Slavegirl Control

There are over 200,000 American slavegirls being trafficked in the U.S. and around the world.  They are controlled with severe spankings and sexual subjugation, along with prolonged confinement and Behavioral-Therapy Control Techniques.  Two movies shown below depict some of the ways that slavegirls are controlled through spankings.  And, selling girls is more profitable than selling drugs, so the business has grown over the past few years.  Just be aware of how serious the problem is. 

Our concern, however, is with girls who want the control and spankings they need to help them be the submissive and obedient girl they want to be, and, most often, so that they do better in school, and serve their Master better domestically and sexually.  These are Consensual Slavegirls.  I have reports from several girls who want to be controlled so that they feel safe and loved, and behave properly as they desire.  Their reports will be provided in an upcoming post.  This current post simply shows how these girls, as well as trafficked slavegirls, are controlled through severe spankings. 

If you are a girl who needs such control to do better in school or personally or domestically, contact me and we will see what can be arranged.  Headmaster@SpankedCoeds.com.  

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I have had several requests from girls who want me to take them on as my Submissive Domestic-Slavegirl in order to help them behave properly and to be the submissive and obedient girl they want to be.  As shown below, as my slavegirl, you will be controlled by means of severe spankings and total control as you submit your body to my use as I order.  Click on the Title Frame to see the movie.

Consensual Slavegirl Reports will be provided in an upcoming post.

Slavegirl Trafficking, A Criminal Enterprise

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I have had several requests from girls who want me to take them on as my Submissive Domestic-Slavegirl in order to help them behave properly and to be the submissive and obedient girl they want to be.  They choose to be a Domestic-Slavegirl instead of a Daughter or other relation because they want to be severely beaten and punished when they disobey or misbehave.

However, these girls are distinct from the Human-Trafficking that goes on within the U.S. and around the world, and for which we definitely need a border wall to help stop such trafficking.  Or, possibly, politicians just want their own Slavegirls and cheap labor, especially Submissive Housegirls, that they let flow in across an open border.  Anyone who does not comprehend the function of a “wall”, especially a double-barrier, has no place commenting on its effectiveness.

First, a note about actual slave-trafficking.

Human Trafficking & Modern-day Slavegirls

The U.S. CIA estimates that 50,000 people are trafficked into or transited through the U.S.A. annually as sex slaves, domestics, garment, and agricultural slaves.

The United States is a destination country for thousands of men, women, and children trafficked largely from Mexico and East Asia, as well as countries in South Asia, Central America, Africa, and Europe, for the purposes of sexual and labor exploitation.

An unknown number of American citizens and legal residents are trafficked within the country, primarily for sexual servitude.

VICTIMS – If you are a Slavegirl Victim, seek help.  …  Maybe!

Be Careful!  In order to receive help, victims must first agree to cooperate in the criminal investigations of their abusers. This is not a viable option for most.  Those who cooperate may face retaliation from their exploiters or risk harm to their loved ones in their homelands.  Victims who come forward must also go through the arduous task of proving themselves survivors of “a severe form of trafficking.”  And they must demonstrate they would face extreme hardship if returned to their home country.

The toll-free National Human Trafficking Resource Center Hotline is available to answer calls in over 170 languages from anywhere in the country, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, every day of the year.

Call for help:  888-3737-888

Call 911 if you are experiencing an emergency.

However, help is available, but, again, be careful. 

I had to seek assistance from a U.S. Attorney when my wife was in Viet-Nam and she was threatened 3 times with being killed.  The U.S. Attorney did help and my wife got home safely.

I will be providing an update on Domestic Slavegirls in a future post:

Behavioral-Therapy & Attitude-Adjustment Slavegirl Spankings & Punishments. 

“Normal” Spankings of Girls

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The following 2 girls represent many of the spankings, punishments, and submissions that girls are given.  There is nothing really unusual about their spankings and enjoyments, just very basic attention to their bare bottom and demands for submission.

Girl #1:

I’m a 28-year-old girl who is still being spanked, although I was spanked the most when I was 24.  Other than being spanked, I am lectured when I misbehave or do not obey. 

NOTE:  Being lectured is most often given when a girl is spanked, both before, during and after.  The lecture helps to focus the girl’s attention on why she is being spanked, especially after her spanking when she is sent to do Corner-Time.  Frequently, I will continue to lecture the girl as she stands in the corner, as well as administer spankings as she stands there to continue to remind her what happens to her bottom when she misbehaves or disobeys. 

I only get spanked once or twice a week with a couple of spankings or so. 

NOTE:  This is probably normal when the disciplinarian is not actually living in the home.  If the disciplinarian (dad, mom, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.) is actually living in the home, then he/she will see more reasons to spank the girl, and she will be spanked 4 to 6 or 7 days a week with 5 to 15 spankings, rather than just a couple of spankings

My male neighbor is the one who spanks me when he checks up on me.  When I have to be spanked, he takes my clothes off so that I am naked as I go over his knee to be spanked, or made to kneel on my bed with my head lowered to the bed and my hips raised, or my hands clasped behind my head as he uses a yardstick, paddle or strap on me.  When he comes over to spank me, I do cooperate in letting him take my clothes off, although if I resist in any way, I will get spanked harder. 

NOTE:  Most often a girl should be made to take her own clothes off, since this will help her focus her attention on herself and the spanking she is going to get.  When the male neighbor, boyfriend, etc. takes the clothes off, it is more sexual and sensual.  With the male neighbor or boyfriend, such activity normally results in making the girl kneel and provide sucking-services after she is spanked.  With this girl, the male neighbor most likely does not engage in any sexual activity … since he only comes over 1 or 2 times a week

When he spanks me, he spanks me long and hard!  He will just keep on spanking me until I am crying for a long time.  He wants to hear me cry and will keep spanking me until he thinks I have been crying long enough.  He will administer a very hard spanking of up to 400 strokes!

NOTE:  Boyfriends normally do not give a girl a Punishment Spanking, since they do not want to “hurt” the girlfriend.  They do not want her to cry.  But, to be effective punishment, the girl must cry when she is spanked.  As with this male neighbor, he is not concerned about the girl’s feelings, but knows that she must cry when she is spanked.  And, as shown below, to be really effective, the girl must cry convulsively so that she has a cathartic experience after her spanking and she becomes very hyper-obedient. 

If I misbehave away from home, he’ll take me to his car, make me bare my bottom and crawl over his knee so he can spank me hard.  Then he takes me home and spanks me again! 

NOTE:  Repeated spankings of a girl who misbehaves away from home is critical in order to help her be the best girl she can be.  I have had many requests from girls who ask for just that.  They say:  “If I could not sit down after I am spanked, I would think twice before I misbehaved in public again.  I need you to really just blister my bottom good so that I become the good girl I want to be.” 

I get spanked for talking-back, swearing,  fighting with others, not doing my chores, not doing what I’m told to do, getting up late, drinking, not getting ready on time, having unauthorized sex, and not serving sexually as ordered.  And then, in addition to my Punishment Spankings, he just spanks me whenever he wants to with Just-Because Spankings, Maintenance Spankings, Preemptive Spankings, and Submission Spankings

NOTE:  Girl #1 is a well-spanked and properly disciplined and punished girl.

Girl #2

There are many “older” girls (those over 24-years-old) who are spanked by more than one person, as is this 30-year-old girl

Girl #2

I’m a 30-year-old girl who is still being spanked, although I was spanked the most when I was 28.

I am also given Corner-Time Naked, have my mouth washed out with soap, and am lectured.

