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I receive several requests from girls who want me to spank them to help them correct their behavior. Frequently the problem is with their attitude and disobedience. In order to correct a girl properly so that her behavior is actually “modified”, she does have to be totally obedient to me and do exactly what I tell her to do. If she doesn’t, as determined by her disobedience to instructions I give her, then there is nothing I can do to help her. As I have addressed in a previous post, “When I tell you to do something, get it done!”, when I tell a girl to do something, I expect her to do it! Click on the following photo-story to see the post:
I cannot be any clearer than that. And, when I give a girl a simple directive, I do expect her to follow that directive, or it is clear that I will not be able to help her.
And, her disobedience is even more brazen when she tells me that she will submit to my “total control” of her … and then disobey one simple directive! So, do not write to me and ask to be spanked, if you are in fact totally unwilling to be obedient!
The following email exchange is instructive as to what is required for any girl who actually wants to have her behavior corrected.
I was looking at your site,
was wondering if you still offer punishment sessions
Im in need of some real discipline. My attitude has become awful and im procrastinating more and more.
What kind of punishments do you precsribe, and what is your process.
Now the first thing I look at is the lack of concern for proper grammar. Not spelling “I’m” correctly, and not spelling “prescribe” correctly??? Evidently she just cannot even correct her message using an automatic spell-checker (and if her spell-checker is not automatic, she needs to get a new one!). Or, if she does not have a spell-checker, at least she should read over her message before sending it to me, especially one as short as the above message is.
And, after the first line, she should at least have inserted “and I”. And how about a question mark (?) at the end of the second line as well as the last line? All of this suggests a girl who is not really concerned about herself nor doing things correctly. She lacks attention-to-detail, and is, clearly, in need of some strict supervision and spankings.
If you are looking for professional assistance, which, as seen below, this girl is, then you had better contact me in a manner that indicates that you are worth my time and are actually serious, instead of just some girl looking for “fun”. Yes, some girls are just looking for a patty-cake spanking to enhance their own spanking gratifications. They are not serious, and I am not interested in working with them!
Thank you for your inquiry. I shut down early in the evenings, but got your message this morning.
A punishment session for you is possible, but I will need more information.
Where do you live? How old are you? Why have you not been able to find someone near you to punish you?
I’m in Columbus, Ohio, and you would have to be able to come here, or possibly pay for my airfare, per diem, and services to travel to you.
Now, there is a difference between “real discipline” and a “punishment session”.
Punishment Session. Reason for Punishment:
A Punishment Session is given for specific reasons … A specific attitude that you expressed toward someone that you should not have; specific procrastination concerning activities that you should have gotten done; etc.
As you can see from my website, the punishments that I administer focus on spanking by hand, paddle, or strap, although I have also used the Tiger Cane at times. In addition, I may also incorporate Corner-Time, Mouth-Washing, Full-Body Inspections (depending on the misbehavior, although in your case it does not seem appropriate), etc. That is, the specific punishment just depends on what is needed to punish you properly. (1) Attitude: This would normally include making you strip naked and bend over my knee for a hard spanking, followed by a mouth-washing, and then made to bend over with your hands on the wall for a sound whipping with a strap. (2) Procrastination: This would normally include a series of spankings, each one 3- to 5-minutes each. The session is normally 30 minutes long, during which time you would be spanked at least 4 times and possibly up to 8, just depending on what is required, and how serious you are about getting this misbehavior corrected.
Real Discipline. Reason for Discipline:
You must provide specific misbehaviors that you need corrected. “Discipline” is for the purpose of correcting your behavior, whereas “Punishment” is simply for the purpose of spanking you just because you misbehaved; i.e., you learn that for such misbehaviors, you will be spanked.
This requires a more long-term control, supervision and spankings. That is, it is doubtful that in one session you would be able to correct your attitude problems. What is required here is daily supervision and control where you are immediately spanked for any improper attitude. The same goes for procrastination, although, procrastination can often be corrected with continuing punishment sessions, and continual supervision and control is not required. For example, if you have difficulty getting up in the morning to get to work, school, etc., then punishment sessions will be scheduled every morning where you are given Morning Obedience Spankings when you get up. If you are not up when I get to your home, then I drag you out of bed and spank you. If you are not getting your domestic chores done, then I will inspect your home at a specific time every day and spank you for anything that is not done properly. Etc. Obviously, this is not possible unless you live somewhere close, or you can pay for my accommodations and services during a 2- to 6-week control period.
