If you wish to provide additional information besides what is included in the survey, please contact me.
All correspondence with me is confidential, and girls may contact me to provide information at:
Current Age: 22 / U.S.
[NOTE: There are inconsistencies in this report, and the report had to be sent to me twice in order to even get what we have here.
And, at 22, although possible, it is doubtful that the girl is still being spanked
at school. However, she may be as there may still be a few finishing schools, trade
schools, and private schools where girls give permission to be spanked for various
offenses and the parents are given notice when the girls are spanked so they can
be spanked again when they get home. From many years ago, I have known of such schools
and
single moms seemed to be the ones who sent their daughters to these schools. I would
be interested in knowing what type of school she is going to now.]
I am a 22-
Actually, I get spanked 5 to 6 days a week.
Mom is the one who does the spanking.
If I get spanked at school or get in trouble at school, mom will spank me when I get home.
When I get spanked I have to take my own clothes off and I get spanked on my bare bottom.
And, I do resist when I get spanked, but then I’ll get spanked again.
Mom uses a paddle on me and the maximum number of strokes is about 50.
If I misbehave away from home, mom spanks me immediately on my bare bottom.
Current Age: 41-
I’m a girl over 40 and am still being spanked. Although I was spanked the most often
when I was 36-
In addition to being spanked, I am also given Corner-
I am spanked every day at least once and am spanked 7-
My male roommate is the one who does the spanking.
[She also refers to a “Male Friend”, but it is assumed here that that is the same as her male roommate.]
When I’m spanked I’m naked from the waist down, and I do cooperate.
Although even if I do resist, nothing happens to me, although I am threatened with
the spanking starting over,
but this doesn’t really happen. … Or at least, it hasn’t
happened yet!
When I’m getting ready to be spanked I mostly do what I’m told, but my legs are always pinned down with his.
I do take my own clothes off for my spanking.
In addition 1to being spanked OTK, I am also spanked by being made to bend over a
Spanking Bench from time-
When I am spanked, he uses the following implements on me:
Hand, Paddle, Strap,
Cane, Belt, Hairbrush, Wood Spoon, Wood Spatula, Ping-
I am normally spanked for 15 minutes, although it will be for as long as he wants
to spank me. …
I have gotten spanked with over 500 strokes!
If I misbehave away from home, I’ll get spanked when I get home.
And one time I got spanked for flipping-
Other than that, I also get spanked for Talking Back, Swearing, Getting In Trouble
At Work,
Skipping Work, Smoking, Just-
Current Age: 31-
[NOTE: The experiences of this girl demonstrate why one must be very careful who
one associates with
and what arrangements are made when it comes to allowing someone
else to punish you.
One of my first conversations about spanking with a girl via the mail was with a girl from Texas back in the 1960’s.
She was a submissive and wanted to be spanked.
One of her so-
entered and beat the crap out
of her to “give her what she wanted”!
Be careful. Not everyone actually understands the distinction between “discipline”
& “punishment”, and
just beating someone up for the sake of being abusive!]
[HOWEVER: This girl also demonstrates how a Loving Domestic Discipline relationship
can work very well,
as she has with her current boyfriend.
So, be careful, but find the one who knows how to discipline and punish you properly.
See her last paragraph.]
I’m a girl, 31-
My boyfriend is the one who does the spanking now.
Additional punishments to spanking normally include Corner-
Right now I get corner time with my panties down and a lecture along with each spanking.
Sometimes my boyfriend will also use an anal plug, or even anal sex if I have been really bad or need a reminder of who is in charge.
My parents would ground me often and lecture me.
My first husband would beat me, burn me, humiliate me, shove me down the stairs,
rape me, leave me with no money,
lock me in the house, lock me in closets, punch
me, and on and on ...
[NOTE: This is NOT “domestic discipline”, this is ABUSE!
If you are in a similar situation, get out any way you can before you are seriously injured or killed!!!]
When I am spanked it is not too often. I get spanked only 1 to 3 times a month,
less than once a week.
However, I would like to be spanked more … a lot more!
I have been spanked by my Dad, Mom, Grandmother, Older Brother, Boyfriend for Discipline
and Punishment,
Male Teacher, Babysitting Dad, Male Boss, Male Roommate, and Male
Friend.
When I was younger I was spanked by my mom or in the summers by my grandmother.
As I got older it was my father who did the spanking.
During camp I was spanked by my leader twice and one time by the father of a child I babysat for.
I was married before and my first husband disciplined me but it became abuse.
I was in a long-
After he left I asked a male friend to spank me.
Now I am in a DD relationship with my boyfriend. He disciplines me, but not often enough.
I have been spanked in front of others: Dad, Mom, Grandfather, Older Brother, Male
Neighbor, Boyfriend's Dad,
Boyfriend's Mom, Male Family Friend, Female Family Friend,
Houseguests, and Anyone who is present.
When I was spanked at home it was usually by my mom when I was alone,
but sometimes
if both my older brother and I misbehaved then we would be spanked together.
My dad spanked me with my Mom there.
My first husband would punish me wherever I was with whomever was there—
usually his
friends or family and our own children.
Sometimes he would spank me in front of my own friends and once in front of my parents.
The others were all done privately. My boyfriend now spanks me in private.
I am spanked on my bare bottom in front of others—
Mom, Grandmother, Boyfriend's
Dad, Boyfriend's Mom, Boyfriend, Male Family Friend, Female Family Friend, and Anyone
Present.
My mom and grandma sometimes spanked me on the bare, but not anyone else when I was little.
My first husband would strip me naked in front of anyone.
My boyfriend now normally lets me keep on just a shirt, but sometimes I am naked.
My mom would spank me wherever we were when I misbehaved.
If we were out she would tell me to "go to the bathroom" and spank me there with whatever she had on hand.
I already said my first husband would spank me wherever I was.
My current boyfriend sends me to our room for corner-
If I was spanked at school, I got spanked also at home.
When my ex spanked me he would sometimes send me to a bathroom or garage then tell me to strip naked and spank me.
Other times if it was people he knew he would order me over his lap pull down my clothes, then spank me right there.
My mom only spanked me over my cloths in public, but on the bare at home.
My current boyfriend only spanks me at home, but I usually behave myself in public.
When I am spanked I sometimes am wearing All my Clothes, but sometimes All my Clothes
but with Exposed Panties, and
sometimes my Clothes but Not my Panties for Bare Bottom
Spankings, and
then sometimes I’ll have All my Clothes on but my Panties come Off
for my Bare Bottom spankings, and
then sometimes I am naked from the Waist Down,
and sometimes I’ll have on Only my Panties and Bra, and
at other times Only my Bra,
my PJs, my Nighty, or I’ll be Naked.
My mom usually worked up to a bare bottom. My shirt was always on and my pants were pulled down.
My dad only did it while I was fully clothed.
My ex wanted me almost always naked except when others where present, then he just pulled my pants and panties down.
My current boyfriend has had me spanked in all different manor of dress. It depends on what I have done and how bad it was.
When I have to get ready for my spanking I do normally cooperate.
When I was young I was forced to bend over, but when I was older I mostly cooperated.
Now I am a bit of a "mixed bag". It depends on how I feel about what I have done.
Usually my boyfriend sends me to the corner in our room to stand. After about 10
minutes he makes me pull down my pants and
underwear and lift up the back of my shirt
to expose my butt.
He will have me kneel before him and tell him what I have done, why it was bad and what I thought needed to be done.
He would then lecture me about my behavior and order me into position, usually over his knee or bent over the bed to be spanked.
Sometimes if I am being a brat he will forgo corner-
Usually I have a longer corner-
If I resist being punished, most often Nothing Happens—my first husband was the exception.
Nothing else ever happened to me if I resisted being spanked when I was little, but
my first husband would beat me twice as long and again later.
Now, my boyfriend will give me extra strokes with a hairbrush if I get carried away.
My Spanker is normally the one who Takes my Clothes Off.
When I am spanked, I have been in all of the various positions, but over the knee is the most common.
I had never heard of being on my back for a spanking, but my ex usually did it with me in front of a mirror.
