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In my next post I will be presenting the desires of a true Domestic-Slavegirl, Girl-#5.  But, before presenting that post I wish to provide a cautionary note to any girl thinking that she wants to be a Domestic-Submissive or, especially, a Domestic-Slavegirl.  The cautionary note is exemplified by the photo-story presented above. 

I have had many girls come to me to be spanked and they tell me that they can take a “hard spanking”.  However, they evidently do not know what a hard spanking is.  With several of the girls, no sooner do I have them over my knee spanking their bare bottom than they are yelling for me to stop … which I do. 

Before I accept any girl to be spanked, they have to complete a Spanking Evaluation to determine if in fact they can take a hard spanking.  Just because they think that their boyfriend spanks them hard, does not mean that when I slap their bottom that it will be the same … it won’t be!  Then, even if they make it through the initial 5-minute hand-spanking, when a paddle or strap is used, they may not be able to take that. 

To give you some idea of what different spankings are, take a look at the following film.  As noted therein you will see that the first spankings are those given to any disobedient girl … the spankings are hard as they should be, and the girl is hurt and crying. 

When a girl is spanked for real, she is spanked hard, and she will cry.  If she isn’t crying, as one slavegirl stated, she is not being spanked hard enough.  Now that is a true slavegirl. 

Even the 2nd and 3rd spankings are “normal” spankings, i.e., they are hard. 

The final spanking is given with a Stirrup Strap.  That strapping is hard and more like one given to a slavegirl rather than a submissive.  The spanking is applied hard, but even that one, as noted, would be harder for a true slavegirl. 

Sadie can be spanked quite hard, but she is not a slavegirl.  When you say that you want to be a slavegirl, take what Sadie is given and increase the intensity of the Stirrup Strap by 2x, 3x, 5x or whatever.  Remember that a “no-limit” slavegirl means … “No Limits”! 

So, when you choose a Master to whom you wish to submit as a no-limit slavegirl, make sure that he does in fact know your “limits”.  There is no such thing as a “no-limit slavegirl” except for one who stated that she had no limits … except death.  Yes, that is a true no-limit slavegirl, but one that very few would agree to, and even if they did, it still might be illegal in the U.S., so … if you agree to such be sure to keep your activities very private and do not let the girl out of the home if she has been scarred or excessively bruised in any way!   

Adults can agree to many things, but some things cannot be agreed to; e.g., you cannot agree to give up your Constitutional or Civil Rights!  (There actually are a lot of people who do not know that!  It’s no wonder so many people are taken advantage of!) 

Also, I strongly recommend that any agreement be put in writing and signed, especially for the benefit of the Master.  Just think how many charges have been filed because the girl or guy said that they did not agree to what was done to them.  And, yes, it is not just girls who bring such charges, anyone can claim that they have been harmed if there is no written agreement that allowed another to harm them.  When a boxer gets in the ring, he has given up his right not to be hit!  A professional wrestler has given up his right not to be thrown out of the ring, if that was part of the script.  (Yes, wrestling matches are not actually “real”!  They are definitely hard and the wrestlers do get cut [frequently by themselves], but, much of it is scripted.) 

OK, now take a look at the following film. 

Once again, especially if you want to be a slavegirl, ask yourself if you want your bottom to look like that shown below: 

Or the one shown here: 

And do you want to be bound so that you cannot get away or avoid the hard-hitting paddle?  Or what about the bottom shown below? 

Now, although Sadie is not a slavegirl, she bruises and blisters like one.  OK, how about the bottom shown below? 

And, remember that the bottoms shown above are from “normal” spankings.  They are the result of a paddle or strap being used, and are not what a slavegirl might experience.  A slavegirl’s bottom might be much more bruised, blistered and cut.  Not cut from a knife or anything like that, but a cane does cut, and even a strap may cut you, or even a paddle.  So you may be cut and bleed from being whipped or spanked.  Is that what you want to agree to? 

And then, as a slavegirl, do you want to be strung up and thrashed in a Punishment Room as shown below?  Actually many of my girls ask to be strung up and thrashed.  So it is really not that uncommon to want such whippings and spankings.  But, just make sure you want to before asking to be a “slavegirl”.  If you do not want to be strung up and whipped and spanked, then you are probably not a slavegirl. 

Now, for a slavegirl, the bruising shown above on the bottom and back may just be the beginning.  A slavegirl may also be whipped on her breasts and her nipples may be clamped and squeezed to make them hurt!  And, of course, her breasts will be bruised from the whipping. 

Of course, if any of you girls would like to be my slavegirl, just contact me!  Headmaster@SpankedCoeds.com! 

OK, the next post in this series will be of a true slavegirl, before we go back to more conventional spankings, spankings of a Domestic-Submissive.   

