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In this post, I will conclude with some observations about girls who I have known being spanked, and just what should be considered as a “domestic discipline” of girls who are 18+-years-old, as well as provide some information concerning the spanking of girls in other countries.
Defining Domestic Discipline of Girls in terms of spanking may be relatively easy so as to avoid being judgmental about what we believe:
Domestic Discipline of Girls is the routine spanking of girls who are 18+-years-old for discipline or punishment by a disciplinarian who is responsible for assuring the obedience and proper behavior of the girl; and excludes any spanking that is solely for sexual gratification of the girl.
The last qualification precludes any spankings that are simply a prelude to sex or are desired by the girl solely for her own sexual gratification, but does not exclude spankings that are administered for discipline or punishment in which the girl may also receive gratification either by climaxing because of the spanking, or in which the disciplinarian pauses to satisfy the girl sexually before continuing with her spanking-discipline or spanking-punishment. That is Domestic Discipline of Girls will include any spanking in which there is a discipline or punishment purpose for the spanking regardless of what else happens.
Some examples of Domestic Discipline of Girls are presented by the following reports. These are spankings that have been reported to me or which I have actually given. When I take girls on a “field trip” to Vegas, I do expect their obedience and I do spank them hard if they disobey. Although their spankings are filmed, the spankings are actual discipline. Other examples provided are from reliable reports.
Spanked by Boss
Girls who are spanked away-from-home by their boss in a hotel room for misbehaving are being given Domestic Discipline … if such discipline is “routine”; i.e., they are spanked on a fairly regular basis for discipline and this is not just a onetime occurrence. We are not here concerned with the “one-night-stand” or the single occurrence in which some girl may be spanked. We are concerned with the disciplinarian who routinely uses spanking as discipline for girls whether he is their boss, father, etc.
Spanked by Father/Grandfather/Uncle
A father or grandfather who routinely spanks his daughter/granddaughter or an uncle who routinely spanks his niece for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Mentor/Teacher/Tutor
A girl who is made to strip naked and bend over to have a strap used to spank her by her mentor/teacher/tutor is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Brother/Male Cousin
A girl who is routinely spanked by her brother or cousin for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Girlfriend’s Father
A daughter and her girlfriend who are both routinely spanked by the girl’s father when they stay overnight together for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls, even if it only happens once-a-month or so. In Florida, I spanked both Nancy and her girlfriend, Donna, a couple of times a month when they stayed together overnight and misbehaved.
Spanked by Boyfriend’s Dad or Mom
A girl who is routinely spanked by her boyfriend’s dad for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Neighbor (Male or Female)
A girl who is routinely spanked by her neighbor for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Mother/Grandmother/Aunt/Sister/Female Cousin
A girl who is routinely spanked by her mother/grandmother/cousin for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Girlfriend
A girl who is routinely spanked by her girlfriend for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Girlfriend’s Mom
A girl who is routinely spanked by her girlfriend’s mom for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Family Friend
A girl who is routinely spanked by a family friend for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Personal Friend
A girl who is routinely spanked by a personal friend for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls.
Spanked by Personal Master
A girl who is routinely spanked by her Personal Master for discipline is considered Domestic Discipline of Girls. This one indicates that just anyone who routinely spanks a girl for discipline will be considered as Domestic Discipline of Girls. Personal Masters/Disciplinarians/Etc. who are charged with controlling everything the girl does and punish her hard for disobedience or misbehavior are rare, but are obtained by some girls who want total control and to be punished hard. These are girls who seek out a disciplinarian to punish them for things they want to be punished for, or possibly are just masochistic and want someone else to induce the pain rather than cutting themselves or doing something else to obtain pain. Since we do not ascribe motivation to the discipline of girls, any act where a girl is being spanked for discipline or punishment, even if she just seeks out the spankings, will be considered as Domestic Discipline of Girls.