I would say I was punished most often in the bathroom.
Several different implements have been used on me: Hand, Belt, Hairbrush, Wood Spoon, Wood Spatula, Riding Crop, and Tree Switch.
My grandma had me cut my own switch. If we were camping my mom did the same.
My mom mostly used a wooden spoon.
My ex—well, usually anything he could find, his favorite being a belt, sometimes the metal end.
My boyfriend now uses a wooden spoon, a hairbrush, a yardstick (his current favorite)
a coat hanger
(when I am really bad) a crop, and my least favorite—the dreaded bath
brush.
He uses the bath brush in the shower so normally I am wet....OUCH!
Sometimes he will use one of my dress shoes or the remote control.
I am spanked for As Long As my Disciplinarian Wants. But, the maximum number of strokes is about 200.
When I was little I got spanked mostly for not behaving and doing as I was told.
My ex beat me for any reason he wanted.
Now I am spanked for breaking rules, not being safe, or for a maintenance spanking on a rare occasion.
If I misbehave away from home, I am Spanked At Home.
My mom never spanked me again at home when I misbehaved away from home, but my first husband did.
My boyfriend only spanks me at home.
When I was little my mom took my clothes off. With my ex I had to take them off myself.
Now my boyfriend will take them off unless I have to be naked... I prefer him doing
it...
if I have to actively do it myself I am far more embarrassed.
When I was little I was spanked with 10 strokes or so with the spoon.
My ex would spank me until I was nearly passed out.
My boyfriend now spanks me depending upon the infraction.
I have been given 20 or so swats, or 10 with each implement, or
when I have been
particularly bad or have been repeatedly punished for the same thing he will spank
me,
not until I cry because I normally am crying from the lectures, but
until I am
accepting my punishment, and even reaching my fanny up to receive more.
I am spanked for Poor Grades, Talking-
causing Too Much Noise in the Home, Not Doing my Chores, Not Doing
What I’m Told to do, and I’m given Maintenance Spankings.
My mom didn't go overboard when she spanked me, but did her best to keep me in line.
I was a precocious child and was usually finding my way into trouble.
The other spankings I received were so few as to be inconsequential.
The first man I ever slept with was the man I eventually married.
My ex-
punish me for any reason he could think of and put me in the hospital
on numerous occasions.
It was bad. I finally got away after 14 years, but I still craved … something.
My next relationship was so bland it would have bored vanilla.
He eventually disappeared on a bender, but I was not too broken up over it. I had no respect for him anyway.
I was struggling with my stress as a single mom so I asked a male friend of mine to spank me.
He did one night with the aid of alcohol, but it was not long enough to do me too much good, but I was able to sleep better for a few nights.
Soon I began dating again but never really took to anyone.
I would date, but just eventually would stop calling or responding to their messages.
I did find one guy who seemed to want to let me be submissive but he reminded me so much of my ex that I eventually disappeared as well.
That was when I met my current boyfriend.
We have been together two and a half years and I know he is the right man for me.
He is kind, understanding and loves to make me smile. I told him a few months in that I liked sex a bit rough, and enjoyed light spankings.
He took to it well and always lets me get off a few times before he does.
About a year into dating I brought up having a domestic discipline relationship. He was not sure about it, but was willing to give it a try.
Right now I get spanked about once a month or so. He has some trouble with doing it long enough sometimes, but is improving.
The last few were definitely long enough in duration and force.
I still wish he would do it more often and include some maintenance but we can still work on that.
I will be moving in with him in a few months and that may up the quantity some.
As it is now I only see him on the weekend and usually get spanked about ever 3-
I would prefer a 3-
I always sleep better, am less emotional and a lot less stressed after a spanking. I tend to stay up at night worrying if left on my own.
At one point before DD I was getting less than 3 to 4 hours of sleep a night. I was not eating healthy, and sickly.
Now I am in far better shape, but could stand some more help... I am optimistic though
:)
Current Age: 26 / U.S.
I am a 26-
In addition, I am also grounded, given Corner-
I am spanked 3 or 4 days a week, and spanked 5 to 10 times a week, so I am frequently spanked more than once a day.
And, I am spanked so often because there are a lot of people who spank me including:
Dad, Mom, Uncle, Aunt, Grandfather, Grandmother, Boyfriend for Discipline and Punishment,
Male Teacher, Female Teacher, Female Roommate, and Female Friend.
And, I am spanked in front of a lot of people too:
Dad, Mom, Uncle, Aunt, Grandfather,
Grandmother, Older Male Cousin, Older Female Cousin,
Younger Male Cousin, Younger
Female Cousin, Male Family Friend, Female Family Friend,
Male Teacher, Female Teacher,
Female Roommate, and Female Friend.
Fortunately though, I am only spanked on my bare bottom in front of just a few people:
Dad, Mom, Male Teacher, Female Teacher, Female Roommate, and Female Friend.
If I get spanked at school, which I do as you can see from who spanks me, I do not get spanked again at home.
Most often when I am spanked, I have on all of my clothes except for exposing my panties.
But also, I may have to have my panties taken down to be spanked on my bare bottom.
At other times I may be wearing only my panties and bra, my PJs or a bikini.
If my clothes have to come off, the one spanking me takes them off.
And I do resist when I’m going to be spanked, but then I get spanked harder.
I am spanked by hand, with a belt, hairbrush, wood spoon, wood spatula, and tree switch, which I have to get.
I am normally spanked with 50 to 75 strokes, or for 5 to 10 minutes, and I am spanked until I cry.
But I have been spanked with as many as 300 strokes!
If I misbehave away from home, I am spanked immediately in private over my clothes,
or I will be taken to the car and spanked on my bare bottom.
Of course, I will then be spanked again at home.
I get spanked a lot because I misbehave a lot.
I get spanked for: Talking-
Not Doing My Chores, Not Doing What I’m Told to Do,
Coming in Past Curfew,
Getting Up Late, Smoking, Not Being Ready On Time, and Having
Sex.
But also, I am given Just-
Current Age: 30 / U.S.
I am a 30-
I am now being spanked more than ever before. I get spanked 1 or 2 days a week, and 1 to 5 times a week.
My boyfriend spanks me when I disobey him as well as for sex. When he tells me to do something, I have to do it or get spanked.
Also, I’ll get spanked if I do not get ready on time, talk-
But also, he gives me Submission Spankings to make sure that I will submit to him and do what I’m told to do.
And he gives me Proprietary Spankings to make sure that I understand that he owns me and will do what he wants to do with me, which I also enjoy!
And, of course, he gives me Just-
I have been spanked in front of my dad and mom as well as a female friend.
I am spanked on my bare bottom in front of my boyfriend, female friend, and really just anyone who is present.
When I get spanked, I am often wearing my clothes but not my panties when I’m spanked on my bare bottom.
But also, I may be naked from the waist down, or wearing only my bra, or wearing
a nighty, bikini, or I may be naked …
just whatever my boyfriend wants.
I do cooperate when I have to get spanked and if I don’t, I’ll get spanked harder.
My boyfriend spanks me with his hand, a paddle or strap, a cane, his belt, a hairbrush,
ping-
And he spanks me quite a lot … 50 to 75 strokes, or 75 to 100, or 100 to 150, or
150 to 200, …
just whatever he wants to do.
He just spanks me for as long as he wants.
And, he has spanked me with as many as 400 strokes.
So, just whatever he wants to do, I have to get spanked.
If I misbehave away from home, I get spanked immediately over my clothes.
Or, I’ll be taken somewhere private where I’ll be spanked on my bare bottom.
Or, he’ll take me to the car and spank my bare bottom there.
Of course, when we get home, I’ll get spanked again.
When I have to get spanked, he’ll tell me what clothes to take off, but I like it more when he takes my clothes off to spank me.
Current Age: 30 / Taiwan
[NOTE: This post is from a girl who asked to be spanked hard to avoid committing suicide.
I have successfully used hard spankings with girls who were cutters, and I helped
them overcome
their cutting habits in a very short period of time, even after they
had been in “therapy” for over 2 years.