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In my last post I discussed the punishment of a Domestic-Slavegirl.  As with her, Girl-#4 was sent to me by her husband.  As she says: 

“I am requesting that you accept me as your “Domestic-Submissive Daughter” and be trained as a “Slavegirl”.  My husband viewed your videos and feels that I can learn from you how to properly behave, and return back to him a well spanked and submissive wife.  As requested I am attaching the required information and photos.  Please let me know if you would like more of my pictures?”

I  have several girls who contact me about being my “daughter” and to supervise and punish them very harshly as a “slavegirl”; i.e., close supervision, strict adherence to rules, and administer a lot of severe spankings to make them obedient and submissive—like a slavegirl.  Actually Girl-#4  said that she wanted me to spank her harder than I have ever spanked any girl before.  She wanted to be spanked longer and harder than any other girl. 

And they even want to come to me when they have already been spanked.  As Girl-#4 says: 

“I have been spanked many times since I have turned 18.  But, the spankings have not been effective and I have been bad and want to be spanked, and want to be treated as a slavegirl who needs it and to be punished hard.”

Being treated as a slavegirl makes the spankings much more personal and helps to make the girl much more obedient and submissive—which is the primary reason for the punishments.  The problem has been that Girl-#4 “enjoys” being spanked, which means that her spankings have not really been to punish her, but for sensual and sexual pleasures—especially since when she was whipped by her dad when she was a teenager, she did masturbate after being whipped.  It has been reported to me by many girls that such activity is fairly common.  But, it is important that such masturbating be stopped, and the only way to stop it is to treat the girl as a slavegirl as she is whipped and spanked very hard repeatedly. 

Such spankings that girls like Girl-#4 have had that are possibly hard but not severe, are not effective in actually modifying a girl’s behavior, especially when the goal is to make her “obedient and submissive”.  To modify her behavior, she must be spanked and whipped severely. 

The main problem right now is that Girl-#4 masturbates daily, which means that she is not being punished hard enough.  Girl-#4 just needs to be punished severely until she no longer associates spankings with sex.  In fact, she admits: 

“I masturbate because I fantasize about being whipped by other men.  Men that I do not even know—it could be a man that I see at a grocery store, an older rough-type man at the hardware store, … men who would just whip my ass hard and enjoy watching me squirm in pain and cry out loud begging for them to stop, but not really wanting them to stop.”  [Of course, this is where much confusion can arise … as we frequently hear men claim that the girl “wanted it” and wanted them to keep beating them or having sex with them.  With me, there are no safe-words.  Once I begin to spank a girl, she cannot stop the spanking!  But, that is understood before we start and she has to sign various waivers so stating!  I never impose on anyone.  If a girl wants to get spanked, she has to sign an agreement that she does.  If a girl wants to be spanked hard and severely, she has to sign an agreement that she does.  For example, Girl-#3 signed an agreement that when she entered, she would remove her clothes and they would be taken away from her and she could not get them until at least 6 hours later!  And, when I began to spank her, I would continue to spank her for as long as I wanted … she could not stop the spanking!  But, if there is no such agreement, then a man has no right to continue to spank a girl when she says:  “Stop!”   If the spanking continues, then it is assault!  This is especially critical when spanking and severely punishing a “Slavegirl”.  Make sure she actually wants to be a “Slavegirl” and wants to submit to any punishment given to her!  But, in my case, when a girl says “Stop!”, I keep on spanking her because she has signed waivers and agreements stating that her spanking will not stop even if she says “Stop!”!!!]   

“I do cry a lot and cry very loud.  I know these men would enjoy watching me bounce and struggle to get away from my spanking and listen to me cry.  And then I will masturbate until I climax, and I know these men would also enjoy that!  I want to masturbate as others watch me.  But it does have a negative impact on the sexual relationship with my husband, which is why he wants you to whip the crap out of me.  But I do not bruise easily, perhaps because I work out a lot.  I am an exhibitionist and want you to enjoy my body and watch me wreath in pain as you whip me hard.  My bottom does welt though from a whipping, which I know the men would enjoy and I hope that you will.  Most important is that I want my bottom to really be bruised so I want you to whip me hard and long until my bottom is blistered and covered with bruises.”

And then she just needs to be whipped and punished hard because she is an exhibitionist and enjoys showing off her body in public.  As she says: 

“Thank you Ken, and, yes, another reason I need to be spanked is I wear very short skirts in public to show off my very lovely body.  Here is a pic of me taken last night wearing a very short skirt up to my ass-cheeks.  And I was not wearing panties as you can see.  Your very naughty slavegirl-daughter.”

As with 18+-year-old girls who are still spanked-at-home, there are probably many more young wives in need of being spanked than we might suspect.  These girls are in their 20’s and 30’s and are actually seeking out disciplinarians who will not coddle them, but give them the very hard beating that they need and want.  Too often boyfriends are afraid of hurting their girlfriend so they do not give them the spankings they need.  This was the case with a girl I took to Scioto Downs in the early 1960’s.  As we ate dinner while watching the races, she told me that she had gotten spanked earlier that evening before I picked her up.  But she said that she had not been spanked hard enough and rather enjoyed it.  But, she really wanted to feel a hard spanking that she did not enjoy.  Of course, I agreed to give her that spanking!  After the races, I took her home, made her take her skirt and panties off and bend over and keep her hands on the sofa as I used my belt on her.  We were definitely both satisfied after her whipping as she knelt after her whipping and thanked me properly, still crying.  But, most often girls are just not spanked hard enough who really need to be. 