NOTE:  As shown below, more girls should have their mouth washed out with soap, and done so as I do … with a soapy washcloth and toothbrush!  … And, of course, followed by a hard bare-bottom spanking

I am spanked 3 or 4 days a week with 5 to 10 spankings.   I am spanked by 3 men—my male neighbor, my boyfriend for punishment, and my male pastor.  And, I am spanked in front of all three.  And, I am spanked on my bare bottom in front of all three of them plus a male family friend.

When I am spanked, I have to take my own clothes off.  I may be wearing my clothes, but I have to take my panties off for my bare-bottom spanking.  I am most always spanked on my bare bottom.  I may just have to strip from my waist down, but quite often I have to remove all my clothes so I am naked when I am spanked.  Although in the evening I may have on my thin, sheer nighty which does not provide any real protection, but is more sensual for the spanker to enjoy!  But, even then, most often I will be naked and over his knee in the Inverted-V Spanking Position since my bare bottom will then be fully exposed and presented for my very hard spanking that I receive in the evening.

However, when I have to be spanked I do resist, but then, after I take my clothes off, I will be spanked much harder, and also be given a Disobedience Spanking later.

I am spanked with several different implements in addition to being spanked by hand.  I am spanked with a paddle, strap, belt, hairbrush, wood spoon and a stirrup strap.

I am spanked a lot because I misbehave a lot and get spanked for talking-back, swearing, and not doing what I am told to do.  But also, to make sure that I am always thinking about behaving myself, I am given Just-Because Spankings, Maintenance Spankings, Preemptive Spankings, Proprietary Spankings, and Submission Spankings.

When I am spanked, I normally only receive 50 to 100 strokes although at times it will be up to 300 when I have been very bad!  If I misbehave away from home, I’ll be spanked on my bare bottom in the car, and then spanked again when I get home.

 

SCAM ALERT!

Well, anyway, I trust that you enjoy the above photos!  Now scroll down to see what the scam is! 

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I just received an email from “Brian Miller”!  I have no idea who “Brian Miller” is.  However, he wrote me the following: 

Happy New Year! Hope you enjoyed your holiday? I need to get iTunes gift card for my niece, Its her birthday but I can’t do this now because I’m currently traveling. Can you get it for me from any store around you? I’ll pay you back when I get back home.  Thanks, Brian

Now, since when does “traveling” preclude someone from buying a gift card???  So, I replied:

Hi, Brian, 

I have CRS disease.  Who are you?  How do I know you?  

Thanks.

So, I do not know, but apparently someone is getting a commission off of selling iTunes gift cards!

Remember, that just because someone pretends to know you, does not mean that they do, and, in this case, they are attempting to get you to buy something.  Neat trick, I guess, if it works.  I just thought that I would pass this along.

But, as he says:  Happy New Year, and have a great 2018!  …  Of course, please go to my Spanking Library or Clips-4-Sale sites and buy my films!  That way, at least I can have a great New Year, and you will also as you enjoy some great spanking movies!  Just click on the banners shown above!

Emersion Performance Acting Methodology

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Method Acting, an acting methodology frequently used by Hollywood actors, is characterized by an “immersion” of oneself in the character, whereby their personality is changed to that of the desired character.

Emersion Methodology is characterized by an “emersion” (“emerging from”), a drawing out or presentation of oneself from a particular environment or activity—the scenario.  An “emersion” of oneself within a scenario is one in which you behave as you would naturally in that situation whereby you reveal yourself, your own identity, as being the actual character.  By so doing, the “performance” becomes a reality and the resulting film is in fact authentic and realistic.  Hence, the reason that my films are recognized for their authenticity and realistic portrayals of an actual punishment session … because they are real. 

Behaving normally in a “performance” is the foundation for the Emersion Methodology.  There have been Hollywood-type films in which this methodology has actually been implemented, although it was not named as such.  The Blair Witch Project is possibly the most well-known.  But, many years ago, a part of a Hollywood film implemented this methodology—Last Tango in Paris.  The following interview was conducted that described what happened: 

In a recently resurfaced video interview from 2013, Bertolucci confirms that Schneider, who died in 2011, did not know about the rape scene ahead of time, and that the graphic nature of the scene was improvised on set.

We were having, with Marlon, breakfast on the floor of the flat where I was shooting. There was a baguette, there was butter and we looked at each other and, without saying anything, we knew what we wanted,” the director said then. “I had been, in a way, horrible to Maria because I didn’t tell her what was going on.”    Bertolucci said he felt guilty about how he treated Schneider, but does not regret the scene.    Nothing in the resurfaced video is news as the director has been very vocal about his filming of the scene and how it affected Maria Schneider in multiple interviews over the years, most recently during a press tour for his last film “Me and You”, during which the YouTube video interview was shot.    He expressed roughly the same sentiment in a 2013 interview with The Telegraph: “No, I don’t feel guilty, but when she died I thought, God, I’m so sorry that I can’t apologize for what Marlon and I did with that scene and we decided not to tell her. Her sense of humiliation was very real, but I think what really offended her was that she didn’t feel she’d been allowed to prepare for the scene as an actress. But I wanted her reaction as a person, not as an actress.”

I wanted her reaction as a person, not as an actress“: 

That is the essence of

Nicole Kidman recently used Emersion Performance Acting Methodology in a film with Miles Teller.  See story below

Another article is accessed below.  Again, click on the image. 

So, there is a reason that my films are greatly appreciated throughout the world

 

 

Shelly, 19-years-old, lives South of Casper, Wyoming on a ranch

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Shelly reports that she is frequently spanked, even at 21-years-old.  In fact, she seems to be spanked more now than ever before, because much more is expected of her.  She is expected to behave properly, be obedient, and get her work and chores done as ordered.  She attends Casper College with a major in Animal Science.  And, this is the main reason she is spanked more now than before—she is expected to do exceptionally well in school, and when she doesn’t, she is spanked severely.  

She cannot go out in the evening during the week, and when she dates on Friday or Saturday she has to be home by 12:00—not a second later!  Hard paddle-spankings are immediately administered if she comes home past curfew.  See photo-story below. 

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She says that her dad is not very “creative” in administering her spankings, and that she just has to take her clothes off and bend over his knee, or bend over a Saddle Stand.  Most often, the only real difference is what he uses on her; his hand, paddle or strap, and how long he spanks her—from about 5 minutes to over 30. 

There are a variety of Saddle Stands on the market.  The best one for making a girl bend over to be spanked is probably the one shown below.

Although I do not have a Saddle Stand to bend a girl over, making her bend over a sofa-arm is just as effective.  See video below:

Now, although apparently 90% of the time Shelly is either spanked OTK in the kitchen, or bending over her Spanking-Saddle-Stand in the basement or in the barn, there do seem to be some variations in the spankings she receives, mainly determined by where she is spanked and why she is spanked.  Most often, of course, she is spanked in the kitchen or bending over the Spanking-Saddle-Stand.  But, in the kitchen, she may just be made to bend over the kitchen counter to be spanked.

Also, Shelly is expected to help her dad with his work by doing assigned projects in his home-office.  If she does not complete them properly and on time, he will strip her naked, lecture her, spank her as she stands with her hands clasped behind her head, and then whip her as she is made to bend over.

Shelly is also expected to be obedient to her boyfriend, not so much because of him, but to further her training in self-control.  When she is told to do something, she is expected to do it or get spanked.  Her boyfriend is also expected to spank her, but if he doesn’t, she will still get spanked at home.  And, when she comes home after a date, she must go to the kitchen and get her clothes off, ready to be spanked.  Her dating is not just for her to have some fun, but is part of her obedience training.

