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It’s good to hear from you and the important questions that you are asking.
When I spank girls for discipline and punishment, they always feel better about it when they knew that other girls were also being spanked. Although they wanted and needed to be spanked, they thought that there may have been something “wrong” with them. There wasn’t.
Of course, not all girls who are 18+-years-old get spanked, but more than one might think. Even those who are not spanked and think that they are too aggressive to be spanked, find out that they may not be as aggressive as they believe. I was staying overnight with a girl who was 20 years old who thought that she was not submissive and did not want to be controlled in any way. Well, shortly after we went to bed, in separate rooms, I got up, went to her room, took her by her wrist and dragged her back to my room. I pulled her nightgown up and pulled her down over my knee and spanked her. I then made her suck me to climax and swallow. When I finished with her, she knelt in front of me and put her arms around me and hugged me, saying that she was very surprised how good my treatment of her made her feel. She “liked” the control and made her feel good about herself when I did control her and make her present her bottom to be spanked. She got very excited and wet and crawled back over my knee, spread her legs and raised her hips and thrust her clit into my hand. I stroked her and thrust my hand into her until she also climaxed. The point is that there are many girls who believe that they are “dominant” only because they have not been controlled and spanked in a very submissive manner that is both rewarding and satisfying—in a loving way, not abusive.
Even during a business meeting one time in my office with 4 other guys and a girl, one of the guys said something that indicated his commanding position and control of a situation. The girl remarked: “I like a man who takes charge!” It was a very awkward moment, since none of us was expecting it and it did come across as a submissive girl who wanted to be controlled. And, there are many women who are managers and supervisors, or owners of their own business who on the weekends seek out a man who will dominate them, spank them and control them for the weekend. One girl I knew wanted to be taken to a cabin in the Hocking Hills here in Southeastern Ohio to be made to strip naked and be kept in the cabin all weekend as she was made to do various chores both inside and outside, still naked, and be repeatedly spanked, bound and whipped. After controlling everyone else all week, she wanted to be the submissive that someone else would control.
The point here is that, no, all girls are not spanked, but there are probably a lot more who are not but want to be than we might suspect.
Now, in my own research I am concerned with whether or not girls who are 18+-years-old are still spanked-at-home for discipline and punishment. (I am not concerned with girls who are spanked for sex.) Although spanking is not as common as it was once for girls under 18, a great number are still being spanked-at-home. But, for those over 18, I have determined that for girls who are 18- to 24-years old, there are over 2,300,000 girls in the U.S. who are still being spanked-at-home. Add in those who are 18- to 40-years-old, and the total goes to about 3,500,000. So, on that point, you are in very good company. (In addition to you, I have also had long email exchanges with other “older” girls who are still being spanked, some of the more recent ones are 36, 32, 41, and 38 years old. The 36-year-old was being spanked by her aunt, and we communicated about her spankings for more than a year. The 38-year-old was being spanked by her husband; the 32-year-old by her boyfriend, and the 41-year-old by her husband and dad.) World-wide, the percentage of girls who are over 18 being spanked is even more than in the U.S. In Africa (Ghana, Nigeria, Eretria, and Ivory Coast, in particular), Singapore, Serbia, Hong Kong, Pakistan, Egypt, and some other countries, a good majority of girls are still being spanked-at-home as well as at work. Especially in the African countries I just cited, girls are frequently spanked at work, especially if they are providing domestic services. Even in the U.S., however, there are girls who are spanked at work, and expect to be. When I had girls working for me, I would take them to the back office, make them get undressed and bend over my knee to be spanked with a paddle if they did not work properly or were late getting to work. I have known of other girls who also were spanked at work in various states around the country. Probably not too many anymore, but in early America, girls were frequently spanked at work.
Do all girls get spanked?
Is it common for girls?
That depends on what you mean by “common.” Are the majority of girls who are over 18 spanked? No. Is the spanking of girls much more common and frequent than what we might think? YES! As you know, girls who are actually being spanked, most often do not tell anyone that they are being spanked, so it is difficult to know. I have my statistics since girls know that I spank girls and know that they can confide with me in confidence, just as you do.
Should every single girl on the planet be spanked by their dad or husband or teacher or boyfriend?
No. Definitely not! The problem is that most guys (whether dads, husbands, teachers, or boyfriends) simply do not know the difference between a spanking, a soft patty-cake slap (which is totally ineffective), and a beating (which is abuse). You have, more-or-less, experienced some of the differences. Now, not spanking a girl hard enough is just as wrong as spanking her too hard. I have messages from a lot of girls who complain that they cannot find a guy who will actually spank them! They want to be spanked, but in our society, men have been conditioned to believe that they should not spank a girl, and when the girl begins to cry, most will stop spanking the girl, whereas that is when they need to be spanked harder. So, the problem is to find a man who knows how to administer a very firm and hard spanking that is effective. The problem is also that most men just do not know how, and should not do it. Further, I have had messages from men who say that every man who spanks a girl does so for some sexual interest. Such is just not the case. I get no satisfaction whatsoever out of spanking a girl. I spank a girl because that is what she needs and wants in order to make her behave better, succeed in school and work, and to be obedient.