Now that this point has been made, …, in addition, the girl who needs to be treated as a slavegirl and has asked to be so treated must be made to be obediently-submissive.  As shown here, she must be made to kneel and bow in submission, and to get her bare bottom up so that it can continue to be spanked and whipped hard.  The mistake frequently made with these girls is to think that just a spanking of a few minutes will be good.  It isn’t.  When I punish a girl normally, I will administer a 3- to 5- or 10-minute spanking.  However slavegirls, like Girl-#4, must be spanked and whipped during a minimum of a 30-minute punishment session.  Then possibly pause for 5 or 10 minutes, and then administer another 30-minute punishment session.  She must be spanked until she no longer “enjoys” being spanked! 

In addition, she must be spanked in a variety of positions so that she does not become accustomed to any one position.  And, whatever the position, it must be such that her bare bottom is raised round and firm so that her spanking hurts more.  One problem with many disciplinarians is that they are afraid that they will “hurt” the girl.  Of course the girl is going to be hurt, that is the point of a spanking.  But, not only hurt, but hurt over a prolonged period of time so that the girl wonders if her spanking is ever going to end.  She must in fact not be able to sit down for a long time afterwards, even for a day or two, without her bottom hurting.  The only way to punish a girl so that she is returned to her husband as a more obedient and submissive girl, is to spank and whip her hard until she is obediently-submissive! 

Now, an OTK spanking is still appropriate, and in fact necessary since that is one position that is very personal and the girl will know that she is being controlled by a very strict disciplinarian.  But, as shown below, she should not just be hand-spanked, although that may be effective for a minute or two, but a hard paddle should be used on her, possibly one with holes in it for an even greater effect.  And, it should be applied hard. 

One of my favorite positions is with the girl bending over with her hands and forearms flat on a wall as I use a hairbrush to spank her.  This makes it very easy to see if she has moved her hands from the wall.  If she does then she must be given a Disobedience Spanking for attempting to cover her bottom or move out of position.  And the hairbrush must be applied hard enough so that her bottom is well-bruised.  Even though Girl-#4 does not bruise easily and is excited by most of her spankings, if the girl is kept bending over for 30 minutes as her bottom is continually spanked, she will no longer “enjoy” the spanking but begin to beg for it to stop, and her bottom will be blistered and bruised.  Of course, her spanking will not stop, but will continue until she finally gives in to the spanking. 

When finished, or at least half-way through with the spanking, her bottom should be well-bruised. 

In addition, her bruised bottom should be put on display for others to see how hard she was spanked.  Even if she is an  exhibitionist, as many of these girls are, they will still be embarrassed as they are made to kneel to present their bottom.  But, further, in the position shown below, she can still be whipped with a strap or made to spread her knees so that a dildo or vibrator can be used to bring her to climax—also embarrassing.  When I give a girl Corner-Time, it is not for her to just stand there, but to keep her bare bottom presented so that I can continue to whip her as I want. 

Of course, if she has to be given a Disobedience Spanking, I want her on her back in the legs-up position so that I can take my time whipping and spanking her hard and see her crying. 

One position I like is the Murgha position as shown below.  First, it is a difficult position to keep so the girl is continually made to strain to hold her position … she cannot just lay there to get spanked, but must always be keeping her bottom raised as shown.  Also, this makes it easy to stand over her and administer a very hard whipping or spanking. 

Of course, at some point, the girl has to be taken to a Punishment Room and tied up to be whipped.  A gag may be required, although if the room is in the basement or some other soundproof room, it won’t make any difference.  I normally like to take the girl to a room where no one will hear and just whip the crap out of her and let her cry as loud as she wants. 

Whatever is done, when a punishment session has ended, the girl must be made to kneel and bow in submission and be left there for a period of time, 30 minutes or more, waiting for her next punishment session.  For these girls, a full-length punishment session essentially lasts all day, for 6 to 8 hours or more, preferably starting early morning and continuing into the night, so that she understands that her disciplinarian  controls everything she does and she will obey!  Several years ago, a girl who managed a printing business here in Columbus told me about her weekends.  Starting Friday night she had to take her clothes off and remain naked until Sunday evening.  During that time, her Master could do anything he wanted to do with her which included, of course, her sexual use, but also she was whipped and spanked repeatedly.  I guess by Monday morning she was ready to manage her business again! 