It took less than a month of hard spankings to “cure” them of cutting.
In fact, of course, the hard spankings seemed to replace the effect of cutting, but
spanking
does not have the harmful effects that cutting has … like going to the hospital
near death!
From this post, it appears as though hard spankings will also help to “cure” suicide thoughts.
Again, as this girl asserts, the pain of the spanking took the place of the suicide thoughts!
I have long suspected that hard spankings could have such an effect, and the evidence
is
beginning to support my contentions.
The main requirement is that the girls have to be whipped HARD!
Most often, the girl at some point has to be taken to a Punishment Room, strung up
and
whipped during a 30-
A very bruised bottom
is an indication that the whipping is working … as well as how loud the girl is crying!]
I am now a 30-
The last time I was spanked was when I was 28. However, I want someone to care for me and spank me again.
I know that I need to be spanked to help me think good about myself and relieve pressure of too many worries.
Girls here are frequently spanked, regardless of how old they are.
I was spanked the most when I was less than 18-
I was spanked 3 to 4 days a week, but was spanked quite often, more than once a day, sometimes, 3, 4 or 5 times a day.
I was spanked over 25 times a week.
I was spanked by my father, but also by my male and female teachers.
The teachers who spanked me were the Headmaster, the Director of Students, and the Dormitory Superintendent.
I went to a very strict private school where students were frequently spanked.
And, when I was spanked, they would call my parents and I would get spanked again
when I got home, or
I would get my face slapped, or sent to study for 3 more hours
with no dinner.
I would get spanked on my bare bottom in front of classmates and other teachers.
I was spanked in the classroom and the Headmaster’s office.
I would be wearing all my clothes, but sometimes I had to pull my panties down to be spanked on my bare bottom.
But, when I was going to get spanked, I did cooperate. I would take off whatever clothes I was ordered to take off.
Most of the time I would get whipped on my legs with a heavy belt or cane.
If I resisted being spanked I would get spanked harder, receive more strokes or get spanked again.
When I got spanked for poor grades, I had to stand and lean against the wall with my hands.
At school I would get 10 to 20 strokes of the cane.
I got spanked for cheating, getting in trouble at school, not finishing my homework,
poor grades, skipping school, and talking-
If I misbehaved away from home, I would get spanked immediately over my clothes.
If I have to remove my clothes, I will have to hold my skirt as I am spanked.
When I was 28, I asked a friend online to spank me with a cane and paddle on my bare bottom with 300 strokes.
I needed to be punished for my harmful thoughts and actions. I was attempting suicide by taking a drug overdose.
To stop that kind of thinking, I thought that a very hard spanking would help.
When he came, I took off my panties, pulled my skirt up and bent over the end of the bed.
He spanked me with 300 strokes, and after he spanked me, I was bruised for over a month!
He really hit me hard! But, it worked just perfect to stop me away from suicide.
Although it was so painful, it worked and I think it is the only way to make me stop
my self-
I think to be spanked is a very helpful way to relax pressure, especially for those who can’t stop the idea of suicide.
Current Age: 18 / New Zealand
I am an 18-
I am still being spanked, but have been spanked the most when I was younger.
And since I evidently have a nasty mouth, I get my mouth washed out with soap at times!
I still get spanked 3 or 4 days a week, if not more, and get spanked several times a day as I get spanked 10 to 15 times a week.
I get spanked so much because it is my female roommate who does the spanking and I guess she just really enjoys spanking me!
Also, she spanks me in front of my male friend.
And, when I am spanked I have to take my own clothes off from the waist down so I am spanked on my bare bottom.
But when I am made to take my clothes off I do resist. But then I get spanked harder!
I am spanked with a hairbrush, and spanked for as long as my roommate wants to spank me!
Although she normally only spanks me with 150 strokes at the most.
If I misbehave away from home, she will take me somewhere private and spank me on my bare bottom.
Most often I am spanked for not doing what I am told to do.
Current Age: 18 / USA
I am an 18-
I was spanked most often when I was less than 18.
I was spanked only 1 to 3 times per month.
Mom was the one who did the spanking, but I was spanked in front of dad.
I had my clothes on when I was spanked in front of others.
I was spanked on my bare bottom only in private.
But, I would have my clothes on except for my panties for my bare-
I had to take off my panties to be spanked. And, I always cooperated when I had to be spanked.
I was spanked with a wood spoon, but not more than 10 strokes.
If I misbehaved away from home, I got spanked when I got home.
I got spanked for talking-
Current Age: 31-
I’m 35-
However, I got spanked most often when I was younger, although I was never spanked very often, only about 1 to 3 times a month.
I was also given Corner-
My dad did the spanking, and I was spanked in front of house guests, just whoever was there.
But, I was only spanked on my bare bottom in front of dad as he spanked me.
When I was spanked, I had my clothes on if others were around, but no panties for
my bare-
If I got spanked at school, which I did, I also got spanked when I got home.
I did normally resist when I was about ready to be spanked, and when I did resist, I got spanked harder.
My dad took my clothes off to spank me and he used a hairbrush on me until I cried.
Although, the most strokes I got was about 50.
If I misbehaved away from home, I got spanked on my bare bottom in private.
I was spanked simply for not doing what I was told to do.
Current Age: 19 / Country unknown ???
I’m a 19-
I am spanked more now than I ever have been.
Of course I am naked when I get spanked, and really cooperate as I take my clothes off for my spanking.
Of course, if I do resist, I will get spanked harder.
In addition to getting spanked, I also am grounded, given corner-
have my mouth washed out with soap, given lines, have my privileges taken
away and am lectured.
I don’t get spanked too often, only 1 to 3 days per month.
But, when he does spank me I get spanked for as long as he wants to spank me,
with
the maximum number of strokes being over 500.
(Once he gets going, he just really likes to spank me!)
Current Age: 25 / Netherlands
I’m a 25-
I was spanked the most when I was 15 and 16. And, in addition to getting spanked, I was also grounded.
Mom is the one who does the spanking, and she spanks me bare-
I got spanked at school, and when I did, I also got spanked when I got home.
I do cooperate when I get spanked, and I take my panties off so mom can spank me on my bare bottom.
But, when I am spanked, I really get spanked! I am spanked for more than 20 minutes as I am given 300 to 400 strokes.
When I am really bad, I get 500 strokes.
I am spanked by hand, with a belt, a hairbrush and wood spoon.
If I misbehave away from home, I get spanked when I get home.
Mom spanks me right from the start on my bare bottom with her hairbrush.
There is no “warm-
I get spanked for Talking-
** Current Age: 26 / Sweden
I am a 26-
I was spanked most often when I was less than 18 years old.
I was spanked only 1 to 3 times a month, but I was spanked 1 to 5 times a week,
so
sometimes I was spanked more than once a day!
I am spanked only by my dad, my older brother, my boyfriend’s dad, and, of course, my boyfriend for discipline.
When I am spanked, I have been spanked in front of my Dad, Mom, Uncle, Aunt,
Grandfather,
Grandmother, Older Female Cousin, Younger Male Cousin, Older Brother,
Older Sister,
Younger Brother, Male Neighbor, Boyfriend's Dad,
Boyfriend's Mom, Boyfriend, and
a Male Family Friend.
When I’m spanked, I am spanked naked, or wearing only a bra, or with my clothes on but I have to bare my bottom to get spanked.
When I bare my bottom to get spanked, others see me get spanked on my bare bottom
such as:
my Dad, Mom, Uncle, Grandfather, Grandmother, Older Brother, Older Sister,
Younger Brother, Boyfriend's Dad, Boyfriend's Mom, Boyfriend, and Male Family Friend.
Of course, when I got spanked at school, I also got spanked when I got home.
And, if I misbehave away from home, I’ll be taken to the car and spanked, and then spanked again when I get home.
Frequently I resist when I’m about to get spanked, and when I do, I’ll get spanked harder.
And, whenever I’m spanked, I have to take my own clothes off.
When I am spanked, I am spanked by Hand, or with a Paddle, Hairbrush, or Ping-
normally receive 50 to 75 strokes, although I have received as many as
200!