Maybe there are girls that aren’t being spanked that should be.
Yes, that is true. Again, I’ve had messages from girls who want and need to be spanked, but cannot find a man to do so. And, there are girls who know that they need to be spanked, but are afraid to ask for it.
How many girls on the planet are being spanked regularly, all of them?
My main concern is with those girls who are 18- to 24-years-old. Of those, there are approximately 52,300,000 girls being spanked in the world. Add in girls who are 18- to 40-years-old, and the total goes to about 79,600,000. The numbers are probably more than that, since obtaining stats from African countries, in particular, is very difficult, but, clearly, practically all girls in most of these countries are being spanked regardless of age, and they can be spanked by others than there dad, etc. So, the total is most likely over 100,000,000 for 18- to 24-years-old, and more if the older girls are included. For example, in Eretria, a girl can be spanked by her dad, husband, grandmother, and boss … all at the same time. If she gets spanked at work, her husband is called and she will get whipped hard when she gets home. If her husband spanks her, she may also get spanked by her dad or grandmother. In many African countries, extended families live in the same home, and often the grandmother is the one who does the spanking. And, frequently, a horse-tail-whip will be used on the girl. [See attachment.] When the grandmother is going to give the spanking, the girl is called into a room where she has to remove her clothes and stand in the center of the room with her hands behind her head. The grandmother then sits in a chair beside her and uses the horse-tail-whip to spank the girl for as long as she wants. And the girl can be of any age, under 18, over 18, a wife or whatever. The grandmother is in charge of the home and the girls will obey when told that they have to be spanked.
I am beginning to realize that I am supposed to be spanked, that it is good for me to be spanked, that I need to be spanked, and that I even want to be spanked.
This is good. You will now start learning to be a better girl, to behave better, to be more obedient, and to do better in everything you do. Girls do need, in particular, Maintenance Spankings and Preemptive Spankings. With your attitude, you should be getting more of these. Also, they need to be more closely supervised and punished more often with Punishment Spankings. Too often, when a girl is disobedient or misbehaves, she is not spanked and the same behavior continues, and, more important, she does not “feel” right. She knows that she should have been spanked, and when she isn’t, she gets frustrated and it results in more misbehaviors and feelings of guilt or just not feeling right. However, when a girl is given a Punishment Spanking, she knows that her disciplinarian cares for her, that she is loved, and that others do care about how she behaves and want her to do better.
I think there are some girls out there that really need to be spanked and don’t even know it.
As noted above, that is correct!
Maybe every single girl on the planet should have to stand completely nude every week before the male in her life and be spanked by whoever that male is, someone in her home or even a city official.
Whether it is every single girl or not, most should be evaluated, inspected and spanked each week during a Discipline & Punishment Session. I have reported on some girls who have written to me about being spanked by the head-official in the commune where they live, or by a pastor. Each girl in the commune has to report to the leader of the commune once a week to be evaluated and spanked for any misbehavior or disobedience. As you say, the girls have to report, take their clothes off as they enter his office and stand at-attention as she is lectured and her behavior is evaluated. As required, she is then made to bend over to be spanked with a paddle or strap. Some have a “spanking-horse” or other type of furniture that is used to bend the girl over. The girl who had to report to her pastor each week, after stripping naked and being evaluated and lectured, had to kneel in a chair to present her bottom to be spanked. Also, in one commune, the girls had to do the farm chores or were assigned to do chores in a home. If they were not working properly, they would be called to the edge of the field, made to take their clothes off and bend over the Overseers knee to be spanked before being sent back crying to work. Girls in Eretria who helped with the fishing along the shore are taken to the side of the beach, stripped naked and taken over the knee and spanked. Getting spanked by an Overseer or your HOH is possibly more common throughout the rest of the world than here, but even here, there are many who have to report to their husband or disciplinarian to be evaluated and spanked each week. [It is a little-known fact that in early America, a parent could actually kill their daughter for disobedience. Some states had to enact laws to protect the children. “Child-Protection” was much different at that time than it is now.] And, in addition to being evaluated and spanked, some are also very carefully inspected. [See below.] In addition, it is important that a girl is given Proprietary Spankings and Submission Spankings at least once a week. Proprietary Spankings are given to let the girl know that her disciplinarian “owns” her and she will be totally obedient to what he tells her to do. Submission Spankings are given to obtain just what it says—the girl’s submission to control by her disciplinarian. In fact, frequently a Submission Spanking is administered following her nude inspection to make sure that she will always undress as ordered and present herself as ordered to be inspected.
Maybe girls who live alone have to be spanked by the man-next-door but every girl must stand weekly nude before a man and be spanked.
