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Alright now, let’s get back to trying to determine just how prevalent the spanking of 18+-year-old girls is.
As has been seen from responses to my Spanked-at-Home Survey on my website, http://www.spankedcoeds2.com/Polls.html, there definitely are a number of girls who are over 18-years-old who are still spanked-at-home for discipline and punishment. And, as seen from the recent post of a 22-year-old girl who thanked me for this series, she provided a lot of detail concerning her discipline and how loving it is coming from her father. While the percentage of girls still being spanked is relatively low, in terms of the number of girls in the U.S. alone, there are a lot of girls being spanked, about 1,447,600 girls who are over 18 and still being spanked-at-home. But, as this latest girl also confirms, few others will know that she is or that others are being spanked since they do not tell anyone.
Additional results would be greatly appreciated where girls provide the extensive detail as provided by the latest girl.
Without providing extensive statistical analyses from which my conclusions are extrapolated, it appears as though that about 5% of girls 18- to 24-years-old in the United States continue to be spanked at home. And, there also appears to be great disparity in where these girls are found. For example, in smaller, private colleges, a greater percentage of the girls are spanked—well over 50% in some schools; whereas in large universities, as is probably expected, the percentage of girls being spanked is less than 5%, although this is most likely due to the fact that most of the girls are away from home. When girls normally leave home when they are 18 to go to college, it is clear that they “no longer get spanked-at-home”. Also, the girls who continue to be spanked most often live in the south-east in more rural areas, as was indicated in the previous post concerning girls living in a small southern town. And, this also applies not only to girls who are in school, but those who are working and living at home. In fact, girls who are not in school appear to be spanked more than girls who are.
Here a working girl is taken over the knee and spanked for not getting her domestic chores done. Even when girls work, they are still expected to get chores done around the home. This is from reports received from a 20-year-old girl in a small Georgia town, population about 650 [about 110 families or so, with about 30 girls in the 18- to 24-year-old age group]. She said that practically all girls in the town, regardless of age, were spanked at home as long as they lived at home. This was in a community where there was only one main source of employment, which was a manufacturer of car parts that were shipped to Detroit. Several of the girls worked in the plant so it was relatively easy to keep track of what they did at work, and they would be spanked if they got into trouble or did not meet required production quotas. A few of the girls worked at the local bar and a general store, and, again, were easily monitored at work. Only 3 or 4 girls went to the community college. As in most small towns, everyone pretty much knows what goes on with everyone else. The girls were most often spanked for domestic problems like not doing chores or coming in too late at night, although work-related spankings were also fairly common. But, since only a few of the girls went to a nearby community college, only a few of them got spanked for academic reasons, although girls who were still in high school got spanked frequently for academic problems.
Working girl or coed, if a girl is a “tramp” she’ll get spanked! Conservative values are expected and girls are spanked hard if they run around too much.
And, another interesting fact seems to be that those girls who are spanked are spanked on a fairly regular basis. If a girl is spanked, about 60% are spanked one or more times a week with about 10% receiving daily spankings. Although reports of girls receiving daily spankings may seem to be somewhat incredulous (although remember that this is 10% of the 5% who are spanked, so the number is quite low), I know in fact of at least 2 girls who were spanked almost daily, most often for not getting chores done, coming home late, or being disrespectful. I know of these girls from first-hand knowledge as opposed to reports given to me that I have no way of actually verifying. Such frequent spankings may be much more common than we might suspect. The problem remains that most girls who are spanked-at-home simply will not let it be known that they are. And, whereas in the 1950’s and earlier when it was actually quite common for girls to be spanked, today it is much more of a secret since they are berated by various groups if they are, thus precluding actual reports.
While OTK spankings are the most common, many girls are made to bend over furniture like a desk or chair or, as here, bend over and grab her ankles or place her hands on her knees. And, being made to bend over to be spanked seems to be more prevalent for those who are spanked the most, possibly because it is easier to initiate the spanking.
But, for girls who are spanked, being spanked frequently is possibly understandable in that if a girl is not spanked often enough; the spankings will most likely just taper off and stop. But, if a girl is spanked frequently, then the “routine” of being spanked continues and the girl actually expects to be spanked and is more submissively-obedient to being spanked. As long as their spankings never stop after they turn 18, they are more likely to just continue to expect to being spanked and submit to the spankings.
If a girl comes home from work and has to be spanked, she will raise her skirt, or have it pulled up, pull her panties down, or have them pulled down, to her knees and bend over as ordered. And, if she is frequently spanked she is more accustomed to simply baring her bottom and bending over to be spanked than one who is not spanked too often, if at all. Here, the girl was caught as soon as she got home from work, was made to pull her panties down and raise her skirt and bend over the knee to be spanked.