Again, I often will have the girl over my knee spanking her with a paddle, but when I do she must keep her position precisely … her feet off the floor, her knees bent, her head up, and her hands flat on the floor.  Remember that she is a slavegirl and must be precisely-obedient to what she is told to do and that includes keeping herself properly presented as she is spanked.  If she moves from her position I will spank her harder and then even harder an hour later with a Disobedience Spanking.  It is important to give frequent Disobedience Spankings to make sure the girl knows that her obedience is absolutely expected and she will be punished hard if she disobeys. 

And, Disobedience Spankings are administered for any failure to be obedient.  For example, if a girl is given an After-School Spanking and is then told to kneel as shown below and she fails to do so, then she will need a Disobedience Spanking!  As seen here, my girls learn to be obedient and to present themselves as ordered!  Why?  …   

Because if they don’t, they will find themselves as in the position shown below laying down naked as they are spanked hard! 

Again, a variety of positions are required for a proper punishment session.  And, again, the spanking position must be kept very precise.  As shown below, the girl must kneel properly on the bed and keep her hands behind her head.  She must kneel upright, keep her back arched, and present her bare bottom to be spanked hard.  This is one position where I like to use the Master’s-Correction Hairbrush, a very hard hairbrush that gives a blistering spanking.  Choosing proper  implements for punishment is important.  Choose a “Punishment Paddle” rather than a “Discipline Paddle.”  Choose a “Punishment Strap” rather than a “Discipline Strap.”  Choose the Jokari Paddle or Stirrup Strap over just a normal paddle or strap.  Whatever implement is chosen, it must be hard enough to administer a very severe spanking.  These girls require very severe punishment and the implement of choice is critical. 

Whatever implement is selected, when the girl is finished being spanked, her bottom must actually be blistered! 

And, just as important as the spankings are, domestic chores that the girl is given are just as important to assure abject obedience.  A punishment session is not just for spanking, but for training the girl to be obediently-submissive.  To help her obey, she must be given numerous domestic chores during the day.  And when she finishes the chores they must be inspected and, of course, she must be spanked if she did not do them correctly—which, of course, she won’t since you can always find something that was not properly done!  Being assigned a chore and then spanked afterward is a critical part of the punishment session. 

If she was ordered to clean the front room and she did not do it properly, make her kneel immediately in a chair, as shown below, and whip the crap out of her.  Give her a 15-, 20- or 30-minute whipping to let her know that she will obey! 

The point is that the entire day, and these girls must be punished for an entire day to be effective, must be active.  The girl must not be let to relax, even for lunch or dinner.  They must prepare the meal properly, serve it properly, sit and eat properly, and, of course, spanked hard if she disobeys! 

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In the next post on this subject, I will present what a true slavegirl requested in order to help her become the obediently-submissive slavegirl she wants to be. 

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In my last post I introduced you to the subject of punishing a Domestic-Submissive.  There are girls, however, who require even more punishment, and more harsh punishment, than what was described there—these girls must be punished very severely—these are Domestic-Slavegirls.  Many girls come to me asking to be treated very harshly as a “slavegirl”.  This includes face-slapping, hair-pulling to drag the girl where you want her, forced Enemas for punishment and embarrassment, forced sex with a stranger, and so on. 

As with the photo-story shown above, these girls do request to be slapped hard when they are insolent, and to be dragged by their hair and pushed into position to be spanked. 

The short clip shown after this discussion demonstrates some of the more harsh treatment that a girl may have to be given, although even this is not as harsh as it would be for an actual Slavegirl that the girls want who have contacted me.  That is, they want to be spanked relentlessly, hard and severe, they want to be “slapped silly”, and they want to be fucked and used and degraded any way that their Master wants. 

And, what are some of the ways they want to be used, abused and degraded? 

Total Power Exchange (TPE) … This is absolutely essential for the control and punishment of any Domestic-Slavegirl.  Her Master must have total and absolute control anything and everything she does.  She has to ask permission to go to the bathroom, to watch TV, to eat, to go out, or anything else she wants to do.  Further, she has to give abject obedience to whatever she is ordered to do—“take a bath” (she immediately obeys), “suck me” (she kneels and obeys), “prepare dinner” (she obeys), “bend over to be spanked” (she obeys), … just whatever she is told to do, she obeys.

Anal probing … She bends over or kneels as ordered and receives whatever her Master wants to thrust into her anus!            “Ankles” (a spanking position) … She immediately bends over and presents her bottom to be spanked.         Bathing / Showering … She obeys as ordered.              Blindfolds … Yes.                Bondage … Absolutely.                  Corner-Time … She will stand for as long as ordered!        Crying … Absolutely.  She must be crying often and for a long time.  A crying girl is a sign of a well-run home, and a Domestic-Slavegirl must be kept crying for long periods of time.