I get spanked for a lot of reasons, but mainly for Talking-
Not Doing What I’m Told, Getting up Late, Skipping Work, or Not
Getting Ready on Time.
Current Age: 29 / U.S.
[This is an interesting report in that it is very similar to what I have done with
girls who have worked for me,
except that my girls were spanked much more often,
normally at least twice a week.
My website, http://www.spankedcoeds2.com/index.html, is patterned after my experiences
in
administering spankings to girls both in their home and in the office.
And, I had an office manager, portrayed by Daija in my movies,
who would also administer
spankings as needed or when told to do so.
And, in my office, since all girls were spanked, they were spanked on their bare
bottoms
in front of anyone who was there, and they would be made to raise their skirt
and pull
their panties down, or strip naked as ordered. The office was private, so
there
was no concern about others who did not work their seeing anything!
The following photos are indicative of the punishment given to girls in my office.]
I
I am a 29-
I was spanked most often when I was 20, but I really have not been spanked too often at any age.
I only get spanked 1 to 3 times a month, and I am spanked at home and
I am spanked
at work by my male boss and female office manager.
My boss gave my female manager permission to spank me when she sees fit.
When my manager spanks me, she spanks me in front of my boss and the office staff.
But, I am spanked bare-
And, if I am spanked at the office I am not spanked again when I get home.
When I am spanked, I may have my clothes on but with my panties exposed.
If I am to be spanked on my bare bottom, my panties are taken down or I am stripped naked from the waist down by my disciplinarian.
And I do cooperate when I get spanked, since if I don’t, I’ll get spanked harder.
When I have to get spanked, my disciplinarian takes my clothes off that he/she wants off. Then I am spanked by hand or with a hairbrush, and I am spanked for as long as my spanker wants to spank me.
If I misbehave away from home, I am spanked immediately over my clothes,
and then
taken to a place that is private and spanked on my bare bottom.
I get spanked for talking-
Current Age: ?? / U.S.
I am a girl who has been spanked most often at 13 and 15. I guess I got a break when I was 14!
In addition to being spanked, sometimes mom gives me a large soapsuds punishment enema after a spanking.
I only get spanked one or two days a week, but sometimes more than once a day as I get spanked 1 to 5 times a week.
Mom spanks me and my younger sisters, always on our bare bottoms. Dad also spanks us on our bare bottom.
When mom or dad gives me a spanking, they always take my panties down to my knees.
Spankings are always on the bare bottom for me and my sisters.
Most often I am wearing my clothes except that my panties are off so I can be spanked on my bare bottom.
But sometimes I am naked when I have to get spanked.
When I have to get spanked, I cooperate most of the time, but if I don’t, I get spanked again.
When I am told that I am going to be spanked, I start crying because I know that the hairbrush and leather strap are going to hurt.
Whichever one they use on me, I am going to be hurt a lot so I start crying as I am getting ready to be spanked.
Whoever spanks me takes my clothes off so that they can spank me on my bare bottom.
The position I’m in for my spanking depends on what implement is used on me.
Hairbrush spankings are OTK, but when I get the strap, I'm face down over pillows on the bed.
I'm also face down on the bed for a switching with a tree switch, which I have to get for them to use on me.
Most spankings are with the hairbrush and that awful leather strap.
But when I really get in bad trouble, I get my bare bottom and the backs of my legs switched with a switch from a tree in the backyard.
I am normally given 20 to 30 strokes, but sometimes as many as 40 when I’m really bad.
I really cry a lot when I get spanked hard with 40 strokes.
If I misbehave away from home, I know that I’ll get spanked when we get home.
As soon as we get home, I have to get ready for my spanking.
When I have to get ready to be spanked, I do take my shoes off if I'm wearing any.
Then mom or dad takes my pants down to my knees.
Next they take my panties down. If I'm wearing a dress they take it off and I'm just in my bra and panties.
Then my panties are taken down to my knees and I’m made to lay across their lap for my spanking.
Most often I get spanked for coming in past curfew.
Getting spanked with mom's hairbrush and the leather strap hurts my bare bottom a
lot, but the worst,
and my sisters agree, too, is getting what mom calls "an old
fashioned switchin"
on the bare bottom and the backs of our bare legs.
For a bare bottom switching they take all of our clothes off except for the bra.
The switch just stings our bottom and legs something awful, too.
Mom got the hairbrush and strap when she was a kid, but she also got switched bare
and she really didn't like that,
but she said it kept her out of trouble so I and
my sisters get switched bare, too.
Current Age: 21 / U.S.
I am a girl, 21-
In addition to being spanked, I also had privileges taken away.
Actually, I was not spanked very much, not even once a week. But, I was spanked by a male friend of mine.
He would take me to a hotel room where he was staying. I was spanked on my bare bottom as he sat on a couch.
He spanked me with his hand and my hairbrush.
He let me keep my clothes on except I had to have my panties off so he could spank my bare bottom.
I wore my T-
exposing my bare bottom to be spanked.
My male friend was the one who took my clothes off so he could spank me.
And, I practically always cooperated in receiving my spanking.
In preparing for my spanking, I was lectured and had to answer to him why I was being spanked and he told me to improve in the future.
I was then taken over his knee and spanked soundly on my jeans, then panties, then bare bottom.
Although I normally cooperated in getting spanked, if I did resist, I got spanked harder.
Also, I would then be given more and harder spankings on my bare bottom with his hand and hairbrush.
I was spanked by hand and then a hairbrush was used to spank my bare bottom.
He would first warm up my bottom with his hand on my panties,
then firm hand spanking
on my bare bottom, then hairbrush on my bare bottom.
He would spank me with 100 to 150 strokes, 150 being the maximum.
My spanking lasted about 30 minutes including corner time. I was spanked for poor
grades.
Current Age: 22 / Eritrea
[It would be good to hear more from this girl!]
I am a 22-
And, I get spanked more now than I ever have.
The reason is that I get spanked by my male boss.
And, I have to get spanked or I will not have a job.
And, jobs are hard to get, so I do whatever I have to do to keep my job.
Also I live in Eritrea, in Africa, where girls are frequently spanked.
I am spanked in front of my older sister.
I am spanked 5 to 6 days a week,
and on many days I am spanked more than once.
I am spanked 5 to 10 times a week.
I work as a house-
always on my bare
bottom and with his hand,
or a strap or cane, and sometimes all three.
When he spanks me I have to be naked and I have to take my own clothes off.
If I resist being spanked, he will spank me harder.
When he spanks me, I first get hand-
But then I have to lay face-
with a strap or cane.
Of course, being a house-
for me to lie down
on.
And, I get spanked for as long as my boss wants to spank me,
but normally not more
than 100 strokes with the strap or cane.
If I misbehave away from home I’ll get spanked in private where I work.
But, I just get spanked every day anyway,
since my boss spanks me just-
My boss just likes spanking me, so every day I get spanked.
Current Age: 41-
I am a 40+-
However, I am not spanked very often, less than once-
My boyfriend does the spanking for discipline and punishment.
I am never spanked in front of anyone else, but he lives in an apartment where sometimes
my spankings can be heard
depending on time of day and if the people are home or
if the TV is on to mask the sound.
If I don't listen and don’t get naked right away or have been especially bad,
he
makes sure others know what he is doing either by where I get the spanking (near
the front door so others can hear),
or by telling me I'm going to get one in front
of someone and making me answer him.
I am always naked when I get spanked, and I always cooperate by taking my clothes off.
Of course, if I resist getting spanked, I’ll get spanked harder.
My most humiliating spankings are with me on my back with my legs up and spread, and especially if he is recording it.
He uses a variety of implements on me, although usually he uses his hand because he does not want to bruise me.
But he does use a Paddle, Belt, Hairbrush, Wood Spoon, Ping-
He normally gives me 20 to 30 strokes, but 30 strokes is the most.
However, he spanks me very hard, but not long.
He spanks me just enough to get the point across as I have had back surgery and he doesn't want to hurt me.