For 4 years before the war (the Viet-Nam War) and many years after, I mentored and disciplined girls in Columbus, OH, concerning their academic work, their jobs and their personal life. It is difficult to recall just how many girls I’ve worked with, but 200 or so would be a conservative guess. The 2 years in Florida were restricted mainly to Nancy and Karen, her mother, although Nancy did also bring one of her friends over after I had been there about 6 months who also wanted spanking-discipline as well as her single-mother. In addition, there were a few other girls from the community college who heard about me and also came to me for academic assistance that included spanking them for not doing well academically. Since I had established a good routine with Nancy, for which I received a consulting fee, her friend and her mother were also taken on as clients and were spanked during scheduled appointments twice a week, sometimes more often, and I would make unscheduled visits to their home when they would be spanked if I found anything that was not quite right. Since the families were frequently together, it was relatively easy keeping track of all 4 girls.
Nancy and her friend, Donna, were most often given Before Bedtime Spankings when Donna visited and stayed overnight. When Donna needed to be spanked, she would most often stay overnight with Nancy. When she came to Nancy’s home about 7:00, they would both have to report to my office (a study in the home that was provided for my use), and report on their behavior. Donna, in particular, would have to report about what she had done since her last visit for which she needed to be spanked. Donna would then be made to strip naked to be spanked right there. Nancy, of course, had already received whatever spankings she deserved. But then, they both were informed that they could count on a Before Bedtime Spanking, normally about 11:00. But also, Donna’s mother, Buffy, would stay and talk with Karen and me. We would discuss the progress that the girls had made and I would be informed of anything the girls had done, or grades that they had received that I did not yet know about. A couple of times a month, I would send Karen to get one of the girls, or both, to report to us for a Bedtime Spanking. These were normally given about an hour after the girls were already in bed. They would be spanked hard and then sent back to bed.
In addition to the girls in Columbus, and Nancy and Donna, and their mothers, in Florida, I also gave spanking-discipline to girls in Laredo, TX, and Birmingham, AL, at various times.
Discipline may also include some face-slaps and other punishment as shown in the movie below.
Whether or not these girls are counted as “spanked-at-home” or domestic discipline depends on whether one counts only the immediate family or those who control and spank the girls with respect to their domestic and personal lives. Girls have reported about being spanked by a number of different categories of people including: dad, mom, older brother, older sister, aunt, uncle, neighbor, grandfather, grandmother, teacher, tutor, parent when babysitting, and boss.
We are here only concerned with whether or not girls who are 18+ continue to be spanked in a domestic-type environment. All of those from “dad” through “grandmother” can probably be considered as “domestic-spankings”, while the remainder may be questioned, although from the definition and examples I gave in the beginning of this report, it is seen that all spankings of girls that are given routinely by any disciplinarian should be considered as “domestic-spankings”. That is, if a teacher takes a student to an office and spanks her for not doing well academically, is this considered “domestic-type”? Or, can it be included simply because it is discipline and not administered for pleasure of some kind? If the parent of a child for whom the girl is babysitting takes the girl to a bedroom and spanks her for not caring for the child properly or for not getting chores done that she was assigned to do, is that considered a “domestic-type” spanking? In both cases, yes.
If a babysitter is spanked by the father of the child, with clothes on or off, is this a “domestic-spanking” that should be counted for girls who are 18+ being “spanked-at-home”? Yes.
Actually, the non-family concerns but exemplify that girls who are 18+ are probably spanked in far greater numbers than one might suspect, but the reports are quite consistent and convincing that even at home, with family members, about 5% of girls in the U.S. who are 18+ are still spanked. Add in the additional situational-spankings administered by non-family members, and the number may be somewhat greater, possibly closer to 8% or so.
Girl spanked by neighbor for not getting chores done that she was supposed to do.
And, as above, although the girls who are spanked in extra-situational scenarios are more-than-likely not spanked naked, we will take the creative-license of portraying them as if they are simply for your viewing enjoyment! And, of course, some will be taken to a Punishment Room to be spanked as shown below.
It is believed that the statistics provided in this report are fairly accurate, although there is no claim concerning just how accurate.
