parents always spanked me OTK or bent over a chair, the bed or couch, legs together. And for keeping my future attitude and ethics in check, that was their job and they got very efficient at it with my spankings. When my fiancé came along and spanked me on my bare bottom the first time it changed the clothing aspect of things….. Once I moved in with him, he started to spread my legs. He got more and more comfortable with this and soon after the next time we were at my parents he found a reason (a good reason) to spank me after supper—on the panties first – legs together, but then they came down, came off and he trapped one leg and spread them apart so he could spank me more thoroughly between my cheeks. I was so red, I think my whole body blushed as James did that.
When I looked back, my mother had a very noticeable smile. She even went into the kitchen to grab (my most feared items) the large spoon and the cord from the toaster. From the hand to the spoon to the cord… I couldn’t stop crying and begging… and when it came time, James slowed down and rubbed my backside with me still over his knee. My parents watching… and my mother came up and asked to take a look at my bottom. And called over my father.. They both felt the welts and my mom disappeared for a minute, put an egg timer on the table and told James that I needed about 5-6 more minutes of the spoon, and to turn it around and “Touch up” my thighs with it. I was in agony, and that was the last time I would ever speak out about my mother’s cooking.
Regarding Jenna Michelle’s mom and her enjoying spanking her, she is not alone. Several years ago when I was teaching karate, I had one of my girl students come to me and complain that her mom was spanking her. I always liked working with this girl since whenever she reported to me in my office in her ghi (karate uniform), she immediately knelt in front of me with her back straight and crossed her arms behind her back. Well, the first thing that happened was that I made her stand up, hand me the Punishment Hairbrush, drop her bottoms and bend over my knee. One of the first lessons in karate is that you do not complain about anything, especially getting hit. She received the normal 10-minute, hard hairbrush spanking. Then, with her screaming and crying, she was back kneeling on the floor. After she got herself under control, I told her to just accept her mom spanking her as part of her karate training in accepting whatever beatings she had to take. After all, if she could not take a spanking from her mom, how was she going to take being punched hard in karate? The spanking I gave her aside, the point is that there are many girls who are being spanked by their mom’s, or their mom wanting to watch them get spanked by someone else than you might think. I spent over a year in Florida mentoring and spanking an 18-year-old girl who had just started community college and asked me to make sure she did well in school, knowing that she would have to be spanked frequently in order to get the grades she needed and behave as she should. She lived with her single mom who could no longer spank her as she needed. However, when I spanked her, her mom was right there to watch, and when I thought she had been spanked enough, her mom would tell me to spank her for another 5 minutes or so and to spank her harder. I have had several such reports. So, yes, Jenna Michelle’s mom probably does like to spank her or watch her being spanked.
I am spanked with me on my back legs up, OTK, laying down, bent over (arm of chairs or side of bed) touching my toes and laying down doing the middle splits is James’ favorite. OTK with both legs trapped if I’m squirmy or one leg trapped and spread.
Some of these positions are shown below.
In terms of implements, Hand is a favorite, belts, wood paddle no holes, spoons, short, cord (but it’s really rare I get that) ruler, hairbrush… I’m most definitely forgetting things. Once or twice when we went camping I cut switches. But James likes “THUDDY” implements.
It could be that if the Dragon Flogger replaced the toaster cord that it would be used more often, and Jemma Michelle would receive a more effective spanking between her bottom-cheeks.
Most recently my mom and I went to a few different bakery’s looking at wedding cakes, the first one had me convinced that going with cupcakes were the way to go. So we tried a few samples and they were amazing, omg I was sold. They were the least expensive option and I knew my fiancé would say yes just with that in mind. I thought they were adorable and the whole fact that they would even be in their own boxes. Loved it, loved it, loved it! The second place we went to had typical fondant cakes, and though I was kind to the baker I did have some “holier than thou” attitude toward him… and was fairly unimpressed with the product. Although my mother twisted her face a bit at me I felt that I didn’t cross the line. But I was getting a little cranky at this point and by the time we got to the 3rd bakery I was out of patience….. And after trying the vanilla version cake I uttered a little too loudly “this is terrible” and spat it out into a napkin, I thought discreetly, and that no one had noticed.
When a girl is in public, it is important that she watch her manners and be respectful toward others. When a girl behaves as Jemma Michelle did at the bakery, I would do much more than just give her a strict look, I would immediately take her to the car and spank her. See the photo-story below.