Mostly I'm spanked for not doing something I'm told to do or not getting my chores
done,
and sometimes for swearing too much. But, he also gives me submission spankings.
If I misbehave away from home, I’ll get spanked when we get home.
I am totally naked during a spanking because it makes me feel more vulnerable and
submissive that way,
and now that my boyfriend knows that, I have to immediately
take everything off when he tells me to, including socks.
He always tells me "humiliation teaches obedience".
When the spanking is over, I am not allowed clothes for the rest of the day, but
if someone comes over,
I'm allowed to put on a long, thin, white t-
It is very humiliating, but I agreed to obey him and take the consequences.
I'm treated very well and not abused, so I can deal with it, though it does make
me angry that I'm treated like a little girl!
**Current Age: 20 / U.K.
I’m a 20-
And, I am spanked more now than I was before.
Daddy has always spanked me, but when I was 17 I was spanked a lot and he found that
if he spanked me more I behaved better and did better in school and work.
So, the number of spankings I receive has actually increased as he expects more out of me now than before.
Also, I now receive 1-
He’ll spend an hour with me in different positions as he uses different implements on me to punish me hard.
He wants me to cry a lot when he spanks me. And, if I do not cry enough, he hits me harder.
I normally get lectured before he spanks me.
He is very formal, and I have to report to his home-
I have to kneel in front of him and keep my hands flat on my thighs as he lectures me.
I cannot say a word and cannot defend myself in any way.
If I object or attempt to say something, he’ll schedule another spanking after the one I’m going to get.
When he’s done lecturing me, I have to stand up and take off my gown.
Then he tells me what position he wants me in and what implement to bring him.
I have to hand him the implement he is going to use on me and then get into position, normally over his knee.
Also, in addition to getting spanked, I may also be grounded.
But for me, being grounded does not only mean that I can’t go out or have privileges
taken away,
but I’ll get spanked every day that I am grounded.
If I’m grounded I have to report to my room at 10:30 each evening, take my clothes off and sit on my bed and wait to be spanked.
Daddy says that it is not enough just to ground me, but I have to also continue to
be punished,
and he spanks me every night before bed.
I get spanked for something almost every day and most often 2 or more times a day.
I know that some may think this is somewhat perverted, but I don’t mind.
I know that Daddy likes to see me in my sheer dress so he can see me.
And he likes watching me do what he tells me to do as he checks me when he makes me “model” for him.
Before I bring him the implement he is going to use to spank me, I have to stand
up and turn
around slowly, and bend over and stay in some position for a few minutes,
like bending
over and holding onto my ankles as he looks at me.
But, I don’t mind, I like doing what Daddy tells me to do.
Each week I can count on being spanked 10 to 15 times if not more.
Although I am spanked mainly by my dad, my younger brother also spanks me,
and my
best girlfriend’s mom spanks me when I misbehave when visiting my girlfriend and
especially if I stay overnight with her, which I do a couple of times a month.
When we are together, we normally get in trouble and we both get spanked.
When we are, we are sent to my girlfriend’s room and told to take our clothes off.
When her mom comes in about 20 minutes later we each take our turn over her knee as she uses a hairbrush on us.
She normally gives each of our cheeks 50 strokes.
My girlfriend also gets spanked a lot by her mom, which is why we are friends.
Most girls do not get spanked here since it is really frowned on!
But, some girls are still spanked, and we just keep quiet about it.
My younger brother, who is now 18, has been spanking me since he was 16.
Daddy says that I have to learn to be obedient to a man, and the best way to learn that is to be spanked by my brother.
Also, I have to do the chores around the home, since that is “girls work” as my brother says.
And he is the one who is responsible for making sure I get my chores done right and on time.
If I don’t, he can spank me, and he does.
For him, I have to take my clothes off and bend over the back of a chair as he uses my paddle on me.
He normally spanks me once or twice a week.
If I object or resist in any way to him spanking me, he’ll tell dad and then dad
will spank me really hard with his belt
and then watch as I have to bend over a chair
so my brother can spank me anyway!
When I am spanked, I am always spanked on my bare bottom, regardless of who is present.
And, I must most often take all my clothes off.
Of course, my brother and girlfriend see me get spanked on my bare bottom, but no one else.
Not too many people can know that I get spanked.
Of course, I do not get spanked at school. That stopped a long time ago, unfortunately.
If I misbehave away from home, I will be taken to the car so no one can see me getting
spanked,
and made to bare my bottom and bend over dad’s knee to get spanked.
Then, when we get home I have to go to my room, undress and wait to be spanked again.
As you can see, I am most often naked when I get spanked.
But, sometimes I will get spanked after I get ready for bed.
When I am I have to report to Daddy wearing my PJ’s, pull the bottoms down and bend over his knee.
I always take my own clothes off when I get spanked, and if I resist, either taking
my clothes off or getting spanked,
I’ll get spanked harder, and then spanked again
later, much harder. So I seldom resist.
I am most often spanked over Daddy’s knee, although I may also be made to just bend
over and
grab my ankles or bend over a chair, bed or something.
Then, I am spanked by hand, paddle or with a hairbrush, and sometimes with Daddy’s belt or a cane.
Daddy doesn’t use the cane much anymore, although when I was younger, he used it a lot on me.
When I am spanked with a hairbrush, I have to get it for Daddy since it is a special hairbrush that has a large head and is very hard.
Whenever I have to get that hairbrush I know that I am going to be spanked very hard
and
will be crying convulsively before he gets done with me.
Most often I am spanked with 100 slaps or strokes to each cheek,
although it can
be more, especially during my 1-
During those sessions, I am just really cried-
I am spanked for not doing my chores and having a messy room.
I am spanked for being rude or talking-
I am spanked for getting in trouble at work, and for not doing what I am told at work or at home.
I am frequently spanked before bed just-
And I can be stopped anytime in the home and get spanked for any reason my daddy
thinks
I need to be spanked or just because he wants to spank me.
I know that he likes spanking me, but I am OK with that since I love him so much and I know he loves me.
**Current Age: 41-
really see what goes on in this Loving Domestic Discipline Relationship.
And,
I received another detailed survey today that I will post later this week.]
I am a girl over 40 years old, and am spanked more now than I ever have been.
I am in a Loving Domestic Discipline Relationship and enjoy it completely.
I am spanked by my boyfriend for discipline and punishment 1 or 2 days a week, and spanked 1 to 5 times a week.
One memorable spanking I received was when we were on a road trip.
I smarted-
He ordered me out of the car, bent me over the hood of the car and wore out my bottom with his belt.
Most often I have on my clothes when I’m spanked, although I may have to expose my
panties or
pull them down for a bare-
Frequently, he takes me over his knee and spanks me with his hand on my bare bottom.
Then he orders me to pull my pants up and I get paddled and then whipped with his
belt.
I normally cooperate when I get spanked and do what he tells me to so that he can spank me.
However, if I resist in any way, I’ll get spanked a lot harder—5 licks with his belt.
When I get spanked, I have to bend over his knee and get spanked on my bare bottom.
After that, I pull my pants back up and have to bend over the bed, sofa or table
and that's when
the worst starts with the paddle and belt—paddle first, and then
the belt.
And, I get spanked for as long as he wants to spank me.
If I misbehave away from home, I can count on getting spanked when we get home.
I frequently get spanked for talking-
I live in a [Loving] Domestic Discipline relationship.
I must say I have never been happier. He is very loving when he spanks me.
When I get paddled, I am bent over -
painful part of any spanking he gives, even the bare bottom part of it.
He knows how to "bring the wood." Occasionally, I get a warm-
then I have to pull my pants down and bend
back over and he spanks me with his hand for a very....long....time.
He does not stop unless I am a sobbing, blubbering mess.
On a couple of very rare occasions, he has whipped me with his belt on the bare bottom
-
I recently quit my job. When he
got home, not only did I get the usual,
but I was also given several licks with a
switch -
This was probably the longest and most painful spanking I've ever received from him.
I also had to ask for more. I also have to submit to a spanking for quitting my job every other evening until I find another job.