Excellent observation. I have reports from several girls who are spanked by the next-door-neighbor, especially when her parents are not home. If she misbehaves outside when her parents are not home and the man-next-door sees her, he orders her into his house, strips her naked and spanks her. Or, with a girl who lives with her single mom, she needs the discipline of a man, and the next-door-neighbor provides the spankings when needed. In a couple of cases, the girl did report to him once or twice a week to be evaluated and spanked, normally on Saturday and one evening during the week. An uncle, grandfather, or older brother at times administers the required spankings. But, you are right that a man, even the one-next-door, should administer a spanking to a girl each week and she must present herself naked to him to be evaluated, inspected and spanked.
That could really do a lot of good and could solve a lot of problems and fix a lot of attitudes.
I am very pleased with your candid observations. One girl remarked that she and her close friends were spanked when they misbehaved, and that they were always more well-behaved and did better in school and at work than those girls who were not spanked. She said that the girls who were not spanked were always getting in trouble, did not do well in school, and generally just misbehaved a lot. Yes, spankings do fix a lot of attitude problems.
I know spanking is changing me, I can see it and feel it.
I am understanding that it is good for me to be spanked. It would be a pleasure for me as well to be bent over your knee completely nude for a 1,000-stroke nonstop spanking with a Ping pong paddle!
I am very pleased with you.
Have you ever spanked a girl that many times nonstop?
Yes. In fact, I had a girl in Laredo, Texas, one time who was a single mom and needed the control and discipline that I provided. One afternoon I spent 3 hours with her over my knee, off-and-on, spanking her. And, yes, I did during one stretch spank her continuously for 30 minutes … well over 1,000 strokes of a paddle. Actually, 1,000 strokes of a Ping-Pong Paddle will take about 17 minutes to administer, at 60-strokes/minute. In fact, I quite often administer more than 1,000 strokes to a girl. If I have a girl over my knee for anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes, I will probably administer at least 1,000 strokes. You will find that it is not all that difficult to be spanked that many times. Once I get going, I just keep on going and you just have to lay there and take whatever I give you. In fact, in my research, I have found that about 30% of the girls who are spanked are spanked for as long as their disciplinarian wants to spank them, and often it is for over 20 minutes, so they are receiving a lot of strokes of a paddle, strap, or whatever.
I read that and wanted that and get all wet and wiggled.
Yes, when getting ready to be spanked, many girls do get excited and do get wet. Most will not be wet too long after the spanking starts, but some are. One girl, in particular, even climaxes during her spanking. She is spanked almost every day by her aunt, who knows she gets excited, and even encourages it. But, she cannot climax unless her aunt allows her to, and if she does, she will get beat very hard with a paddle. But, her aunt may bring her manually to climax before spanking her, administer her spanking and then massage her to climax again. Or, at other times, she will pause during the spanking, bring her to climax, and then continue the spanking. The spankings are hard and they are for punishment and not sex, but many girls do get excited when thinking about being spanked. I have had several tell me that they get excited when I order them to get undressed and they get excited when they see me remove my belt. They just get excited as they prepare for their spanking.
I am now glad that I am being spanked daily instead of only once a week. And I am wondering if 100 strokes is enough. She did give me 200 in the morning and then 200 again in the evening but that was for only 3 days.
When you are spanked daily, you do get used to it, and you do need more than 100 strokes. And you should not be restrained. If you do not hold your position, then you should be spanked again harder with double the number of initial strokes. When I give a girl 500 strokes and she moves her bottom to avoid the spanking, an hour later I will spank her again with 1,000 strokes, but with a Punishment Hairbrush instead of my hand. This will make you more obedient and responsible. I believe that you should be getting 300 strokes of the Ping-Pong Paddle, which is a 5-minute spanking, whenever you are spanked. If you move to avoid your spanking or put your hand over your bottom, you should be spanked again an hour later with 600 strokes of the paddle, and you may be tied to hold you in position. I know of a few girls who are bound when they are spanked, but that is because they are hit very hard and would move if they weren’t, so binding them precludes having to administer another spanking later. Also, a couple of them were taken to the barn and made to bend over a spanking-horse and had their wrists and ankles bound in position as their dad used a strap to whip them. But also, if I spank a girl with her on her back and her legs-up and spread, I may bind her to help her keep her legs up. I start by making her hold them up, but, if necessary, I will bind her.
I was restrained for those and that does hurt more when you are stretched tight.
And, it is supposed to hurt more. I will bind a girl in the legs-up position if I want to inspect her closely, use a dildo or vibrator on her before spanking her, or will be spanking her very hard and want to keep her bottom in position for her spanking.
Oh man I want to be spanked right now!
Well, get down here and I’ll spank you off-and-on all day long … just whenever you get wet!
I wonder if I should ask for more than 100? Would that be a stupid question?
I don’t know how well you communicate. But, yes, you do need 300 strokes of the paddle each time, and you do need to be spanked at least twice a day, PLUS whenever you are disobedient or misbehave. For those spankings, you need to receive 500 strokes of the paddle.
I really do like my girlfriend being spanked too. She had already been watching me be spanked but now I get to watch her too. I would love for you to spank us both together!
Well, that’s up to you making it happen. It would be great spanking both of you and filming both of you being spanked even if your faces are not shown. See if the one controlling you would like to fund a movie of you two being spanked!