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To maintain total control of Shelly and to check up on her, every evening before bedtime, Shelly has to report to her dad at 10:30 in the evening so he can review her day.  This is a Daily Evaluation and Discipline Session.  She reports to him in the living room wearing her nightgown.  She kneels in front of him and tells him about her day, and he lets her know if she has gotten her chores done as expected.  Her schoolwork, in particular, is discussed.  Of course, she most likely has already been spanked during the day, and, as they discuss her day, there are other things she has done or not done for which she needs to be spanked.  There discussion normally takes about 30 minutes, and her schedule for the next day is established.  If she is going to have a test the next day, she knows that she will have to be up at 6:30 to receive her Preemptive Academic Spanking that she gets each day before a test.  After their discussion is finished, she is made to stand up and remove her nightgown and bend over her dad’s knee to be spanked for anything discussed during their session for which she needed to be spanked.

After she is spanked, she takes her nightgown and runs to her bedroom for her Before Bedtime Spanking that she receives any evening when she has been spanked during the day, or when there are things that were discussed for which she had to be spanked.  As a result, she is essentially given a Before Bedtime Spanking every evening.  These spankings are tailored according to her day … if she has been very bad during the day and had to be spanked 2 or more times, or if she did not get her chores done as expected, or some other serious misbehavior, then this spanking will be with a hairbrush and her dad will administer 500 strokes to each cheek.

On more “normal” days she will only receive 200 strokes to each cheek.  In the morning, her Preemptive Academic Spanking will be administered with 300 strokes to each cheek to make sure that she is very hyper-obedient and alert to what is expected of her on her test.  These spankings are not “punishment” but are to make sure the girl is very alert and focused.  Being hyper-obedient will mean that she pays closer attention to the instructions for the test and closer attention to each question or problem on the test.  As a result, she will do much better than if she goes in still groggy from sleep and not really focused.  Also, these spankings are similar to what a girl needs as she studies.  When she is sent to study, especially in the evening, she should be given an Academic Focusing Spanking before she goes, and then another one every 45 minutes to an hour as she is studying.  These spankings are administered with 100 strokes of a hairbrush to each cheek, or 200 strokes of a strap as she is made to bend over her study desk.

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Offering Me $4.5 Million!

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This is one of those money-scams where someone has purportedly been left millions of dollars by their dead husband, and they just want to give it away and have chosen “YOU” to just take the money.  All of you probably know about the scam, but, if not, just be aware that it is just that.  Actually one time the scammers sent me a check for $95,000.00.  All I had to do was deposit it and then I could collect the millions of dollars they were saving for me.  (If I can find the check, I’ll post it later.)  I told them that I would just send an armored truck to the bank in Canada where the $95,000.00 was being kept and have it drive the money to me.  That only cost about $200.00!  But, of course, they would not have any of that.  Once you deposit the check, and it does not clear, which it will not, YOU are responsible for covering the money!

And, as you will see, she says that she got the money from her husband who had saved it from his work in the Embassy!  And who says that “public service” does not pay!  And, all of that money in just 9 years!

Anyway, here’s the scam:

Hello My Dear,

My name is Mrs Aveline Kukalina from Philippine. I am a sick woman who has decided to donate what I have to charity through you. You may be wondering why I chose you but someone has to be chosen. I was diagnosed with cancer about 2 years ago, immediately after the death of my husband who had left me everything he worked for when he was working in our Embassy for nine years before his death. I am suffering from a long time cancer, which also affected my heart.

My husband and I are Christians, but quite unfortunately, he died by poisoning. I will be going in for an operation, and I pray that I survive the operation. I have decided to WILL / Donate the sum of $4.5 Million United State Dollars to charity through you for the good work of the lord, and to help the motherless, less privileged and also for the assistance of the widows.

I inherited a total sum of $4.5 million dollars from my late husband this money which is concealed in a metallic trunk box is deposited with a security and finance company here in COTE D’IVOIRE this deposit was coded under a secret arrangement as a family treasure. This means that the security company does not know the content of this trunk box.

Presently, I have informed the security company about my decision in willing this trunk box to you. I wish you all the best and may the good Lord bless you abundantly, and please use the funds well and always extend the good work to others. If you are interested in carrying out this task, I will kindly want you to write me back for further direction and on how to carry out this task.

I know we have never met you but my mind tells me to do this with me and I hope you act sincerely.

Your dear sister in Christ,

Aveline.

OK, please send me whatever you can, for real, so that I can continue to produce the fine movies you all want.  It is expensive to produce films, so I will need several thousand dollars.  But, send what you can, and when I get enough, I will produce another film!  THANKS!

N********, 27-year-old Girl, Spanked by Husband, FINAL

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This report is extended from other reports that may be of interest.  The previous posts should be considered.  

This report is quite interesting and will be described both as she is spanked now by her husband, and previously by several different people.  A lot of description is provided so this should be an interesting report.  Also, her punishment and spankings are very realistic in terms of what it takes to punish a girl properly.  She is not spanked with just a few slaps, but will be spanked for 10 to 20 minutes or longer with anywhere from 200 to over 500 strokes, even up to 1,000 strokes, during a Prolonged and Sustained Spanking, or Thrashing.  And her spankings will vary from just being a mild spanking to a severe thrashing with a variety of implements during a 1½ hour session, leaving her bottom bruised and blistered for days.

Also, her report describes in-detail how there is often a confusion between spanking-discipline and sexual gratification that starts around the age of 16 to 18.  I have had many such reports, and will discuss them more fully in this report due to the detail our girl has provided. 

NOTE:  I had planned on posting another report from an email I received from a 45-year-old mom, but I will post that one later, since this one is much more interesting and more relevant to what my fans have been enjoying, especially the girls.  It is of interest that over 50% of my fans are actually girls who receive validation of their own desires by realizing that they are not “weird” at all, but actually are quite “normal”.  As I have counseled previously, always remember:

     (1) You have a right to your own beliefs. 

     (2) You have a right to your own desires. 

     (3) You have a right to be yourself without the shaming-proclivities practiced by many self-righteous bigots. 

     (4) You have a right to be spanked for whatever reason, if that is what you want … But others do not have a right to subject you to being spanked if you do not consent! 

As we proceed, I will be providing many asides as we discuss the issues raised by our girl.  So such asides will be fairly obvious, but then when we get back to our girl, the discussion will be highlighted by the appropriate heading.

I’m a 27-years-old girl and am still being spanked, and am spanked more now than ever before.  My husband is the only one who is now giving me my spankings.  Previously I was spanked by, of course, my dad and mom, but also by my grandfather, our female neighbor and a male family friend. 

My husband, in addition to just spanking me, also has some very creative ways to punish me.  For example, before, after or even during my spankings, I am at times required to perform or undergo several sexual acts, which are both for humiliation and my husband’s pleasure. 

NOTE:  I have reports from other girls who are also sexually enjoyed during their punishments and spankings.  Of course, this is one reason for Spanking Fantasies and the Spanking Industry which you all enjoy.  And, this is one reason for the frequent confusion between discipline, punishment and sexual gratification that many confuse.  Whereas my spanking-disciplines/punishments are very clinical; i.e., non-sexual, those who do not understand will attribute something perverted to an otherwise simple discipline session of a girl.