Depilation … Certainly.  She will present herself to be shaved as ordered.             Dildo use … Absolutely.                Domestic service … Absolutely!  She will do whatever chores she is ordered to do.              Domination … Absolutely!  Her Master will dominate her any way that he desires.  She will be given Obedience Training where she is simply ordered to do a variety of tasks or assume a variety of positions for the enjoyment of her Master.                      Enemas … Certainly.  Her body is for the use and enjoyment of her Master.  And giving an Enema is one certain way to let the girl know that her body belongs to her Master and she will obey him completely!                          Full-Body Inspections … Of course.  She will present herself as ordered so her Master can inspect her, probe her and spank her any way that he wants.                        Gag … Certainly.  Used especially if she screams and cries too loudly.                          Groin inspection … Extensive and often.  At any time in the home, the girl may be stopped and ordered to strip naked and present herself for a groin inspection!

Hand cuff & shackle use … Certainly.  She must be cuffed and shackled in order to keep her in position for her Master to use, abuse and whip the crap out of her!              Humiliation … Of course, especially in front of others.  Stripped naked in front of others, probed and brought to climax in front of others, spanked in front of others, made to suck others as ordered and as many as ordered, and so on.  Just whatever her Master wants her to do.             Knees … Certainly—both for a spanking position, a sucking position, vaginal penetration, whipping, or any other kneeling position that her Master wants.                 Masturbation … Yes, but only as allowed by her Master.  She must be whipped severely if she is caught masturbating without permission!

Obedience training … Absolutely.  She must learn that she must be totally and abjectly obedient to her Master.                Oral Sex … Obviously!        Vaginal sex … Certainly!                Vibrator use …. Of course!                  Orgasm … Only as allowed by her Master, and she must have an orgasm when ordered to do so!                   Pain … Obviously.  A Domestic-Slavegirl must feel a lot of pain, and her Master must spank her and whip her and slap her hard so that she is frequently in pain!              Spanking / Strapping / Whipping … Certainly!   As Girl-#3 said (the girl who is featured in this post):  “I don’t want this but must have it!”                 Speculum use … Of course!            Submissiveness … Certainly!      Vaginal probing … Of course!

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take a look at the following movie.  Just click on the title frame: 

However, there are many problems that most of these girls have when deciding that they do need to be punished, but are uncertain as to how to proceed.  Girl-#3 exemplifies many of the problems that these girls have who want to be sexually used and severely spanked for their misbehaviors at home.  …  The confusion arises due to their desire to be punished hard, but they really do not want to be punished hard! 

Girl-#3 is a girl who is now being spanked on a weekly basis and wrote and said that she is not only spanked, but she is also fucked by whoever her husband wants to fuck her.  She said: 

“My husband has told his first wife that she is to spank me whenever she wants to and have me fucked by whoever she wants to fuck me.  I think she is going to have me fucked and spanked more often now.  But, whatever she tells me to do, I have to do it.  I have to strip naked when she orders and bend over as she orders to be spanked or fucked or kneel to suck whoever she orders me to suck.  If I do not obey, she will whip me much harder.”

Then she asked: 

“Is this acceptable?  Is this normal?  Do I just go along?  Do I have a choice?”

The problem is that this is the same girl who came to me to be punished because: 

“I am married and my husband is only 4 inches long.  My constant fantasy is to have a long one and more than one.  Like 3 or 4 eight-inch ones in a row, one right after another.  I know this is wrong and I feel dirty for wanting it and really desire to be punished for it.  I wouldn’t feel guilty about it if I was punished.”

And: 

“I have felt guilty and do find relief in a way in knowing that I will be spanked. I feel as I need it. It scares me to think that I am going to be spanked by someone that thinks as you do that I cannot be spanked enough. I do dread it but also feel it necessary. I do understand that I have no say as to how long or how hard I am spanked. I understand that there will be no safe word.  I hate the sound of that and do not want that but I understand and accept spanking punishment right from the start. I understand that you will give me a 5 minute hard spanking with a hairbrush on my bare bottom and I will be completely nude. I choose to forfeit the option after the 5 minute spanking of walking out. I do not want the option to stop and leave, that option is not good for me.

[NOTE:  This is the option given to girls who come to me for punishment.  To make sure that they will be able to take what has to be done, I give them a 5-minute “Spanking Evaluation” to see if they can actually take the required spankings.  This girl does not want that option.  So I did not give it to her and just continued to punish her as I deemed necessary.]