But, also, as shown in the following film, a good whipping may also be in order! However, in the following movie you will see that Zara asks to be spanked more than what she received. It is doubtful that too many girls will ask to be spanked more. However, Zara frequently did, and there may be girls who know what they need and actually ask for it. I do know of one girl who was actually responsible for telling her dad when she needed to be spanked and would go to him to ask to be spanked. But, once he started in spanking her, she did not ask for more when he got done. However, there may be some who do.
Also, there are a few girls, unknown how many, who are spanked for up to an hour or more, as also reported by our latest survey girl. Also, as reported previously, a girl I knew who lived on a farm was taken to the barn, stripped naked and spanked, on-and-off, for more than an hour. So punishment sessions of more than an hour may also be more prevalent than we might suspect. If anyone has any knowledge of such punishments, please complete my Spanking Survey: http://www.spankedcoeds2.com/Polls.html. When they are, they are most often spanked in various positions, with different implements. The sofa arm seems to be used frequently to properly present a girl’s bare bottom.
When a girl is spanked for more than 30 minutes, it seems to be frequently to administer what might be called Spanking Therapy and Punishment. The movie shown below is a part of a Spanking Therapy and Punishment Session received by Zara for more than an hour. Of course, it is not just one continuous spanking, but intermixed with a lot of lecturing that is not shown. Click the title frame below to see Zara get spanked!
Whether girls are spanked clothed or naked will be discussed in the next post.
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LDD (Loving Domestic Discipline) lists a variety of types of spankings, but I believe it does not go far enough in terms of distinguishing what they are and the reason for the various types. In fact, several of their “types” are classified as though they are the same thing with different names. Further, I have introduced a new classification of spanking defined as Proprietary Spankings that will be presented below.
Basic Concept of Domestic Discipline:
Domestic Discipline (DD) is designed to help establish a better-controlled home or domestic environment. DD spankings are administered to help control a girl so that she behaves better and is obedient to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. Domestic Discipline Rules (DDRs) are designed to better control a girl and make for a better well-run domestic environment. Domestic Rules are established to make it easier to control a girl. As a minimum, the girl can expect to be spanked on her bare bottom for any disobedience or misbehavior for which she should be responsible in a traditional home environment.
Extended Concept of Domestic Discipline:
DD, in addition to helping to establish a better-controlled home, is often used to control a girl in some desired manner; e.g., making her behave as desired, provide services as desired, etc.
DDRs and DD are frequently extended to better define the place of a girl in a home; e.g., is she required to submit in part or completely to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor in everything that she does; e.g., she must bathe whenever ordered, and only when ordered, etc.? Is she to behave submissively in public as well as at home; e.g., she is to pleasantly agree with whatever decisions her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor makes when in front of others, and will be immediately taken to the car and spanked hard if she doesn’t? Is she to provide sexual services as ordered, whether at home or elsewhere? Is she to provide sexual services to whomever she is ordered to serve, whether to house-guests or ordered to go out to serve? Is she to submit to a TPE (Total Power Exchange) in part or completely—which essentially defines her place in the home? It is important that the rules for the girl be very well-defined so that there is no confusion for either partner as to what is expected; in particular, so that she knows why it is that she is being spanked when she is spanked. And, if she is spanked beyond what is considered as a Basic Domestic Discipline, she may be whipped hard with a belt, strap, etc.
Any girl who I train for any period of time must submit to a TPE which includes hard spankings and whippings, since otherwise, she may as well just go find a vanilla teacher. Bare-bottom strappings as shown here are fairly routine in any DD relation where I am the girl’s mentor or master.
Regardless of the extent of DD, one further clarification needs to be made in view of several discussions recently seen concerning the classification of “spanking”, “BDSM”, etc. As depicted here, my concern is with Domestic Discipline, or Loving Domestic Discipline, devoid of any abuse. Hard whippings are not “abuse” when both parties agree that such are needed. Whatever interpretation is desired for “BDSM”, my concern is with domestic spanking-discipline for the purpose of correction and punishment, and not abuse and degradation. This is so whether the discipline is in a home, school, or business environment. It should be noted; however, that “abuse” and “degradation” may be viewed differently by different partners. I have had girls ask to be humiliated and degraded as part of their punishment. If that is what they need, then it is made a part of their punishment sessions.
Any bondage is for the purpose of positioning a girl properly to be spanked or to restrain her for a certain period of time, rather than the strict bondage frequently depicted by BDSM. Very simply, the photo shown here of Mila being taken naked OTK in the kitchen to be spanked characterizes the discipline and punishment of which I am concerned.