In closing this series of reports, I will provide some information relating to studies about girls who are spanked in countries around the world.
One thing of interest is from emails that I have exchanged with girls in countries such as Israel, Britain, and Sweden. In each case, they say that girls are now not spanked there, as it is now illegal in some countries, but that they were spanked. So, even in countries where spanking is not encouraged or is illegal, girls may still be spanked. However, for the following countries, girls are still spanked and the percentages are much higher than the 5% estimated for the U.S.
Tanzania is the country with the greatest percentage of girls being spanked at 21%.
Taiwan is next at 17%. Zambia is next at 16%. Singapore is next at 13%. Mexico is next at 11%. Indonesia is next at 9%.
S. Korea, Venezuela, Iran, Romania and Lithuania are next at 7%.
China, Russia, Brazil, Greece, Canada, New Zealand, Germany, and Guatemala are next at 6%.
Now, if there are 5% of the girls who are 18- to 24-years-old in the U.S. being spanked, then that means that there are about 1,447,600 girls being spanked “at home” in the U.S. Add in all of the girls in the other countries where spanking is prevalent, and the result will be millions of girls in the world who are 18- to 24-years-old are still being spanked “at home”! If you are a girl in this age group who is still being spanked, then you have a lot of company!
In the future I will provide more details concerning the reports that I have received relating to girls who are 18+ and still being spanked, as well as some of my own experiences in administering such spankings.
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A question that arises concerning girls being spanked-at-home is whether or not girls are spanked clothed, just bare-bottom, or naked?
Of those girls who are spanked, about 80% are spanked on their bare bottom, and these appear to be the girls who are spanked more frequently. Again, this would seem to be reasonable in that if a girl is not spanked too often, and yet a spanking needs to be given, it is more “comfortable” if she is just spanked over her clothes rather than going through some process to get her clothes off that may result in a fight and no spanking. But, if she is used to being spanked on her bare-bottom and is frequently spanked, then she continues to be spanked in that manner.
Here, the girl has been made to bring her paddle to her “daddy”, take her clothes off and bend over his knee to be spanked. While, as noted below, only about 40% of girls are spanked naked, for our viewing audience, most of the girls being spanked for Spanked Coeds or Girls-Spanked-Bottoms are spanked naked.
Although 80% of the girls are spanked on their bare-bottoms, only about half of those are made to strip naked to be spanked. However, we adhere to the belief that if a girl has to be punished, it is very important that she be naked to be spanked, since she will pay much more attention to what is expected of her and the spanking will be much more effective in bringing about the desired behavioral change. A naked girl does in fact pay a lot more attention to what she is being told than one who continues to hide behind her clothing. And, anecdotal evidence suggests that girls who are spanked do prefer to be spanked naked, or at least on their bare bottom, even if they will not admit it. And, the reason is pretty much as stated here; i.e., bare-bottom spankings are much more effective, and being made to strip naked really gets the girl’s attention.
Here two girls are lectured about their behavior and the fact that they will have to be spanked. If girls are frequently spanked, about 75% of them have been spanked in front of others. And, 45% have been spanked along with their sister or girlfriend.
Both girls are made to strip naked before being spanked. Although some girls are embarrassed being made to strip naked in front of another girl who is also going to be spanked, most say that it is not embarrassing, that it is quite “natural” and if they had not been bad they would not have to be spanked. Also, they say that it is harder watching the other girl being spanked than it is receiving their own spanking.
It is important that when the girl is spanked, she is made to keep her bare bottom fully presented to be spanked and must not attempt to avoid her spanking. Practically all girls admit that if they cover their bottom with their hand or squirm too much to avoid being spanked, that they will be spanked harder and longer, or will be spanked again. Also, it is important to spank each girl hard so that they do not think that any favorites are being played.