The main problem I have found with other girls is that they are just not willing to take the hard spankings that are needed to punish you properly or correct your behavior. Girls will tell me that they can take a hard spanking (not a “beating”), but then they are not really able to do so. And, if you are not spanked hard, the spanking is of no real value and you are just playing. And, when no results are obtained you think that it is not worth it. Now, physically you can take a hard spanking since there is nothing about a spanking that can injure you. But, the question is whether or not you mentally are able to take the spankings. Most girls are just not willing to accept the punishment they need to succeed.
Just how dedicated are you to accepting the spankings you need to succeed? I always recommend that if a girl has any other options to achieve her goals, she take them. I only punish girls who have not been able to achieve their goals by any other means. If you just need to be punished, then find someone, man or woman, to spank you. But, if you want “behavior modification”, that requires someone who can actually work with you and administer what punishment you need to actually “modify” your behavior, which also includes some counseling sessions prior to your spankings. That is, there is much more to what you are asking than what it may appear.
After looking at my site and seeing some of the spankings I administer, do you really think you can take the spankings?
Also, depending on your age, I have found that girls who are over 30 most often can just not take the spankings since it has been too long since they have been spanked and are much more sensitive to being spanked.
Thank you again for your interest, and please let me know if I can assist you in any way.
im in west Virginiaim able to travel to you,
im 27 years old, im not to keen on finding someone random to punish me, i want a professional.
I was spanked and punished for years by my mother and later a partner but have not had a person for a long time. im very used to being spanked. not that i enjoy it.
It sounds like i could join you for a few days to deal with some issues.
I really need to spend a few days being totally supervised and spanked and punished for infractions, addressing issues as they come. If that means total control im more than willing to undergo such a thing.
What would a weekend involve if possible.
OK, the message is clear, but still no concern for grammar: “I’m” is still not spelled correctly, “Virginiaim” probably should be “Virginia” and “west” should be capitalized. After “Virginia” should be “and I am”, which is probably attempted with the “im” at the end of Virginia. The word “to” before “keen” should be “too”. The two sentences “im very used to being spanked.” and “not that i enjoy it.” should be rewritten in some manner.
But now she does assert that she will submit to “total control” in being “totally supervised and spanked and punished”. Well, at least she has the right “attitude” for the control and punishments she needs … or at least she says she does.
OK, where’s the question mark (?) after the last sentence? My spell-checker even highlights this problem.
Yes, anywhere in W. VA is close enough that you can get here. Please send me a photo or two of you dressed.
If you could, it would be good to come here Friday evening and then leave Sunday afternoon or evening, depending on how long your drive is. I frequently drove to Charleston for weekend tours with the Air National Guard, and it was about a 3- to 4-hour drive, I believe.
You do have a good idea about what will be required: “I really need to spend a few days being totally supervised and spanked and punished for infractions, addressing issues as they come. If that means total control I’m more than willing to undergo such a thing.”
To achieve what you want, I would have to have “total control” over you. If this is what you want, I will send you some “Consent Agreements” that you will have to sign and bring with you. You can be assured that nothing will be done with you that you do not agree to. But, you must agree to accept hard spankings that are left to my discretion. That is, you cannot tell me when to stop or how hard to spank you. To make you feel more at ease, you can talk with Daija to know that I am quite reasonable, understanding, and compassionate, but that I do not tolerate a smart-mouthed, disobedient, misbehaving little girl, and will spank you hard when you disobey me or misbehave. If you want, I will send her phone number so you can call her. However, I am strict and only maintain a very professional relation with any of the girls. I can be familiar with you, but you are never to be familiar with me. There is no sex. However, depending on what is required, I may give full body inspections that include a Cotton-Ball Evaluation of your groin area to make sure that you are shaved smooth. If the cotton-ball “snags” on any hair stubble, you will be spanked. And, if you are not shaved smooth, I will shave you.
Now, as you can see, I frequently will film the spankings and punishments that I administer. If possible I would like to film your sessions, and can do so without showing your face if required. Other than some minimal compensation for your board (i.e., we will most often go out to eat, so bring along enough for your meals), I no longer charge a fee for my services, even though you will find that I will dedicate the entire weekend to counseling you, supervising you, controlling you, and punishing you, a service that would cost hundreds of dollars if you actually had to pay for them. (Previously, I have charged from $150.00 to $250.00/hour, or $1,000.00/weekend sessions. I no longer charge anything since I am essentially “retired” and now just help girls as I can! ) The filming is done by Daija, so you should feel comfortable in doing so. She is very friendly and supportive of you.