I know that I will stop and walk out and leave if given the chance. I know that. I do not want that option. I forfeit that now because I know that I won’t then. Please accept that change and remove the option. I choose to have my clothes taken away from me the moment I arrive. I understand that I will be undressed by you or anyone of your choosing or be required to strip in front of whoever you choose. I need you to take my clothes away so that I can’t leave. I understand that I will be naked and stay naked for 1 whole entire day in front of whoever you put me in front of.  I will do chores nude. I will bathe nude and will use the restroom with permission only and I know you will watch me as I use the restroom. I am extremely afraid that I will not be able to keep my bare bottom in place over your knee or bending over. Being bound is going to be best for me. I assume I would lay nude on my back on a bed, have my hands cuffed to the headboard and then have my ankles cuffed to the headboard as well. I understand that this will lift my bottom up into the air, it will also stretch it tightly, and also spread it wide open. This will be a very humiliating, embarrassing, and painful position, but might be necessary for me to stay in place. This is not the position you would want to find yourself for disobedience spanking but I do see it as my fate. I will present my nude body for a complete inspection. I understand that while I am tied with my bottom open and exposed that you will masturbate me, that you will give me a vaginal inspection, and that you will vaginally climax me, and you will do all of this in front of anyone you want watching what you are doing to me.  And as my nude bottom sticks up wide open as I am restrained, masturbating, inspecting, and climaxing are things that I have no control over.  And, then you will use straps and paddles to spank me as hard as you want and for as long as you want, and no amount of my screaming and crying and begging you to stop will make you stop.  You will just keep on spanking my bare bottom for as long as you want, and I know you are going to enjoy hearing me scream and cry and begging you to stop!  Just as I know that you will not stop until you want to stop.”

So, the first thing is that this girl does need to be punished, and punished hard.  She knows it and has said that she would have to be bound when spanked because she would not be able to hold her position in view of how hard she needs to be spanked.  These are the characteristics of a Domestic Slavegirl rather than a Domestic Submissive; i.e., the Domestic Slavegirl is punished much harder, has to be restrained in order to be able to hit her hard enough, must
be sexually used and abused as her Master desires, and must be confined to the home so that she cannot avoid her punishment. 

But now, let’s consider her questions: 

Of course, all of these girls who need to be punished have a choice.  …  They can all leave and not receive the punishment that they need and have asked for. 

Girl-#3 knows that she needs to be punished, but does not want the former wife to spank her.  However, there have been many cultures in which the first wife of a polygamist family has control of the family and can and does treat the newer wives fairly harshly.  India families have had such a history.  But, in some families it may be the grandmother who has control of the extended family living in the same home.  Many African cultures may have the grandmother administer the spankings to the girls in the home with a horse-tail whip.  When the grandmother calls for a girl to come to her to be spanked, the girl obeys.  She goes in, takes her clothes off and stands in the center of the room with her hands behind her head.  The grandmother then proceeds to whip the girl as desired.  So, whether this girl likes it or not, she is living in a de facto polygamist family, even though she is the only one currently married to the husband, where the first wife controls the discipline of the family as directed to do so by the husband.  Each Saturday the girl is sent to the first wife’s home where she is stripped naked and tied in position with her legs raised and spread to be spanked, and then fucked by whoever the wife has brought in to fuck her. 

Here a “wife” is spanked hard.  She must keep her legs up and spread, or be bound so that she cannot lower her legs or get in the way of her spanking. 

So, does the girl have a choice?  Of course she does, but the choice is simply to leave, which she really does not want to
do. 

Why doesn’t she leave?  First, she knows that she needs the punishment and has asked to be punished, but she just wants to be punished by someone other than the first wife. 

But second, and this seems to apply to many of these girls, she is being well taken care of by her husband who is much older than she is.  Such girls have previously been referred to as “Trophy Wives”, but there is nothing necessarily derogatory about it.  Both the wife and the husband are getting what they want.  But that does not minimize the guilt the wife feels for what she believes is “cheating” on her husband. 

So, is she going to give up her home, car, phone, computer and credit cards?  Of course not. 

So, does she have a real choice as to whether or not she is spanked and fucked?  Of course not. 

She will continue to be spanked and fucked as she should be.  She knows that she entertains her husband by playing with her girlfriend in a pool as her husband watches, and she lets her husband fuck her girlfriend, and she provides all kinds of erotic-fantasies for her husband, who in return takes exceptional care of her, provides for others to fuck her since he knows that at his age he cannot provide for her sexual appetites and so on.  What is she complaining about?  She just needs to be spanked and punished hard just for complaining if nothing else! 

Does she have a choice?  Not really, so let’s get to the punishment. 

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No, not really, if she does not want to.  As noted above, she can just leave.  However, she must “go along” until she can make some changes.  She must be obedient and take whatever spankings she is given and submit to any sexual use she is made to accept.  If she disobeys, she must be whipped hard. 

Here’s the problem … Girl-#3 knows that she needs to be spanked and sexually used to punish her.  But she is  attempting to minimize the spankings and just take the orgasms!  But then she will not really be punished and she will still feel guilty.  So, she either goes along with what her Master tells her to do, or she leaves. 

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It is very “normal” in such relationships as Girl-#3 has.  Is it “normal” in the overall American lifestyles?  Probably not, but she does not have a “normal” American lifestyle, … but so what? 

Everyone has a right to their own feelings.

Everyone has a right to their own beliefs.

Everyone has a right to do what they want to do.

Everyone has a right to agree to do whatever they want to do with someone else! 

“Normality” has nothing to do with it!  The question is irrelevant! 

If her relationship was “normal” she would be going mad!

She would never be able to satisfy her sexual needs nor her submission needs nor her spanking needs in a “normal” relationship. 