While the most common position is OTK, many other positions are used to spank a girl. One of the more frequent, after being made to bend over furniture or grabbing ankles, is the legs-up position. Frequently, a strap is used for this spanking since it is easily applied from a standing position. And, such a whipping is very effective when two girls have to be spanked, as it creates much more anxiety for both girls and results in a much more effective punishment. Simply the act of making the girl lay back and get her legs up in preparation for her spanking facilitates the punishment-effectiveness. To see a legs-up spanking, click the following photo:
Now, part of determining how many girls are still spanked-at-home is whether or not mentors, tutors, counselors, teachers, etc. count. That is, I have had many girls contact me to be spanked because they are no longer spanked-at-home by their parents, but want to be disciplined in a very “domestic” manner. These girls are not looking for sexual satisfaction, but for discipline and punishment. No determination has been made as to how many girls are actually seeking spanking-discipline, but there certainly are some, and if we add up all of the disciplinarians in this industry who have been approached for such discipline and have administered such spankings, the number of girls seeking such discipline may be quite significant. And, these “mentors” do fill the role of “daddy” in that the girls are spanked for much the same reasons as they would be at home; i.e., domestic discipline. Regardless, it appears as though there are many more girls being spanked in a domestic-discipline manner who are 18+ than one might suspect.
But, the point is always raised—“I don’t know of any girls still being spanked.”
Well, here are 4 girls being spanked!
As I recently remarked on another forum, how many viewers of spanking videos have friends who know that they enjoy watching spanking videos? Likewise, how many girls who are still being spanked at 18+ tell their friends that they are being spanked? Normally, a person only confides in one who they know will not betray their “secret”. You may be surprised how many of your friends actually enjoy kinky sex when they are with the one they love. How many of them relate their exploits in the bedroom to just anyone? I am right now conversing with a girl in Florida, and she wants to be spanked, but her family does not know and she does not want them to know. She is 19 and has some behavioral problems that she wants corrected. Her spankings will be very “domestic” for “domestic-type” problems. If I spank her does that count for her being “spanked-at-home”?
The point is simply that those girls who are spanked are not likely to let you know if you are not also in the spanking scene. And your friends may not know that you are, so they will not confide in you. Of course, if you are open about it as I am, then girls are willing to confide, knowing that their trust will not be betrayed. Many in this industry are very open about their appreciation for spanking girls, so there may be more of you who can confirm just how extensive the spanking of girls is, and how many have approached you to be spanked.
This girl is spanked in an office for not completing her tasks properly at work, not doing well academically, and not taking care of her domestic chores. Her mentor checks up on her every day to see how she is progressing, and if she needs his corrective-attention, she is spanked. Does this count as “spanked-at-home”?
In the fourth and final part there will be some concluding remarks concerning reports of girls being spanked as well as what should be considered as a “spanked-at-home” scenario. What reports should be considered for domestic discipline?
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No one should ever live in fear of another!
Enjoy your life as you want, but do not live in fear!
But, you must take the initiative. In speaking with “help lines,” the emphasis is very clear that the one being battered must take the initiative. Take the initiative to help yourself and obtain whatever assistance is available.
“It’s Abuse” Wants to Control You!
According to a group, “It’s Abuse”, initiated at a major university, you do not have the right to be involved in a relationship that does not comport itself to the dictates of this group—if you do, you are WRONG!
Why should you care?
Because it is just such groups as these, similar to the self-proclaimed Moral Majority, who eventually believe their own self-righteousness and attempt to legally impose what they believe everyone should be doing.
Do you, as a coed, working girl, or whatever your status have the right to be spanked by your boyfriend, father, daddy, mom, uncle, next-door-neighbor, girlfriend, boss, etc. … if that is what you want?
Not according to this group which states:
“If one person in the relationship is humiliated, ridiculed, ignored, harassed, subjected to any controlling behavior or physically harmed by the other – it is relationship abuse, and it’s wrong. It’s the exact opposite of a healthy relationship. But it happens every day on campuses across the country. Now there’s a movement to stop relationship abuse.”
My, my, such pontificating, self-righteous snobs.