Of course, the severity of the punishment depends on what the girl has done and how bad she is.
Well on our way back to my fiancé’s and my house, I gushed about how great the cupcake place was and how I was so happy they were inexpensive and omg they tasted so good! My mother said very little in the car ride home, very little other than to say she thought they were all upstanding places and that I should be happy with any one of them. I had a feeling that I might be in trouble, my bottom tingled a bit just thinking about it, and I didn’t want that so I invited my mom for tea at home. The second we got out of the car I knew I had screwed up. She sternly asked me to put the kettle on. And then called my fiancé at work. She explained to him that I had insulted the baker in his shop, had spat his cake out in front of him and had said quite loudly that what he had made for me was “terrible“. I really (and I’m sorry if your reading this, mom) I really thought I whispered that but it makes no difference it was unacceptable. My mother then handed me the phone, and after saying that I was here at home, I was instructed by him to go to the bedroom and to hand my mother the Heat cream, hairbrush and the wooden spoon. And then he hung up.
When a girl is going to be spanked at home for her misbehavior in public, it is important for her to immediately get ready to be spanked as soon as they get home.
Quickly I went to the bedroom, not even excusing myself from the kitchen where my mom was and hurriedly tried to find what I was instructed to find and in my rush I grabbed the paddle, the spoon, the heat cream, and the hairbrush and brought them quickly to the kitchen. My mother was pouring the boiling water into a spray bottle, the same one we use on our dog when he barks at the neighbors across the street. And as she was midway through pouring the water, asked me to get “Ready”. So somberly but briskly I took down my jeans and folded them placing them on a kitchen chair.
It is also important for a girl to fold her clothes neatly when she takes them off and place them neatly where they belong.
My white underwear was the only thing that would come between her and me for a while I hoped. And as my mom pulled out the kitchen chair she asked me to turn around and touch my toes. The second my hands met my feet she started to soak my panties with hot, hot water. I knew they were now see thru. And my bottom was going for warm to hot as she continued to soak them for what must have been 2 to 3 minutes. And that’s when she took them down – then off and dried my bottom with the front side of my underwear. Then she immediately applied the heat cream, while explaining how the hot water would open the pores and that this way the cream would work fully and more effectively till my fiancé came home to finish the job.
Actually, getting a girl’s bare bottom very hot and wet before applying the heat-cream is important for just the reason Jemma Michelle explains—it helps to open the pores of her skin, which will let the heat-cream sink in more, which will make her bottom more sensitive and, therefore, her spanking will hurt more—the purpose of a spanking.
Then over her knee I went, my bottom well warmed at this point, before she even applied a single spank I already had a fire on my backside. And then she brought the paddle down onto my bottom. I squirmed and squealed as it felt like she had a branding iron. I begged her to stop for what felt like hours… and then the oven beeped… she told me to kneel… as she got up to reset the oven timer… and then started with the hairbrush. My makeup was running, I couldn’t control myself so she trapped one of my legs with hers and used the other one to spread mine apart, spanking my bottom and my upper thighs till once again the oven went off… again, she told me to kneel… then she came back and asked why I had brought a 3rd implement… and in between sobs I tried to explain that it was an accident. But she just smiled at me and said “Over.. Now“, spreading my legs once more, she turned the spoon around and used the flat handle to spank between my cheeks where the brush and paddle didn’t reach effectively.
Jemma Michelle’s parents and fiancé know how to administer a proper spanking so that it covers a girl’s entire bottom. Too often the inner-cheeks are missed as well as the upper thighs and the inner-thighs. For effective punishment, all areas of a girl’s bottom should be spanked—which I’m sure Jemma Michelle can attest to.
I was beyond sobbing and bucking. I accepted what had happened and I would never do it again. And that’s when she asked me to get up and sit down… she poured me some tea and then passed over to me a piece of the same cake I had called terrible. And as I ate the cake with tears streaming down my face she asked me: “How is it?“. And I said: “I think we just found our wedding cake!”
To punish a girl properly, she should probably be crying convulsively, as Jemma Michelle does, since then she will be very hyper-obedient for several days to a week or more after that. If she just cries, even crying freely, she will not be hyper-obedient and will have to be spanked much more often. So, after a girl is spanked, it is important to determine if she has learned her lesson, and, if not, she needs to be spanked some more.