I didn't get spanked last night, so when he gets home this evening, I will get the
warm-
They will be extremely hard swats and very painful. Then I will have to ask for another 30.
Then I will pull my pants down and bend over his knee and receive a really hard spanking with his hand.
hen he sees fit to end that part, I will be allowed to pull my pants up, but I will
have to
bend over again and get several hard, painful licks with his belt.
Tomorrow evening, I will have off to rest for the evening after, unless I get lucky
enough to find a job.
Current Age: 41-
I was spanked last and most often when I was under 18-
I normally was only spanked with fewer than 10 strokes, and the most I ever got was 10.
Mom did the spanking with a belt as dad watched. I was spanked with all of my clothes on, but on my bare bottom.
Mom would take my clothes down to be spanked as I cooperated.
If I misbehaved away from home, mom would spank me on my bare bottom in private.
But, I did get spanked fairly often, 1 or 2 days a week, and 1 to 5 times a week being spanked.
I was spanked most often for talking-
Current Age: 19 / Country: USA
I’m a 19-
I am normally wearing slacks when he spanks me. I get spanked a couple of times a week.
My boyfriend spanks me, but that is just for sex, since he really does not want to hurt me.
I wish he would spank me hard, but he doesn’t. I’ll probably find another boyfriend.
**Current Age: 22 / Country: USA
I’m a 22-
But now I am only spanked 1 to 3 times a month, whereas when I was 12-
when my mouth got me in a lot of trouble, I was spanked 1 to 5 times a week!
My Daddy has spanked me and still does, but my mom and stepdad have also spanked
me,
but my Daddy always spanks me in a loving way so that I learn to be responsible
and a better girl, whereas
my stepdad was abusive when he spanked me—he just spanked
me to hurt me rather than help me learn.
In addition to being spanked, I am also grounded, given corner-
have privileges taken away, and lectured.
Also, I used to lose driving rights, and after corner-
If I fell asleep while sitting on my bed, my punishment would start over with another
spanking
and then I would have to stand until bedtime.
When I was younger (9-
I didn't think it was fair bc he wasn’t my real dad.
I told my dad thinking he would make my stepdad stop but instead he said if I got
spanked at mom’s
I would get spanked again when I got home.
I was at mom’s every other week, so I normally got spanked every other week when I got home!
Dad said if I acted up at mom’s it made it seem like he wasn’t a good father.
That hurt worse than the spankings bc my dad was and is the best father.
I hated staying at mom’s bc my stepsis was such a brat and always blamed everything
on me—
and my mom always took her side, and mom would make me "confess" to Ben when
Ben got home.
It happened a lot until mom and Ben split up.
I still blame him for wrecking our family, but my dad was right to make me obey Ben
even though it was only my fault about half the time.
I still don't think steps should spank and my mom should have said so.
I have been spanked in front of mom and my younger sister.
When my stepdad spanked me my mom was always there.
If I was being punished for doing something to my stepsis, she would watch.
Once my older brother and his friends snuck in to watch me get it (on the bare when I was 7, brother was 10).
My dad caught him and gave my brother the belt right in front of me and Jack’s friends.
After he sent Jack’s friends home Dad left Jack in the corner while he took me upstairs to finish my spanking.
All spankings were in our own rooms after that until mom and dad split, and my stepdad spanked us wherever we were.
And, just as I got spanked at home if I got spanked at mom’s, if I get spanked at school, which I did, I also got spanked when I got home.
When I got spanked away from home it was usually my mom, Daddy, or Ben, except at school when someone else spanked me.
Ben and mom would just take my arm and say "Enough. Time for a spanking."
Daddy was kinder and would say "I think someone is having a bad day. Let’s go talk about how to make it better."
Either way I knew what was next, but with Daddy I knew he was trying to teach me better self control.
Mom and Ben just wanted to embarrass me bc they said my bad behavior embarrassed them.
Other than at school, I was spanked away from home by others only once, but I got it good.
I was on a Girl Scout camp out. Some of us went swimming and thought it would be funny to skinny dip.
But our troop leader didn't. When she saw our clothes in a pile, she took all but our panties back to camp and called home.
When we got back to camp in just our panties we knew we were in huge trouble. One girl’s mom came and took her home.
The rest of us actually had to go find a green switch for our spanking.
We went behind a tent one at a time and took 10 licks each with those awful switches.
I don't know if it was worse to hear the four girls who went before me, or to know the whole troop would hear me.
I never got whipped at scouts again, but I sure remember getting another when I got home.
When I am spanked, I am wearing my clothes without my panties so I can be spanked on my bare bottom.
Sometimes I am naked from the waist down, and other times I am wearing my PJs.
The clothes I wear when being spanked depends on where and when I’m spanked.
When I was younger (before 17) my parents took me upstairs and made me pull down my own pants.
Then after going over their knee I would have to say why I deserved a spanking.
Then mom or daddy would pull off my panties right before starting. I was not allowed to pull them back up until I stopped crying.
Then my corner time started. Once c.t. was over I had to apologize for being disobedient. Then mom would send me to my room.
Daddy would always hug me and remind me he only spanked bc he loved me and wanted me to be a good girl.
If I was very sorry, he would let me cuddle with him and watch TV.
If I wasn’t sorry, it was off to my room until bedtime when I’d get some more motivation to be sorry (apparently another spanking).
Mommy and Ben just punished me but Daddy always forgave me once I was sorry and we would "wipe the slate clean".
Now if Dad has to spank me I have to go to my room and "get ready" before he comes to my room.
I can have a t-
When I get spanked now, when Daddy has to spank me, I cooperate and get ready to be spanked.
Now when I get spanked I know it is for my own good so I cooperate.
I go upstairs and get ready and when dad comes in if he sits on the bed I go right over his knee.
If he just stands and picks up the strap I know I have to lie down on the bed for a good whipping.
If I resist being spanked, I get spanked again.
If I resist, dad holds me down to finish my spanking but for each time I move I know he will have to give me another spanking in an hour.
Once I got the brush in the morning and bc I rubbed my tush 3 times I got both the
brush and
the strap 3 more times at 10, 11, and 12. If I willfully resist it is
worse.
Of course, since I cooperate in getting spanked, I take my own clothes off for my spanking now.
I am frequently spanked by hand, but I have also had a paddle, strap, hairbrush and tree switch used on me.
My strap is from an antique store. It was used to sharpen straight razors (a razor strop) so it is very thick but still flexible.
I have to rub it with glove oil every week to keep it flexible. It hurts so much if I get it the same day I oil it.
My brush is hard wood about ½-
It is 6-
Daddy drilled the holes, but I had to sand it, paint my name on it and put on 5 coats of varnish.
It still hangs over my bed as a reminder that girls are "never too big for a good paddle." My brother got to burn his on his 16th bday.
[Again, boys are treated different than girls. Back in the 1940’s and 1950’s (and probably before that), girls were still being made to take a nap in the afternoon so that they would behave better, whereas boys just went about whatever they were doing.]
When I’m spanked, I receive 40 to 50 strokes and it takes about 20 minutes. The most strokes I’ve received is 150.
Now I am spanked mainly for oversleeping, being late (that is my most frequent reason
now),
and having a fresh mouth or saying something bad about my mom.
I do not have a good relationship with her but my dad says I still have to respect her and visit her.
If I refuse to visit her, dad will spank me for being rude to my mom and also for disobeying him.
When I was a teen, I got spanked a lot for drinking and bad grades, but mostly for arguing with my stepsis and stepdad.
I still get spanked for saying I hate them, but it is worth it bc I do hate them.
I don't see Ben any more but I have to eat dinner with my mom and stepsis once a week.
It almost always means a spanking bc most weeks I say I hate them and I won’t go,
but the spanking somehow helps me deal with the stress so I am grateful my dad cares
enough to make me obey.
If I am spanked away from home, I am spanked on my bare bottom in private.
I am taken to the car and I have to bare my bottom to get spanked.
Of course, when I get home, I’m spanked again.
When I get home, my dad takes me to my room and makes me tell him what I did and what my punishment was away from home.