Now, several of the girls who have written to me do climax during their spankings, just from the spanking itself.  Or, as one girl did during a hand-spanking that went on for over an hour, she lost control and peed!  Of course, I had to then spank her harder, but when she got home, she called me and told me how “proud” she was of all the bruises she got on her bottom!  Another girl, our 45-year-old girl whose report will be posted later, thought that she might have been “weird” because she normally has to be spanked to have an orgasm.  I assured her that there was nothing “weird” about such a need.  Another girl was spanked by her aunt who might make her spread her legs as she was over her aunt’s knee ready to be spanked, so that her aunt could massage her to climax.  Or, she might start to spank her and then pause to massage her to climax, or, of course, after the spanking was over, she would be massaged to climax.  While her spankings were given for discipline and punishment, there was a definite sexual overtone every time she was told to report to be spanked.

And, many of the girls found that when they were 16 to 18, after a spanking, they would go to their room to masturbate to climax.  And, this resulted in them often being disobedient just so they would be spanked and then satisfied.  Frequently, with fiancés or husbands, this penchant for sexual gratification associated with being spanked takes on more intense forms.  Some do distinguish between foreplay and discipline, but often the two just really get confused.  But, during a 1-hour+ session, that confusion is quickly dispelled.

As reported in other posts, heat creams, ginger roots, wood-burning stoves, running hot water on a girl’s bottom as she stands in a shower, etc., can be used to get a girl’s bottom hot before her spanking that will make her spanking hurt more.  Also, such heating ointments can be applied by making her stand up in front of her husband/fiancé as it is applied in a manner that will make her prance and squirm, which some enjoy watching.  Or, simply make her stand up in front of her husband/fiancé and spread her legs more than shoulder-width apart and keep them there as a vibrator is used to bring her to climax before bending over his knee for a hard spanking.  Of course, making the girl sit and masturbate is also enjoyable prior to, during or after a spanking.  Just be creative!  However, as reported in other posts, forced-masturbation is part of the discipline imposed by some Strict Religious Communities, especially, it seems, by Serbian strict religious communities.

Another favorite humiliation is to make me stand with my spanked, red and bruised butt exposed in front of a window for others to see; or, even more embarrassing is to stand in front of a webcam and present my bottom on a Chatroulette website. 

NOTE:  In case you have not heard of it, a “Chatroulettewebsite is an online chat website that pairs random people from around the world together for webcam-based conversations. Visitors to the website begin an online chat using a video, in this case, with another visitor.  So, our girl’s bare bruised bottom can be seen all over the world!

In addition to being spanked, I also have been grounded, given Corner-Time naked, have my privileges taken away, and lectured. 

I am always focused on behaving myself, since I am spanked 3 or 4 days a week with 5 to 10 spankings. 

NOTE:  This number of days spanked and number of spankings is what is required to control a girl properly.  However, it does require a lot of time, which is why most girls are not closely supervised.  However, where she is being controlled by her husband/fiancé, he has more “invested” in the relationship and actually looks forward to the control he has and the spankings being administered just as much as she does being controlled and spanked.  Most parents, however, do not have the time to attend to their daughter’s needs, and will only pay attention to the more obvious and important problems like grades, curfew and domestic chores; and, hence, give fewer spankings—except in homes where the dad has an office in the home and can frequently check-up on the daughter.  As a result, however, the girl who is not frequently spanked does not really obtain any behavior modification or attitude adjustment since most often there is no consistent control.  However, in several Strict Religious Communities, the girls are very closely supervised and controlled, and will be administered even more spankings than our girl is here.  In these communities, the time and effort it takes to supervise, spank and punish a girl is alleviated by giving her Reporting Times for her to report to her dad to be evaluated, inspected and spanked.  Many of these Reporting Times are well-known:

After-School Spankings, Before-Bedtime Spankings, Maintenance Spankings, Preemptive Spankings, Past-Curfew Spankings, etc.  That is, in addition to any Reporting Times, she has to report to her dad and essentially self-report about her behavior if her dad has not witnessed or determined the problem.  And, she does self-report since if her dad finds out what she did and she did not self-report, she will be much more severely spanked and punished.  This is even more pronounced in Strict Religious Communities where girls are essentially brainwashed to be very hyper about reporting on themselves or other girls.

And this is especially so in religious communities where the pastor is directly involved in the discipline and spanking of the girls.  In many such communities, the girls must report to the pastor at specified times to be spanked.  The church, and, therefore, the pastor takes on a very direct control of the girls by ingraining in their training that it is their responsibility and duty to report on themselves and others who they have witnessed misbehaving and being disobedient.  The girl reporting on another girl will be able to witness the spankings that the other girls receive who she reported on, thus giving each girl an incentive to report on others.

 

If there is any question about the fact that such church communities exist and have a profound effect on the lives of the girls in the church, one has to go no further than a recent report concerning even more far-reaching tactics of a church in which children are actually “abducted” from their families, with the full-consent of the corrupt judicial branch, and then “blasted”; i.e., screamed at, and physically beaten—not just spanked, but beaten!  Click on the banner below to see the report:

While the Strict Religious Communities of which I have received reports do not participate in such barbaric practices, they do instill a real fear in the girls that they must submit to being spanked and sexually “abused” by their family, pastor and others in the community, especially the men of the church.  Also, it is common practice for boys from the age of 16 and older to be taught, and are given “permission”, to spank the girls, regardless of age.  Younger brothers who are 16 or older are given permission to control their older sisters, and the older sisters must obey the boy or they will be whipped very hard by their dad after the brother spanks them.  When a brother tells his older sister to undress and bend over to be spanked, she must obey.

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I am spanked 3 or 4 days each week, with 5 to 10 spankings.  All people listed previously have spanked me in the past, however since I’ve been married, only my husband spanks me.  The aforementioned sex acts only apply to my husband by the way.  Spankings in the past were always OTK, mostly by hand.  Only my dad and granddad would also use the hairbrush at times.  My husband now uses a variety of implements besides his hand, including hair- or bath- brushes, paddles, straps, belts and canes in a multitude of positions. 

NOTE:  In strict homes where girls are spanked, they are normally spanked 3 or 4 days a week, as with our girl here, and with 5 to 10 spankings/week.  So, our girl does represent the norm fairly accurately.  And, most often, the girls will be spanked more than once each day, especially on the weekends.  In fact, in any home where girls are spanked, they will be spanked several days each week, since if they are not, then the tendency to spank the girls will be ignored.  The spankings will just stop.  But, if a girl is spanked 3 to 7 days/week, then the spankings will just continue.

I am spanked in front of:  Dad, Mom, Uncle, Aunt, Grandfather, Grandmother, Older Female Cousin, Younger Male Cousin, Younger Female Cousin, Older Sister, Younger Brother, Younger Sister, Female Neighbor, Male Family Friend, Female Family Friend, and Houseguests.  Again, these are mostly people who witnessed my spankings in the past.  Recently I’m mostly spanked in private, though on occasions I have been spanked in the presence of others.  Once in front of friends of my husband and it was because I embarrassed him in front of them.  The other time it was in front of complete strangers in the parking lot of a popular beach club.  Of course now, I am spanked, at times, in front of the whole world when I have to present myself on ChatrouletteThis is a fairly recent variation, which is only used for punishment spankings because he knows I hate it, when I am getting spanked with my ass (and if naked other parts) fully on display and close up on a Chatroulette webcam of a random chat site. 

NOTE:  For girls living in Strict Religious Homes, the girls are normally spanked in front of anyone who is present, especially if they bring home a girlfriend after their last class.  The girls are often spanked after school, so anyone who comes home with them will watch as they have to strip naked and bend over their mom’s or dad’s knee to be spanked.  Nothing much is thought of it, since all of the girls in the church are spanked in this manner, and all have seen each other spanked.  This is especially so for the 4 or 5 religious communities from which I have had recent reports, as well as reports concerning churches, and communities from the 1970’s and before.  The girls are not only spanked in front of anyone present, but they are also spanked by a variety of people, including their boss at work, their tutors and teachers, and their pastor, who will come to their home to spank them.