Be careful girls how you try to satisfy yourself or what type of personal relationship you want for yourself and your partner! You may be doing the wrong things and must be controlled to “help” you overcome your wrong-headed decisions!
Do you want an LDD relationship? If so, you are WRONG according to “It’s Abuse“!
Do you want to be spanked by your disciplinarian? Then, you are WRONG according to “It’s Abuse“!
Now, please understand, I am not advocating the abuse of any girl.
When activities are pursued in a consensual relationship, it is not abuse of any kind, regardless of how often the girl is spanked, slapped, made to satisfy her man, or any other activity that they both enjoy.
It is no one’s business what activities a couple pursues.
And, to see just how dedicated this group is, one but has to view its “recruiting” tactics:
“Together, we can stop relationship abuse. Right here, right now.
Your first step is to join the Movement. By joining, you pledge to do what you can to help end relationship abuse. (And, you also might win free stuff!)”
Well, that’s certainly praise-worthy. If they can’t get you to join because it’s the right thing to do, they’ll just bribe you! Apparently bribery is a worthwhile activity!
Now, is there such thing as an “abusive relationship”? Of course there is.
And, what are those? They are very easy to recognize—they are relationships in which the spanking, hitting, etc. are not consensual. I have previously helped to put a stop to such a relationship—at the request of the girl being abused!
One starts down a very slippery slope, however, when one believes that they have the right to tell someone else what is “abuse” and that they have a right to “intervene”. The statistics used to further this group’s claims of “abuse” are staggering:
“Three-quarters of students report knowing someone who’s been in an abusive relationship.”
Many problems with using this claim upon which to pursue a “cause”:
(1) The entire survey is anecdotal. What is “abuse” to one student may not be to another.
(2) Was the “abuse” actually “abuse”, or did the girl simply have an extensive amount of “hickies”? According to this group, “hickies” are forbidden!!! Don’t you dare let a boy bite you as a result of passion. Shame! Shame!
(3) ¾ of students know about an abusive relationship??? Goodness gracious, mercy me, these schools, all in Ohio(!), are just rampant with out-of-control couples who go around abusing each other! When do they ever have time to learn or work? Or, possibly they all know the same couple, and the “problem” is inconsequential.
OK, actual abuse is a crime. Prosecute it! Otherwise, stay out of the way and keep your own feelings to yourself and those with whom you want to relate. If you do not want to get spanked, then say so and date only those who won’t. If you are in a relationship where you are not being treated as you would like, then YOU get help.
NOTE: You cannot “save” your partner from abusing you!!! Abuse will only escalate!!! Do not wait until you are seriously injured!!! Do not go back to your partner and expect anything to change!!! If you are being abused today, you will be abused tomorrow, you will be abused next week, you will be abused next month, and, unfortunately, at some point it will be too late and you will be seriously injured or dead!!! You must take the initiative to put a stop to it!!!
If you are incapable of making your own decisions and need to be supervised in order to get out of such a relationship, then find someone who will “control” you so that you can get out and get into a “proper” relationship.
After all, if we did not have this group to “control” you, you would still be in a relationship being controlled by someone of whom this group disapproves. Pick your Masters carefully!
According to “It’s Abuse,” your relationship is “right” only if you are being “controlled” by someone from “It’s Abuse” who “knows” what you should be doing in a relationship and will “help” you get it right!
You see, “It’s Abuse” actually is not advocating that you not be controlled; they just want to make sure that you are controlled by them and according to their own precepts, and you do not have a right to do what you want to do.
However, here at Spanked Coeds & Girls-Spanked-Bottoms, I believe that:
You have a right to your own feelings,
You have a right to your own beliefs,
You have a right to your own sexuality,
You have a right to satisfy yourself as you want in a consensual relationship, and
You have a right to repudiate anyone who would tell you what is “acceptable” behavior in your relationships!
If you would like to share your thoughts or share how you are disciplined and punished, please go and complete our survey. Go to: http://www.spankedcoeds2.com/Polls.html
Tell us if you believe that you are being abused or that you enjoy the relationship you are in.
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