Then he gives me 2x whatever I got away from home, but with the hairbrush or strap.
Then I have to SIT and write an apology to whoever spanked me first (usually Ben) and tell them what I got at home.
I almost always have corner time after that (10 minutes x my age).
I have to hold the brush or strap the whole time as a reminder (as if I could forget).
For the number of strokes, I get 2x or 3x my age at one time.
I get about 5 minutes warm up, then as many hard spanks by hand as I need to get ready. Then the real spanks.
I only count the real spanks, but if I resist and earn extra licks those count as part of that spanking.
With corner time in between it took about 4 hours to finish my longest spanking.
I have been spanked for poor grades, talking-
not doing what I’m told, coming in past curfew, getting up late, skipping
school, and drinking.
Current Age: 19 / Country: USA
I am a 19-
I get spanked most often for talking-
And I guess I talk-
Some days I just talk-
I am also made to undress so that I am naked and am given Corner-
My younger male cousin is the one who does the spanking and I am spanked in front of my uncle.
If I am spanked at school, I also get spanked at home.
But, if I misbehave away from home, I am spanked immediately on my bare bottom.
(NOTE: This is all the information provided for this girl.
Additional information would have been good, and I’ll update this survey if I get more information.)
Current Age: 22 / Country: USA
I am a 22-
I have never been spanked too often, much less than once a week. But, when I am spanked or punished, it is very thorough.
In addition to being spanked, I am also grounded, made to stand in the corner naked, and lectured.
When I am punished, I am forced to strip naked so that I can be inspected very thoroughly.
My uncle and aunt are the ones who spank me, they spank me on my bare bottom, and
they spank me bare-
However I am also spanked, not bare-
But, I have also been spanked in front of a small group of mature men.
When I was 18, I posed for a group of amateur photographers for a private photo shoot
and it included
nude inspection, oral sex, spanking, and anal probing.
A large warehouse was used as a photo studio and is where I was stripped naked and made to perform in front of the guys.
When I am spanked for real, I am wearing only my panties and bra, or just my bra, PJ’s or nighty.
When I am to be spanked, I can wear my bra and panties at first, I am then admonished, but then I have to strip naked to be spanked.
When I am spanked, I am spanked OTK, or made to get on my hands and knees, naked, with my hips raised and legs spread.
I am spanked by hand or with a paddle. I usually only get about 30 to 40 strokes, although I have gotten 75 at times.
I get spanked for poor grades, talking-
If I misbehave away from home and have to be spanked, I am spanked on my bare bottom
in private,
and then spanked again when I get home.
I have only been spanked about 3 dozen times, and I find the discipline helps me
focus on what I should do;
and the erotic aspects, such as being inspected, the fondling
and probing, are very thrilling and erotic.
**Current Age: 20 / Country: USA
I’m a 20-
The last time I was spanked was when I was 17 (as she apparently moved out on her own when she turned 18).
But, when I was 17 and younger, I was spanked every day and frequently more than once a day—
in fact most of the time I was spanked more than once a day as I received more than 25 spankings every week, 3 to 5 spankings a day!
My parents are very strict and expect a lot of me and I am spanked when I disobey them or misbehave or do not meet their expectations.
And, I am punished every day, not only with spankings but also by being grounded,
given corner-
I also have had my mouth washed out with soap, made to write lines, have privileges taken away and lectured.
I am spanked so often because there are a lot of people who can spank me.
Of course my Dad spanks me, but I am also spanked by:
My Uncle, Grandfather, Older Male Cousin, Older Brother, Girlfriend's Dad, Boyfriend's
Dad,
Boyfriend for Discipline and Punishment, Male Family Friend, Male Teacher,
Babysitting
Dad, Male Pastor, Male Boss, Male Roommate, and a Male Friend of mine.
And, I am most often spanked on my bare bottom.
When I am spanked on my bare bottom, others see me get spanked.
I am spanked on my bare bottom in front of, again, my Dad, but also by:
My Uncle, Male Cousin, Older Brother, Male Neighbor, Girlfriend's Dad, Boyfriend's
Dad, Boyfriend, Male Family Friend,
Male Teacher, Babysitting Dad, Houseguests, Male
Pastor, Male Boss, Male Friend, and actually just Anyone Present.
My schoolwork was very important, and if I got spanked at school, which I did, I also got spanked again at home.
Most often I am spanked on my bare bottom, but at times I am spanked over my clothes.
Sometimes I can wear all of my clothes but have to remove my panties so my skirt can be raised to spank me on my bare bottom.
And sometimes I have to strip off my clothes from the waist down to be spanked.
And, then, of course, at times I have to take all my clothes off so that I am naked when I have to be spanked.
And, yes, I have to take off my own clothes.
My disciplinarian tells me what to remove and I obey.
If I resist getting ready or resist being spanked, then I’ll be spanked harder.
When I am spanked, I most often have to be restrained to keep me in place.
I am spanked very hard and need to be restrained to keep my bottom in position to be spanked.
Various implements are used to spank me:
Hand, Paddle, Strap, Cane, Belt, Hairbrush, Wood Spoon, Wood Spatula, Ping-
Riding-
And whatever implement is used on me, I am spanked very hard and very long with over
500 strokes
during a spanking session of 10 to 20 minutes or more—just however long
my disciplinarian wants to spank me.
And I am spanked until I cry and cry for a long time.
Since I am hit really hard, I am crying pretty much from the first stroke and
will
continue to cry for 10 to 30 minutes or more. I am expected to cry and I do.
If I misbehave when away from home, which I do as you can see by who spanks me,
I
must immediately bare my bottom and bend over to be spanked.
Sometimes I am spanked over my clothes.
At times I am spanked bare-
just depending on who is spanking me.
At times I am taken to the car and made to bare my bottom to be spanked and other times I am spanked over my clothes in the car.
But, whenever I am spanked away from home, when I get home I can count on being spanked again.
**Current Age: 19 / Country: USA
I am a girl, 19 years old. I still get spanked by my dad, mom, grandfather, male neighbor, boyfriend, and my boss at work.
I have a younger brother, an older sister and a younger sister.
My sisters and brother see me get spanked, as does anyone else who is present when I am spanked.
My boss at work is a friend of the family and knows that I get spanked and
he has
spanked me when I was younger for misbehaving when I visited his home.
My parents believe that whoever is watching after me away from home should spank me if I misbehave or do not do what I am told.
My next-
He uses a paddle on me and I have to bare my bottom when he spanks me. I have always
been spanked
on my bare bottom and it just continued regardless of my age. It just
seems very natural that when he
or anyone else has to spank me, that I just pull my
panties down and raise my skirt, or pull my slacks
and panties down, and assume whatever
position I am told to assume.
My boss, as a family friend, also uses a paddle on me when I visit his home and I misbehave.
At work, he takes me to the back office and makes me bend over his knee as he uses
a paddle on me
if I have not done my work properly or have not taken proper care
of a customer.
As with my neighbor, I also have to pull my panties down and raise
my skirt when I bend over his knee.
Dad told him that if I was going to work for
him that he should keep on spanking me if I did not get
my work done right, was late,
or for whatever reason.
My grandfather spanks me if I do not take proper care of the home.
He’s the one
who checks up on my domestic chores and spanks me if I have not done them.
He makes
me undress completely and bend over the arm of the sofa so he can use his belt on
me.
And, he does not care who sees me naked when I get spanked. My brother and
sisters see me
naked when he spanks me, as does my neighbor and others who may be
there.
Of course, he also spanks my sisters naked, and we all watch him as he does.
Mom spanks me for coming home late or when I do not help her in the kitchen.
She
takes me to my bedroom, makes me take my clothes off and bend over her knee so she
can use my hairbrush on me.
My brother and sisters normally stand just inside the
room to watch.
Dad spanks me with his hand or a paddle or his belt when I misbehave or am disobedient, and he hits a lot harder than the others do.
They all can spank me just whatever they think I need.
My neighbor and boss normally only give me 50 to 100 strokes.
My grandfather gives me 50 every time.
I was spanked the most when I was 17 and still in high school and not studying as much as I should.