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And, I am spanked bare-bottom in front of Dad, Mom, Uncle, Aunt, Grandfather, Grandmother, Female Cousin, Older Sister, Younger Brother, Younger Sister, Female Neighbor, Male Family Friend, Female Family Friend, and Houseguests.  I’m basically always spanked on my bare bottom.   Sometimes it starts over clothing, but it always ends on the bare.  And one reason so many people see me spanked is because I am spanked at the homes where we visit when I misbehave.  When I was in school, if I got spanked at school, which I did, I also got spanked when I got home. 

NOTE:  Again, this is characteristic of strict spanking homes.  However, in most cases for which I have reports, the girls are spanked immediately on their bare bottom, and most often have to strip naked for their spanking.  In most homes, of course, the parents will feel “sorry” for their daughter and believe that she needs a “warm-up” before spanking her on her bare bottom.  However, all that does is minimize the effectiveness of the spanking.  By starting right out on her bare bottom, the initial shock really gets her attention, just as it did with Cortney when she was whipped.

When I’m spanked away from home, details vary, but typically it would be OTK, or sometimes bending over something.   9 out of 10 times, spankings on location would be by hand.   Only in exceptional instances would something else be used, something that just happens to be at hand like a belt or a switch. 

What I am wearing when I am spanked just varies a lot.  Of course, sometimes I have on all my clothes.  Then I may have to expose my panties, or just take them off for my bare-bottom spanking.  And then, I may have to strip from my waist down.  Or, I have to take off all my clothes except for my panties and bra, or only my bra.  And, then I may have on my PJs or nightgown.  Those are very sensual.  And then my bikini does not provide much protection at all and is essentially me naked getting spanked.  And then, most often I am just naked. 

Most often, my spankings start with me fully clothed, and then gradually I have to remove some clothes, get spanked again, and then remove some more and get spanked again.  And, most often I will end up naked!  And, I do cooperate as I am ordered to remove more and more clothes. 

NOTE:  This is often true when a Progressive Spanking is being administered.  The progressive removing of clothes, followed by a spanking after each removal, helps to keep the girl “involved” in her spanking and it is more effective.  Changing up the spanking positions, implements used, clothes being removed, etc., helps to keep the girl focused on what is happening to her, and she cannot just give-in to the spanking.  Also, this shows that to be spanked properly and effectively, a girl must be spanked during a Spanking Session of at least 15 minutes, and most often, 30 minutes plus so that lectures can also be included, and then the session most likely will last more than an hour when Corner-Time is also included.  Proper punishment of a girl takes time, which is why such sessions are normally not administered.

In getting ready to be spanked, in the past I would simply be ordered to get over the persons lap and they would start my spanking, in some cases preceded by some corner-time.  With my husband there are different routines depending on the occasion for my spanking.  Sometimes he will want to see me doing my chores around the house naked from the waist down, sometimes he wants me to masturbate, or sometimes he will simply grab me without warning and start spanking.  It all depends on what he wants to do. 

Normally I cooperate when I have to be spanked, but if I do resist, I’ll get spanked harder.  But, I may also be spanked more rapidly or spanked with exceedingly painful implements and sometimes longer, or spanked again later. 

Most often I am spanked OTK, although other positions may be used as noted.  When I am over a knee, I will be spanked by hand, with a hairbrush, small paddle, wood spoon or other smaller implements.  If I am bending over something, I’ll be spanked with a strap, belt, tawse, paddle or cane.  I may also be spanked with a wood spatula, stirrup strap or tree switch. 

Regardless of the position I am in to be spanked, I am most often “warmed up” by hand, followed by 1 to 5 implements.  So, I normally get spanked for a long time.  In fact, I am spanked with 200 to 500+ strokes and even up to 1,000!  So, I am spanked for 10, 15, 20 minutes or more.  I am spanked for just as long as my disciplinarian wants to spank me. 

NOTE:  Our girl is spanked the way a girl should be spanked for punishment; i.e., for a long time with a lot of strokes, and in front of others.  In very strict homes, and especially in Strict Religious Homes, girls are often spanked during a Prolonged and Sustained Spanking Session while others watch her being spanked.  While girls who live in homes where they are spanked when they are 18+, most do not let others know that they are spanked.  However, in many churches where the pastor spanks the girls, especially for single moms, the girls and families are very open about their spankings, and the church may actually have a youth group for college girls where they can discuss their spankings and the need to be spanked in order to help validate the need for the spankings for the girls, and make them more compliant to being spanked.

There was a very conservative church near our home in the 1960’s where the pastor had extensive control over the parishioners.  When dating college girls from the church, they would say that they could or could not do something because of what the pastor told them.  If they did, they would have to tell the pastor, who could then spank them if he thought it was needed.  Or, he would go to the girl’s home in the evening to discuss the problem with her parents, and such visits normally included a good spanking of the girl.  It has been fairly well established that in these strict religious communities where the pastor has a lot of control, the parishioners are essentially indoctrinated to the beliefs of the church, regardless of what those beliefs are.  From a young age, as one girl reported to me recently, the girls look upon the pastor as a “god”; someone whom they must obey and who can spank them when they disobey, which he did.  While this girl lived in a strict home and church, the church was not controlling completely of the family and social life, so the girls outgrew the church dictates and control.  However, where the church is an integral part of the family and social life, as well as the college life and work life of the girls, the indoctrination continues, and the girls continue to believe that they must obey the pastor and be spanked by him when they don’t.

Her parents, of course, believed that she should be spanked and that the pastor should administer the spanking.  In these situations, the girls normally had to put on thin PJs or nightgown so that they were not actually naked, but were spanked as though they were.  Each girl had to have a strap and paddle that they kept hanging on the inside of their closet door, or on the wall beside their bed, so that when they got up each day, they would see them and think more about behaving themselves to avoid them being used on their bottom.  In the evening, as he discussed her problems with her parents, she would be sent to her room to put on her PJs or nightgown and then bring the implements to the pastor and hand them to him.  She would then have to bend over his knee or over a sofa arm chair, table, etc., as he spanked her for a long time.  As you may have heard about some of these religious-punishments from other sources, the pastor is not really concerned how loud the girl screams and cries or begs for him to stop, he just keeps on spanking her, and her parents often tell him to spank her harder, and to keep on spanking her.  These spanking-sessions would last 30 minutes to an hour with the girl made to assume different positions as both the paddle and strap were used on her.  When the pastor went to a home with a single mom, she normally would have the pastor spank the girl much more severely and for a longer time than in homes where both parents were present.  Moms just do not seem to have the compassion that a dad might have for a misbehaving daughter.  Surprisingly, or not, the girls thought that it was alright and that they needed these spankings.

Now, this church was not in a “religious community”, and yet it practiced as though it was.  The small congregation was strictly controlled by the pastor, and the girls did not stray from the church’s teachings, or risk getting harshly spanked.  More-than-likely, this was due to the influence of the parents, especially single moms, who approved of spanking the girls hard when they disobeyed or misbehaved.  When dating one girl, when I picked her up for our date, her dad said: “You had better be home by 11:00 or I’ll whip her from her ankles to her neck.”  And, this girl was frequently and harshly spanked.  And, as her dad said, she had to go to her room, take her clothes off and lay face-down on the bed.  He would then use a strap to literally whip her from her ankles to her neck.  The whippings often would go on for 10 to 30 minutes, depending on what the girl had done.  As with this girl, the parents also spanked the girls, but most often they would ask the pastor to come to their home to administer the spankings, and again, especially for single moms.  Single moms most often would have the pastor come to their home to administer the spankings.  In fact, he had several homes that he visited weekly at scheduled times to administer whatever spankings the girls of the home needed.  And, this might even include the single mom.  When I mentored and spanked my girl in Florida, I also spanked her mom, and spanked her in front of her daughter—as she wanted.  Karen wanted her daughter, Nancy, to watch her getting spanked so she would learn to present her bare bottom as ordered and be obedient as she was spanked.  The pastor here in Columbus, also spanked the single moms and would spank them just as hard as the daughters, to make sure that they would always be an obedient and submissive wife, if they got married.