If you wish to proceed, just let me know what you want. I will then send you the required forms to sign and a description of what you can expect when you come here. Since I will have total control of you, most of your spankings will be with you naked. And, you may be naked when in the home unless I allow you to dress. I will send you a list of “Home Rules” that you will follow or be spanked. You will be assigned various domestic chores to complete so that I can evaluate if you follow orders precisely and are obedient to whatever I tell you to do. “Addressing issues as they come up” is exactly how we will proceed. Within the first 10 minutes of when you arrive, you will be spanked to set the proper “tone” for your weekend. When you come here, you must wear a skirt and blouse. You will remove your shoes and socks immediately upon entering and then go and stand at-attention in the center of the room with your hands clasped behind your head. I will briefly lecture you, and then order you to remove your panties, raise your skirt and bend over my knee for a 5-minute hand-spanking so that I can evaluate what it takes to spank you “hard”. After that, you will just do whatever you are told to do. Let me know if this is acceptable to you.
The initial spanking is for me to determine how well you take a spanking and that you will take a hard spanking even though you don’t like to be spanked. You are not supposed to like being spanked, and when I spank you, you will not enjoy them. You will cry or I will spank you harder.
I look forward to hearing from you.
NOTE: From now on, you are to address me as “Headmaster Ken” (or otherwise as you want) when you write and will answer all questions with “Yes sir” or “No sir” when you are here. There is much to accomplish with you in a short period of time, and I am very strict with you. You will be obedient or get spanked.
well if you could send me all the forms so i could have a look at them.
What are the groin inspections about, i dont mind it, i just would like to know more.
Also would you be asking Daija to spank me.
As for the filming im sure i could accept,
It takes me an awful lot to cry, does that mean you will just spank me until i do.
Well, the grammar and spelling problems still persist.
Do not worry about the crying. If you do not cry, I will spank you harder, but if you still do not cry, that will be it. It is important if you can, but not critical.
Now, our email exchange, in part, is to see if you will actually be obedient and do what I tell you to do. If you won’t, then I really cannot work with you. It is very difficult correcting attitudes and behaviors, and the only way that can be accomplished is if you work with me and do what I tell you to do. Some things may seem to be trivial to you, but I never tell you to do anything that is not necessary. I told you to address me as “Headmaster Ken”, and instead you initiate your email with “okay”. That is disobedient and disrespectful. If you do come here, I will schedule a punishment session for you due to your disobedience. That punishment session will consist of you being given a 3X3-minute spanking session; i.e., 3 spankings of 3-minutes each with you in 3 different positions using 3 different implements.
As for the groin inspections, that will probably not be necessary for the correction you need. Some things I suggest or recommend is to obtain your response, and you have responded properly; i.e., you are willing to accept what has to be done. For the correction and punishment you need, there is no reason to have the groin inspections, shaving, etc. The point of such activities is to make sure that a girl will be obedient and submissive to what has to be done to achieve her goals. Your initial compliant response is sufficient. Girls come to me for a variety of reasons, many of which are to obtain her submissive obedience to her boyfriend or husband, which includes a variety of sexually-oriented activities, although no actual sex. Anyway, since such does not apply to you, we can move on.
I have not heard from her since. It is clear that she cannot follow even the most basic directives and/or cannot take the punishments she will need, even though she has stated that she will submit to being “totally controlled”! Regardless of the reason, this applicant just cannot be helped.
If you need to be counseled and spanked in order to help you overcome attitude, obedience, and/or behavior problems, please contact me … but be certain that you will in fact obey me when you do. If not, don’t waste your time nor mine.
As seen in the photo-story below, there are a variety of reasons that a girl comes to me to be counseled, spanked and punished. The sessions are tailored for each girl. Some only require basic counseling and spankings to punish them for specific misbehaviors. Others require a weekend of close supervision, control and spankings. Others require to be made to submit to sexual massaging to climax, and hard spankings with their legs up, or kneeling to be spanked and whipped. Others may need to be shaved and given Cotton-Ball Inspections and spanked hard if they fail the inspection. Others may just have to report once or twice a week to be spanked. Others may require my in-home inspections of their domestic chores and to be spanked for any failure to properly care for their home.
Whatever you may need, your counseling, spanking and punishment program is designed specifically to address your particular misbehaviors or disobedience or special training.
Contact me for your own program tailored to meet your needs.
Click on the Title Frame below to see Kendra get spanked for 4 minutes and 25 seconds! As seen here, the spanking does not have to be too hard, but must be continuous. And, the girl does not always have to cry, but when the spanking is over, she must know that she got spanked!
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