So, don’t ask whether or not it is “normal”, …, it is “normal” for her and that is all that is important. 

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It is acceptable for the home-life Girl-#3 has chosen.  Here’s the thing:  If she were with me under similar circumstances, she would have to be obedient to whatever I told her to do or whatever I wanted to do with her.  The only difference is that, with me, she would enjoy it.     From her letters to me, it is not that she does not want to be spanked and made to be submissively-obedient, it is just that she wants me to do it rather than the first wife.  And this is the conflict that many Submissives have—they want to be submissive … but only under their conditions … which means, of course, that they are not true Submissives, they are only selective-Submissives … which is alright too.  They have a right for their own enjoyment as a submissive and have a right to choose who to submit to. 

So, whereas with me she knows that she would enjoy it, since I actually am concerned about her wellbeing and checking up on her to see if she is alright, those around her now; i.e., the first wife, are not at all concerned about her wellbeing or anything about what she wants.  I believe that her husband is, but he may just now really be considering all of the alternatives that would make for a better life for her as well as for him. 

As Girl-#3 admits: 

“I do need to be submissively obedient and need to be required to give oral sex on demand, and vaginal sex on demand, and I need to be spanked and whipped hard whenever you want to spank or whip me.” 

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Another girl will be considered next time who also needs to be sent to me by her husband so that I can make a “new girl” out of her and send her back a changed girl ready to please her husband. 

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I am starting a new series of posts entitled:
Domestic-Submissives & Domestic-Slavegirls! 

This first post is a brief introduction of what will be presented in these posts. 

In addition to reports about 18+-year-old girls who are still spanked-at-home, I have many reports from girls who are wanting to be punished for things they have done while being married, or who have caused the break-up of their marriage, or have been bad at home and run off from their responsibilities.  In these situations, the girls are looking for a “father” or “Master” who takes control of them, makes them be obedient  and punish them severely with repeated spankings.  In view of the number of requests I have had from girls who want to be spanked for being bad due to destroying their home life, as well as those who have just sent me reports about their home life and what they want, there may be more of these girls than what one might suspect. 

From reports and other research that I have received, it appears as though there are anywhere from 5% to 8% or more of 18- to 26-year-old girls in the U.S. still being spanked at home. 

Now we have girls in the 18- to 36-year-old range who have disrupted their families and believe that they are in need of being punished and want to be punished to help them be the submissive girls that they want and should be.   In addition there are some who have been sent to me by their husbands to be punished and returned to the husband as a more submissive and obedient girl. 

I refer to these girls as the Disobedient Domestic-Submissives; i.e., Girls in Need of Severe Spankings.    However, they also include the Disobedient Domestic-Slavegirls. 

So that there is no attempt to try to identify any of these girls, I will but refer to them by number.  One of the first girls I punished was Girl-#1 who was 19-years-old, had cheated on  her husband and ruined their marriage.  Her request to me was simple and direct: 

“I am now single after having cheated on my husband and ruined our marriage.  I need to be punished hard and often.  I want you as my daddy who will punish me severely several days a week for having been such a bad girl.”

At the time, … many years ago …, I was also single and several years older than she (well, actually, only about 9 years older, but looked a lot older), so in addition to spanking her frequently, I also made her submit to me with oral-sex-on-demand or to kneel to be taken from behind.  (It is very important that the disciplinarian never “make love” to the disobedient girl, as such would cause extreme confusion and be counterproductive in terms of punishment!)  As it has turned out, most of the other Domestic-Submissives who need to be punished also have desired to be sexually used to punish them further for their sexual misconduct.  Especially after spanking Girl-#1, she would have to kneel and offer to  “thank” me for spanking her.  I believe that I only spent about 3 months or so punishing her (it was a long time ago, and maybe it was 6 months or longer, but I forget!).  She had to report to me weekly every Wednesday evening for a 3-hour punishment session.  In addition, she had to report to me on  Monday and Friday to do domestic chores.  And, she would come over at other times, especially Saturday or Sunday
afternoons when we had more time to punish her, when she felt the need to be spanked.  She always had to call me
“Daddy,” (being called “Daddy” or “Master” or whatever title you want is very important to establishing the proper rapport between disciplinarian and submissive) had to strip naked when ordered, had to perform whatever domestic chores I ordered her to do and she had to present herself for my use or kneel and serve me when ordered to do so.  With few exceptions, in every case with these girls, their sexual use was a required part of their punishment. 