I started to run around a lot and not get my schoolwork done, so I got spanked almost every day for something.
Now I get spanked only about 3 or 4 days a week, and get spanked 3 to 10 times a week.
Normally on the weekend I’ll get spanked a couple of times on Saturday.
I can also normally count on getting spanked when I come home from my dates on Friday and Saturday.
I also get spanked a lot for not getting good grades. So, after my tests, I can normally count on getting spanked.
In addition to being spanked, I’ll have privileges taken away, like my computer time
or going out on a date,
and, of course, I get lectured a lot. If I cannot date,
then, of course, my boyfriend spanks me good.
But when I am spanked, I am always spanked on my bare bottom,
although sometimes
dad likes to have me put on my PJs and go to him in the living room where he will
spank me over his knee.
When I’m spanked, I do cooperate. I have a paddle that I have to keep in my room
and
bring it to whoever is going to spank me if they tell me to, and
hand it to them
before bending over their knee or bending over whatever they tell me to.
If I get in trouble away from home I am taken immediately to the car and spanked, unless we are in a home.
I have to keep a paddle in the car just so it is ready to use on me.
If we are visiting friends, I am taken to a bedroom and spanked.
That’s always embarrassing
since I know that they can hear the sound of my spanking and me crying,
but they
know that I get spanked and just wait until my spanking is done.
If I get spanked away from home, I will also get spanked when I get home.
Dad normally
gives me those spankings in the living room, naked, and over his knee with my paddle.
I
have learned to really behave properly when I am not at home!
I get spanked for swearing, drinking, smoking, not doing my chores, talking-
Current Age: 20 / Country: USA
I am a 20-
I don’t get spanked as often as I did when I was under 18 years old, but I still get spanked 1 to 5 times a week, and I most often am spanked 3 to 4 days a week, so most weeks I am spanked 3 or 4 times.
I am spanked by my mom and dad, my younger brother, and my boyfriend.
I am spanked in front of my mom and dad, my boyfriend, male and female family friends, my younger brother and anyone else who is present when I need to get spanked.
If I get spanked at school, I get spanked again at home.
And I get spanked a lot for poor grades, skipping school, and getting in trouble at school.
When I get spanked, the one who spanks me pulls down my pants and panties or raises my skirt and pulls my panties down so that I am spanked on my bare bottom but have on my clothes, just my bottom has to be bare.
My disciplinarian uses his/her hand, strap, belt or hairbrush to spank me.
I have to be restrained when I am spanked, and I get spanked harder if I resist getting ready to be spanked.
When I’m spanked, I do get spanked hard to make me cry, and I receive 200 to 300
strokes during a 20-
But at least the most number of strokes I receive is 300.
If I misbehave when away from home, I am immediately taken to the car, have my bottom bared and spanked.
Then when I get home I am spanked again.
In addition to getting spanked for academic reasons, I also get spanked for talking-
Current Age: 20 / Country: USA
I am a girl from the USA and am 20 years old.
I have never been spanked very often, and the last time I was spanked I was under 18 years old.
I was spanked most often when I was 6 and 7 years old.
I guess that most often I was just lectured rather than being spanked.
When I was spanked, my dad spanked me and he used his hand or belt.
I had to bend over on my bed to be spanked. I was also spanked in the kitchen.
Sometimes my older brother would watch me get spanked.
I always had my clothes on when I was spanked and I would cooperate when I got spanked,
although if I did resist, I got spanked harder.
I got fewer than 10 strokes with the belt, and the most I got was probably about 20.
The reason I got spanked was because I would get in trouble at school.
Current Age: 22 / Country: Canada
I am a 22 year old girl from Canada.
The last time I was spanked was when I was less than 18 years old.
I was spanked very seldom, less than once-
When I was spanked, I kept all of my clothes on, and mom spanked me.
I did resist when I was going to be spanked, but nothing happened to me because I did resist.
Mom spanked me with her hand and I got less than 10 slaps.
I was spanked in front of my younger sister, and I was spanked for arguing with her.
Current Age: 17 / Country: USA
I am a 17-
In addition to being spanked I am also made to stand in the corner, dressed.
I am spanked by my male neighbor, and he spanks me until I cry.
I mainly get spanked for not being ready on time.
When he spanks me I have to put on my PJs.
I normally cooperate for my spankings, as he takes my clothes off.
And, he does spank me on my bare bottom.
If I misbehave when we are in public, he takes me to a private location and spanks me on my bare bottom.
If I do resist any time to get ready for my spanking, I get spanked again.
And, if I get spanked at school, I also get spanked when I get home.
Current Age: 31 / Country: USA
I am 31 years old and got spanked last when I was 30.
I was spanked most often when I was under 18, but was actually seldom spanked.
I was never spanked in front of others, and when I was spanked, only a hand or hairbrush
was used on me,
and all of my spankings were OTK.
When I was spanked, I was spanked fairly hard with up to 300 strokes, and was always spanked until I cried for awhile.
If I misbehaved away from home, I was spanked when we got home.
Hand spankings were lengthier, and hairbrush spankings were shorter.
I would say on average I got spanked for 30 minutes or so for a hand spanking, and 15 minutes for a hairbrush spanking.
I was just kept over dad’s knee until it was determined that I had had enough.
I was spanked for most of the normal things: Poor Grades, Talking-
Getting in Trouble At Work, Not Doing My Chores, and
Not Doing What I was Told to do.
During my growing up years, I was usually hand spanked over daddy's lap;
although
he did use the hairbrush when I had a bad grade at school.
Also, towards the end of the spanking, he would turn the hairbrush over and I was spanked with the hairbrush bristles.
When I got ready for my spanking, I had to undress and then put my nighty on.
If I do resist being spanked, daddy gets the hairbrush and I get spanked harder.
When I was older I got spanked by a male teacher.
I met a man in church who somehow knew I was doing poor in a class I was taking,
and he offered to help me with tutoring and discipline spankings.
(The above report is much like what is done when I discipline coeds in private sessions.
Spankings for girls who are being tutored privately are normally OTK,
and on their
bare bottom. If they do not want to get spanked
on their bare bottom, I will not
tutor them since otherwise
the spankings will not be effective. The spankings are
normally
given with them only naked from the waist down. A few girls are
made to strip
naked, but most are just spanked on their bare bottom.
While I normally use just my hand, I might also use a
hairbrush, paddle, and sometimes
a strap. If an implement is used,
the girl will have to strip naked, bend over and
keep her
hands on her knees to be spanked as shown in the last photo.
The photos shown below are characteristic of the spankings I give.)
**Current Age: >50 / Country: USA
I got spanked most often before I was 18. However, I did get spanked when I was 24. I really did not get spanked very often, but my spanking when I was 24 is my most memorable.
I was with my friends and I sassed my mother. I didn't know my dad was there, but he was. He heard me and he bent me over and smacked my bottom 5 times in front of my friends and then he dragged me into the house.
In the house, he took my pants down and spanked me on my bare bottom.
Other than being spanked, most often I was Grounded, given Corner-
Dad and mom were the only ones who spanked me. But, they spanked me in front of almost anyone who was there: of course I got spanked in front of Dad and Mom when one was spanking me. But, I was also spanked by dad or mom in front of my Uncle and Aunt, an Older Female Cousin, my Younger Male and Female Cousins, my Older and Younger Sisters, and a Female Friend of mine.
But, I was spanked bare-
As was somewhat traditional at the time, when I got spanked at school, I also got spanked again at home.
When I was spanked, I would resist by crying and fighting. But when I did I’d also get spanked harder.
When I had to get ready for my spanking, mom or dad would take my clothes off that had to be removed for my spanking. Then I would be spanked by hand or with a wood spoon or spatula, although at times they used a hairbrush and once a tree switch.
I got spanked for what are probably the reasons that most girls get spanked: for
Talking-
This Page Has Been Updated
Found below are some annotations concerning some of the posts along with some photos that characterize spankings that I have given girls in the office or during tutoring sessions. Updated 15 April 2016.
Spanking Survey Results, Page 3