And, the girls did talk about their spankings in a youth group, especially for the college girls.  In view of the hazing rituals in college at the time, this may not be so surprising.  I don’t know about other churches, but in this church, the college girls had a meeting every Wednesday evening in which they would discuss their behaviors and what they needed to do to improve themselves, and what spankings they had received to help them behave, and what spankings they thought that they should receive.  They did not consider it embarrassing, and often spoke of their spankings in a proud manner; that they had misbehaved and had to be spanked.  I know of several other churches in the States where this is the case that the girls talk openly about their need to be spanked.

 

I am normally spanked for just not following rules.  And, depending on what I have done, I may receive just a mild 5-minute spanking, but for serious misbehaviors and disobediences, I will be spanked for 1½ hours with a severe thrashing.  This thrashing will leave my butt heavily bruised and blistered for days. 

NOTE:  Our girl is an exemplar for how long a girl should be spanked for the more inconsequential misbehaviors and disobediences—5 minutes.  Anything less than that is not a real spanking, but is given by someone who is just playing.  For more serious spankings, she is spanked for 1½ hours with a thrashing that leaves her bottom heavily bruised and blistered for days.  That is the kind of spanking that helps a girl to modify her behavior and adjust her attitude, so that she develops new Dispositional Behaviors.

If I misbehave away from home, it just depends on where we are, so I may be spanked immediately on my bare bottom, or taken somewhere private to spank me.  I may be spanked in the car, and then spanked again when we get home.  But, all spankings are on my bare bottom.  I am not always spanked again at home, but most often I will be.  And, if I do get spanked when I get home, it may be immediately, or at bedtime. 

Most often I have to take my own clothes off.  But, I may have to leave my panties on, and my spanker will pull them down because they know that I find it to be very humiliating. 

There is no real system according to which I get spanked, but an average spanking consists of roughly the following:  (1) Hand spanking OTK, first over pants/skirt for 2 minutes, next on panties for 2 minutes, and next on my bare-bottom for 5 minutes.  (2) Hairbrush/spoon OTK bare-bottom for 2-4 minutes.   (3) Belt/strap bending over table or couch for 5 minutes.  (4) Paddle/cane with at least 40 strokes, which I will count, but quite often many more.  If it’s more than 100 I don’t have to keep count.  All-in-all a good spanking session like this would easily be upward of 1,000 spanks. 

I probably get spanked for many of the same reasons that other girls get spanked:  Poor Grades, Talking-Back, Swearing, Getting in Trouble At School, Getting In Trouble At Work, Arguing with Siblings, Fighting with Siblings, Fighting with Others, Too Much Noise in the Home, Not Doing My Chores, Not Doing What I’m Told, Coming Home Past Curfew, Getting Up Late, Skipping School, Skipping Work, Drinking, Smoking, Not Ready On Time, Having Sex (before I got married), Just-Because Spanking, Maintenance Spanking, Preemptive Spanking, Proprietary Spanking, and Submission Spanking. 

Despite being spanked a lot as a kid, which as I understand it usually causes an aversion to the practice, I have grown to enjoy and even crave regular spankings.   This change, from hating it and it really being a punishment to me and starting to like it came around when I was 16-years-old.  At that time I started to explore my sexuality, and noticed I would often feel the urge to masturbate after getting spanked.   First I still didn’t like the spankings themselves, but mostly the feeling afterwards.   Soon, however, I did start to enjoy the spankings and it was mostly the shame of having witnesses around that I hated.  My dad and granddad used to alter my OTK position at times from fully over their lap to having me straddle one of their legs or have me over one leg with the other one holding my legs in position so I couldn’t kick them up.  I would then just kinda move along with the spanks as they hit my butt, rubbing myself on their leg.   I’ve had some of the biggest orgasms I ever had at that time in my life doing this.  I was very careful though not to let them on to this.  As far as I know they didn’t know, and just to be clear, they have never touched me inappropriately or took advantage of me.   

I have always been very close with my siblings, and I know (because she told me) my older sister had also grown to enjoy spankings.  Both her and my little brother were always very eager to witness my spankings, and I was equally intrigued by their spankings.  More recently my husband is the only one spanking me, and he is just a perfect match for me.  I used to feel too ashamed to ask my boyfriends to spank me, and even if I would it would only be during sex.  My husband however is just as much into spanking as I am.  He’s just very dominant, and knows I like to be made to feel like a naughty little girl.  What makes it even better for me is that I know nothing turns him on more than spanking my ass long and hard.  Though the spankings themselves most often don’t include much sexual stimulation, they are almost always followed by a sexual release for him.  He either jerks off on my ass or (most often) has me on my knees servicing him orally.  Sometimes I get a release as well, either by allowing me to masturbate after or during a spanking, or by just fucking me, but it’s mostly about him.  My dark red, bruised, welted and blistered ass, while it can definitely be a punishment, is also my biggest reward.

As you can tell from all this, I am spanked both for discipline and punishment, as well as for pleasure.  This is an extremely thin line for me, and during really long and hard sessions I often go back and forward between loving it and hating it.  Somehow some wires in my head just got all tangled up, and so I can go from having an orgasm during a spanking to crying my eyes out, to having another orgasm.  I’m not sure how this came to be, but I think it has something to do with my experiences in my teenage years, which is why I decided to share those. 

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I have received a very informative message from a friend, Jack, concerning Elsa.  For background, go to the previous post “Is This Girl Married?”  Jack says:

Hi Ken,

I’m following your article on “Elsa” and her “hubby”, while misguided, probably isn’t a control freak (yet), but is likely young and insecure.  I admit having access to her account and writing you with it is a control freak shit thing to do.  Experienced control freaks will want to know where she is every minute of the day, who she is with, when she’ll be home, what she is wearing (if they didn’t pick it out themselves) etc.  Some control freaks are often sociopaths, and do things without empathy.  A real control freak wouldn’t allow her to visit you for 5 weeks in the US without being there, directing the action.  

Also, some girls like control freaks.  Some of the ones that write you from what you’ve posted would love to be controlled.  I’ve been involved with a few girls that would love (or think they would love) total control.  But this isn’t the middle ages where we can lock girls in towers (or basements) to wait for their beatings. 🙂  So realistic total control isn’t likely in the US without being illegal.  Luckily, it’s not hard to make them realize that real control is a fantasy, because total control is hard work.

Just my opinion.  I’m looking forward to your updates.  You are free to email me anytime you like.  This is a private email account and no one reads it but me.   Jack

To his kind message, I replied:

Hi, Jack, 
 
Thanks for the message.  Yes, the “hubby” here may not yet be a Control Freak, but he is showing all the signs of becoming one.  And, that is my concern.  I attempt to alert girls before they get into a situation that they cannot get out of.  His control of her email account is most disturbing, since she then has absolutely no privacy at all.  She becomes more and more subjugated to him since she is afraid to communicate how she actually feels.  And, he even states that he wants to know where she is at all times of the day, since he has to make sure that she has no “male friends”, and essentially no friends at all.  
 