Girl-#2 is a 32-year-old girl who has a lot of trouble domestically and knows that she needs to be punished hard in order to help her become the submissive wife she wants to be.  She knows that if she is not brought under control, that she will mess up her marriage the way she messed up her family-life and then her boyfriend relations.  She says: 

“I was disobedient, disobeyed my parents, and ran off with a so-called boyfriend who turned out not to really love me at all, but only wanted to use me.  If I had obeyed my parents I would not be in the mess I am.  It is actually my fault that I ran off rather than being a responsible girl and obeying my parents.  I ran up extensive bills, ran around at night instead of studying, and just generally getting into trouble.  I now know that I need to be made to be a submissive girl who obeys my parents and prepares me to be an obedient wife with someone who will take control of me and spank me when I disobey him.  I returned to my parents over a year ago with the understanding that they could and would spank me any time they thought that I needed to be spanked.  Both my father and mother spank me and I have to obey them and present myself to be spanked when ordered or I will have to leave and be on my own.  I actually came to them and asked them to control me and spank me, and they agreed.  Since I returned I have been spanked several times every week and often several times a day.  Daddy, in particular, makes me go to his study each evening to see if I have to be spanked.  When I enter, I have to take my clothes off and stand in front of him with my arms crossed behind my back.  He then evaluates my behavior for the day and determines if I need to be spanked.  When I first returned, he would spank me every evening whether I needed it or not.  But now, I get spanked just a few evenings a week unless I am disobedient or misbehave, in which case I get spanked when I report to him and I get spanked at bedtime.  I also know that I must find a man who is several years older than I am who will control me and spank me when I disobey him.  To prepare me properly, I now need to be punished much harder than what mom and dad do and be punished hard for being such a bad girl, and I need to be made to submit to doing the domestic chores that I should have been doing all the time and will have to do in the future.  Also, I need to be made to provide sexual services that dad and mom, of course, cannot demand.  I am now 32-years-old and need to be made to submit to being the submissive girl I should be so that I can have the loving relation I really want, but have misbehaved so badly and not submitted to the sexual use that I need to that I cannot find the right man for me.”

This is a common theme from many girls who contact me—they need to be punished for their misbehaviors in order to make sure they have a better life.  Girl-#2 had to report to me for an orientation day to make sure she knew that she would have to be obedient to me.  Regardless of how much a girl may think she wants to be punished, often when the time comes, she just cannot go through with it.  In fact, one girl who contacted me and we spent a couple of weeks discussing what would happen, finally decided that she would not want the pain that a spanking would inflict.  At first she said:  “I am  starting school in August and I will be needing someone to keep me in line.”  But, to keep a girl “in line” requires that the girl actually be spanked hard so that she knows that she has to obey.  Just playing at this will not work.  After a patty-cake spanking she will be “wet”, as this girl said, but as a result she will know that the spanking is not serious and she does not have to be kept “in line”.  As a result, she finally admitted:  “I am more in to pleasure not pain. A little pain is fine but not what you give.”  That is fine, I do not impose on anyone, but it does no good to pretend that a light spanking is going to be effective in making a girl obey. 

With our Girl-#2, however, she knows that she has to be spanked: 

“I do find spankings keep me focused and on track.  I know that I need spankings for punishment and also for maintenance to keep me from acting out in the future.  But also, I believe that you should give me what you call preemptive spankings so that before I start to do something that I will be focused on behaving properly.”

Now, this is the kind of girl that I will work with—a girl who understands that to help her modify her behavior she actually  has to be spanked in a way that will make her actually “modify her behavior”!  And then she continues: 

“My spankings should always be on my bare bottom.  I should be spanked before bedtime, after I shower so that my skin is soft and moist which will make my spanking hurt more.  And by making me shower before getting spanked I will have to obey you or get spanked for not doing what I’m told to do.  I need a lot of rules to follow and be spanked when I do not follow them.  You need to tell me when I have to go to bed, when to take a shower, when to get up, what to wear, and so on, just everything I do I must get permission from you or do whatever you tell me to do.  When I report for my bedtime spanking my towel will be removed or you order me to go to my bedroom naked before you spank me.  Even if I am spanked during the day it must still be on my bare bottom.  If we are home, you must tell me to remove all my clothes and then bend over for my spanking.  If away from home, I believe you will take me to your car, make me bare my bottom to spank me and then spank me again when we get home.  The point is that I just need a lot of spankings.” 

And not only must the girl be spanked on her bare bottom, but an implement must be used that will actually make an impression on her. 

“For punishment I want you to use a paddle or strap on me, or maybe the blistering hairbrush that you have. You are to spank me hard so that I do cry.  As I know you do, I also believe that it is important that I cry a lot when you have to spank me.”  

And then this girl understands that I have control over how hard and how long she will be spanked. 

“As for how many strokes or how long you spank me that is up to you, but it should be for a long time.  My bottom should be red, bruised and blistered when you get done, and, if not, you should spank me some more.  I need to be screaming and crying from the pain, or even crying hysterically so that you know that I am being properly punished.  I know that spankings hurt and I want mine to really hurt and to let you know that your spankings hurt by my screaming and crying.  I know that you will spank me until you have achieved a desired result—the color of my bottom or how bruised it is or how long I’ve cried may be a deciding factor as when the spanking will end.  But, it will not end until you are satisfied that I have been properly spanked.” 

This girl came in for an initial 3-hour punishment session. 

More reports will be provided in future posts. 

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