You are correct that a real Control Freak would not allow her to visit me for 5 weeks in the U.S., but that is the very point.  Right now, she believes that she has the right to do whatever she wants to do, and then … BAM! … here comes her fiancé, pretending to be her “husband”, and shuts her down!  I do believe that she is in for a rude awakening, and possibly a situation that she will have a difficult time getting out of.  Her fiancé clearly does not respect her privacy, or even her for that matter.  
 
Now, the difference between this fiancé and girls who do want to be supervised and controlled, is that the girls who contact me have initiated that control.  Not so here.  Elsa came to me simply to help her achieve her own goals.  And then, again … BAM! … her so-called fiancé has shut that down!  
 
As for locking girls in a tower or the basement, actually the same is even today possible through tight control of a girl to the point where she is afraid to do anything without permission.  If she does not have permission to leave the home, then she does not leave.  There is no difference between that and actually locking her in.  Elsa needs to be very careful for her future.  
 
Of course, you are correct about the amount of time it takes to actually control a girl … except when she has been conditioned to obey without resistance.  I was talking with several wives who were just socializing in front of their homes one day, when one of the girls took off running as fast as she could to get home … her husband had just come home unexpectedly.  “Oh, oh.  She’s going to get a good beating!”, one of the wives said.  She was not allowed to be out socializing with the neighbors when her husband came home, and he frequently spanked and whipped her when she was.  So, to the contrary, it is still possible to “lock” a girl in a home, whether it is illegal or not.  Read my post on the value of a “Protection Order”!  They are totally worthless and may even end up with a dead girl!  
 
I am going to post our correspondence, since it is directly relevant to the on-going report.  Of course, your name will be changed and there is no way that anyone can identify someone among the thousands of “Jack’s” across the country.  But, your message needs to be heard.  
 
Best wishes, 
Ken

Elsa, the choice is yours.  You have a right to your own privacy, your own feelings, your own thoughts, and what you want to do with your life.  The choice is yours!

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I have yet another report that will delay my promised post for another day or two.  But, we’ll eventually get to it! 

However, I received an email this morning from someone who says that he is the “husband” of a girl who contacted me to help her and give her the spankings she needed.  The “husband” wrote: 

Here is Elsa’s husband  [Not her real name.]  I don’t want you to get in contact with my wife again. Thanks!

Now, there are several problems with this message:  (1) He is using Elsa’s email address.  (2) Elsa has already contacted me 3 times with information and questions.  (3) I never initiated any “contact” with Elsa … I only respond to emails that I receive!  (4) Is he really her “husband”? 

Point (3) needs to be really emphasized:  I never initiate contact with anyone.  I only respond to emails that I receive.  Even if we have had an on-going conversation, I only respond to an email that is sent to me.  The reason is obvious, or should be:  I do not know what is transpiring in the home of the girl who contacts me, so I just wait for her to let me know.  If I do not hear from her, actually I just forget her.  Even now, I can go back and see emails that I have received from girls just within the past month, but who stopped writing, and my question is:  “Who is that?  What did she want?  I forget that I even wrote to her!”  So, to even suggest that I “contacted” Elsa is ludicrous.  But, you can decide:  Do the following emails suggest to you that this is a married girl? 

Hello, just got your email address from a spanking site.  I have some problems and think that a good spanking can resolve them all.  My name is Elsa, and I’m 24 years old.  I am studying pediatrics at a University.  But I am lazy.  I don’t like to work hard and thus, my assignments are never too good.  Furthermore, I have a part-time job and I often pretend to be sick to escape from it.  What can you advise me?  I really need to change my behaviour.
Thank you, Elsa

My response: 

Dear Elsa, 

It is good to hear from you.  Where do you live?  How tall are you?  How much do you weigh?   At 24, there may be some things that can be done.   I look forward to hearing from you.  I will be out for an hour or so, but expect to see your reply when I return.  

Best wishes, Headmaster Ken

When I returned, I found the following message

Dear Headmaster Ken,
I live in Sweden. I’m 168cm and I weigh 51kg.  Like what can be done?
Yours sincerely, Elsa

I then replied: 

Dear Elsa, 

It is good to hear from you.  Well, at least you have done what you were told to do, which is a good start.    

 Now, here’s one problem … I’m in the U.S.!  So, I will not be able to supervise and control you directly, so most of what has to be done is up to you.  One thing you can do to possibly wake you up, is to watch the following movie:  “Lazy Bitch”!  http://spankedcoeds2.com/LAZY-BITCH.rm

 Your first message stated:  “I have some problems and think that a good spanking can resolve them all.  [That is probably true, but to do so, you would have to have someone correcting you who actually knows what to do.  {An aside:  It is obvious that her “husband” does not know what to do, and I probably could have helped him, as I have helped several other husbands correct their wives behaviors and attitudes.  I do hope that he works things out with Elsa, since she does need help, and I could most likely have done so.}  There is more to giving a spanking for correction than just making you bare your bottom, bend over, and get spanked.  Most of the correction is accomplished by a proper lecture and guidance before the spanking.  Close supervision, control and bare-bottom spankings are required to actually achieve any real behavior-modification and attitude-adjustment.  What has to be achieved is a change in your Dispositional Behavior.  Since you are studying pediatrics, you are concerned with the physical difficulties that children have, but not necessarily their behavioral difficulties.  However, you will most likely take a course in psychology.  If you do, you must understand the challenges of achieving a modified Dispositional Behavior.  It requires a lot of effort, mostly on the one who is disciplining you.  It is of little value to just have someone spank you whenever you misbehave.  Yes, “spanking can resolve all your problems”, but ONLY if you have someone who really knows what they are doing when they supervise, control and spank you.  I can do that, but it is unlikely that you can afford to come here for the 6 weeks it would take to change your Dispositional Behavior.]  

My name is Elsa, and I’m 24 years old.  I am studying pediatrics at a University.  But I am lazy. I don’t like to work hard and thus, …  [You have actually answered your own question as to what can be done to help you … Nothing!  “I don’t like to work hard“.  Gee, isn’t that too bad?  In that case, you have no real future, unless you find some guy who is willing just to put up with you and take care of you.  Even if you were to make it here so I could work with you, nothing can be done, since you do not want to work hard and do what I tell you to do.  I can only work with girls who actually have a goal and are willing to work to achieve that goal.  I never make a girl do anything.  I guide her, work with her, encourage her, and direct her.  And when she does not obey me, I spank her, but only because it helps to encourage her to work harder and do what she has to do to achieve her own goals.  When you actually have no goals, which you do not since you are not willing to work hard to achieve them, then there is nothing that anyone can do to help you, especially at 24 years old!  So, the first thing you are going to do, if you actually want me to help you, is to let me know that you are actually willing to work hard, do what I tell you to do, and then do it.] 

 … my assignments are never too good.  [They are “never too good”, because you are nothing but a “Lazy Bitch”!     Now, do you want to be known as a “Lazy Bitch”, or as a fine young lady who is accomplished and works hard to help the children you are training to help?  If you are not willing to work hard to achieve your goals, you should just drop out of school and stop pretending that you actually want to do something.  You don’t.  How do I know?  Because you told me that you are a “Lazy Bitch”!  So let me know who you are … a “Lazy Bitch”, or a girl who wants to be a fine young lady who wants to work hard and achieve your goals.  If you do, then the time and effort it would take me to supervise, control and spank you would be worthwhile, otherwise it is just a fantasy and you are not really serious.]    

 Furthermore, I have a part-time job and I often pretend to be sick to escape from it.  [Once again, confirming that you are just a “Lazy Bitch”!  Is that really what you want to be?  If not, then you obey me and stop faking sickness and get to your job and work.  What is your part-time job?]  

  What can you advise me?  [Well, I have probably given you more “advice” than you wanted!]  

 I really need to change my behavior [Yes, you do,  But, are you actually willing to do so?]

 I look forward to hearing from you … and just how soon you are going to come to see me so that I can get to work on your bottom and actually help you to succeed!  

Best wishes, Headmaster Ken

I then received the following message

Dear Headmaster Ken, thank you for your time and your information.  Unfortunately I am not able to open the link you sent me.  {An aside:  You must download Real Player (free) to see the movie.  But it is worth it!}  Your email made me think a lot and now I’m willing to work harder.  {An aside:  Now that is improvement!  She recognized the problem and actually wants to do something about it!  Unfortunately, her progress has probably been obstructed.}    I need some improvement.  But I need someone to look after me.  {An aside:  Girls who come to me, actually do know what they need, and that they need someone to “look after” them, to supervise them, control them and spank them when they disobey.  Unfortunately, most people do not comprehend what is needed and how to help the girl achieve her goals.}

Someone who will correct my bad habits and control me.  I travel quite frequently and can manage to come to US for 5 weeks maybe.  {An asideDoes this sound like someone who is married???!!!}

I need some discipline in my life.  I really appreciate your message.  It has completely changed my life.  {An aside:  This is the response that I receive from girls who I have actually helped, whether just through an email or in person!  I work hard to help girls, and they do appreciate the effort and results!} I have never been spanked before and believe in traditional punishment.  {An aside:  This is a temporary problem.  Girls who have never been spanked, may not realize just how much a spanking hurts.  But, a spanking cannot injure a girl, but it will really hurt, so it all depends on how serious she is in improving herself.  Getting spanked at 24 when she has never been spanked before is not a physical problem, but a mental problem.  Is she willing to take the pain that a spanking will give her?  For now, who knows?  She now has more problems to deal with, and her “husband” really has some problems to deal with since he is unwilling to seek out assistance that Elsa wanted.}   Thank you, Elsa

I then replied: 

Dear Elsa, 

 It is good to hear from you and, even more important, that you appreciated what I told you.  

 I will post the movie on my website so that you may be able to watch it there.  It would just be a very instructive film for you to watch, and realize that other girls have the same problem, and a good caning/spanking/strapping would do you a lot of good.  

 I am very serious though about you having to work harder.  Spankings are only effective if they make you pay-attention-to-the-details of your behavior so that you will actually change your behavior.  If so, they are very effective and it seems that they would help you.  

 And, yes, you do need someone to supervise, control and spank you.  It is essentially impossible to obtain the behavioral changes you want on your own, or even with me just telling you what has to be done.  The main reason is that you would not really be able to evaluate your behavior, as you need an outside observer to see what you are really doing and who can immediately correct any problems.  

 And, yes, controlling you is also important.  Without control, there will be no change.  

 If you can come here for 5 weeks, then a lot can be accomplished.  I live in Columbus, Ohio.  When you come here, there is a possibility that you could stay in a guest room that I would have to prepare for you.  I have the room, but for now, it is just more-or-less a work room and storage area.  If I know that you will actually be here, I do have an extra bed that could be put there and a desk and chairs.  Not much, but sufficient.  In fact, the rather sparse conditions would probably be best for your training and behavioral modification, since you would not be too comfortable and would have to focus only on your behavior that has to be changed.  

 You can see my home in the first attachment.  Then, you can see my Punishment Room where most of your training will take place.  I live in the back patio, the Punishment Room, and in the furnished basement.  My Homecare Provider, Daija (who you can see in the upper-left corner of my promo site, www.SpankedCoeds2.com), lives in the other half as she takes care of the home, shovels snow, mows the lawn, etc.  We communicate via an intercom, and I only see her a couple of times a day as necessary, mainly in the kitchen which we share.  

 The next attachment shows you what I will do with you to punish and correct you.  More details of what happens when we first meet later, as required.  

 Although you have never been spanked before, I start with a Spanking Evaluation when you first arrive, so you do not have to worry.  No spanking will injure you, it will just hurt with varying degrees of pain.  A spanking is supposed to hurt, and it will.  You are supposed to cry, and you will.  More later.  

 Please send two photos:  (1) Headshot, and (2) Full-length dressed.  Nothing else is needed, although you can send whatever other photos you want, if you want to.  

 When you come here, you can either stay in a motel and report to me daily, which would be somewhat expensive, or, as noted above, you can stay in my home with very few accommodations.  

 Best wishes, Headmaster Ken

I sent the following attachments with the above email

Then I received the silly message, cited at the beginning, from the “husband”, to which I responded: 

Dear Elsa’s “Husband”, 

 Elsa never said she was “married”, and from her questions it did not appear as though she was.  

 So, this is only for you, whoever you are.  As you can plainly see, I never got “in contact” with Elsa at any time.  I only responded to her inquiries.  When she says that she can come to the U.S. for 5 weeks, that does not sound like a “married” girl.  So, either you are not her husband, or you have a lot more problems than HER contacting me and asking for MY help.  Why isn’t she asking for YOUR help?  

 Best wishes, Headmaster Ken

And, just now I received another message … which confirms exactly what I thought initially … Elsa is NOT married!!!  Her “husband” wrote

Dear I presume Ken,
Elsa is in fact my fiancé and we will get married very soon.  I consider myself as her husband.  Yes she travels a lot with her friends but this will stop once we’ll be married.   
{An aside:  This “husband” has a lot to learn!} 
I don’t want my wife to have any male friends.  I hope you understand.  
{An aside:  Is he serious???  He is clearly a throwback to the 1940’s and 1950’s!  Are we taking bets yet on just how long this “marriage” is going to last?}
Furthermore I don’t believe in spankings and all that.  
{An aside:  My, my, he is in for an awakening!}
Sincerely, William

To which I replied: 

Dear William,  {Not his real name.} 

I do understand that you probably have more problems than you are willing to recognize.  I could have helped, but one must understand the problems.  

 Since you are now only her fiancé, and yet you are already pushing to take total control of her life, …  Well, that will be interesting.  And, she is not to have any friends after you are married???  Is this still the 1940’s???  I counseled a couple about 15 years ago, and when I walked into the home, it was classic 1950’s!  They divorced within 6 months, and I did not even recommend it.  The wife had just had enough of his boorish behavior and control.  

 And, your “wife” is going to stop traveling???  I am sitting here laughing at the idiocy of such a belief and even more that your marriage will last … if it actually gets that far.  She is not to have any male friends?  What a joke.  I was married for 42 years before my wife died 5 years ago, and she had so many male friends I could not keep up with them.  But, they did not affect our marriage one bit.  

 But, most important … You don’t “believe in spankings and all that.”  I don’t either for children, but at 24, Elsa has her own feelings, her own desires, and knows what she wants and needs.  Apparently you do not.  

 I am certain that this message will not be well-received, but of even more concern is … you, as only her fiancé, presumes to control her emails!  [Laughing!  ]  Well, anyway, … 

 Good luck, you are going to need it,   Ken

As seen below, I do help husbands with their wives in terms of helping to punish and correct them.  And, I will even take them on road trips to do so.  

But, most often I will just have them in my home and Punishment Room giving them what they need

OK, I need to get back to completing the post I was working on before I was laughing so hard I had to get this post ready.  Let me know what you think about this “husband” and their “marriage”