Another extension of DD that I include is that of Proprietary Spankings. Proprietary Spankings as I construe them, are similar to Submission Spankings found in LDD; however, Proprietary Spankings are more focused in terms of intent, as defined below. In LDD, the following is asserted about Submission Spankings:
“Submission Spankings are also known as “just because” spankings. The woman will receive a spanking for no particular reason than justbecause the HOH decides to spank her; or just because the HOH feels that she may benefit from receiving a good spanking. Submission Spankings, as the title depicts, will help a woman with her submission to her HOH. These spankings will leave her with no doubt that she is subject to her HOH’s authority. Submission Spankings are also sometimes referred to as reminder spankings. They are very beneficial in reinforcing the woman’s submission and reminding her of her obedience and respect to her HOH.” [Source: http://rncblog.blogspot.com/2007/05/different-types-of-spanking.html]
Such spankings as described by LDD are given at any time, but as shown here, are frequently given in the evening when the girl must wear her nightgown so that she is ready at any time to be taken over a knee, have her bottom bared and spanked. However, in Extended DD, a girl may be required to wear a gown any time she is at home, or, preferably, she will always be naked when at home.
I believe that all of these types of spankings referred to above are distinctly different; i.e., Submission Spankings, Just-Because Spankings, Reminder Spankings, and Preemptive Spankings (which are sometimes referred to as Reminder Spankings) are all administered for distinctly different reasons, and it is important that we understand the difference in order to maintain a well-run and controlled home.
Proprietary Spankings are yet another type of spanking that is given in an Extended DD environment for a specific reason—to let the girl know that she is the “property” of her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. This will be discussed in more detail below as being a Punishment Spanking. Here we are concerned more with discipline, as shown above with Kyndall getting spanked in the bathroom.
When a girl knows why she is being spanked, she will learn better, be more cooperative in receiving her spanking and the household will be more controlled—she will feel that she is a part of the household in terms of making it a better place to live. Here, Kyndall bends over her Mentor’s knee to be spanked so that she will be more obedient in doing her domestic chores. Further, and most important, this helps to distinguish legitimate spankings from unwarranted beatings.
First, it is emphasized that there must be consistency in administering spankings. The following guidelines are helpful:
- When a girl has been told that she will be spanked, she must be spanked—no exceptions.
- If a girl disobeys a rule or disobeys her disciplinarian she must be spanked—no exceptions.
- It is very important that there is consistency in administering spankings so that a girl knows that she cannot get away with anything. If she is not spanked when she misbehaves or is disobedient then she will get confused and believe that her disciplinarian is not serious about her behavior and does not actually care for her. Spankings are a sign to a girl that her disciplinarian loves her and cares for her, and he is not going to allow her to be disobedient or misbehave.
- Confusion in discipline and punishment will lead to a dysfunctional household and a girl who will become out-of-control.
Types of spankings:
Submission Spanking: Given to assure a girl’s total submission to the control of her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. These are distinguished from Just-Because Spankings and other spankings, by them being very hard and long spankings and are for the purpose of establishing her submission. A Just-Because Spanking is just that, a spanking administered just-because the girl’s HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor wants to spank her for no apparent reason other than, possibly, her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor just likes spanking her. Submission Spankings should be administered for 20 minutes to 1 hour with few, if any interruptions in the spanking so that there is no question but that the girl will hold her position until her disciplinarian is through with her bottom and she realizes that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor does in fact control her. Most often, a strap, paddle or belt should be used. Frequently, Submission Spankings should be given when not expected. As shown here, Mila is in the kitchen when she is made to undress and bend over to be spanked. A yardstick is used on her here as she is spanked hard, but frequently a paddle or strap is used.
However, Submission Spankings are also used when a girl has been cheating on her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor, … or Boyfriend. Shown below is Mila being whipped by her Daddy with a strap for cheating on her boyfriend. She received a very hard whipping to make sure that she understood that she was going to submit to her boyfriend and no one else, and she was going to submit to her Daddy for a hard whipping when she cheated. These whippings are most often administered so that they are very hard and for a long time, up to an hour or more. Following whipping Mila in the living room, she was taken to her bedroom and whipped some more with her kneeling the the Kneeling Punishment Position as shown in the 2nd photo below. I enjoy whipping a girl in that position as it presents her bottom very well, and she has to hold her bottom in position until I finish with her.
Just-Because Spanking: Given at-will to confirm a girl’s submissiveness and obedience, but requires no specific reason. These spankings are distinguished from Submission Spankings in that they are not so severe, and are intended mainly to just assure obedience rather than submission. These spankings are often given when the girl is simply stopped in the home, made to bare her bottom and bend over to be spanked. This is mainly for control to make sure the girl is continually obedient and submissive. Most often these will be for 3 to 10 minutes by hand. As can be seen here, even by hand, her spanking must be hard. It is believed that all spankings should be for at least 3 minutes, and most often much longer, since anything less will not impress the girl that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor is serious.
Preemptive (Reminder) Spanking: Administered to assure proper behavior at an event or to encourage a girl to behave properly about the home or when company is expected. This may be required; e.g., when she is expecting company and she previously has misbehaved when they were present. May be administered for any behavior requiring control; e.g., when a girl first starts to drive, she may have a tendency to speed, not park properly, etc. Under those conditions she may be spanked before going out with the car to help her focus her attention on what is expected of her. Or she may be spanked before any social event or anytime that she is just going out; e.g., to go shopping or with the girls. As shown here, a girl is not always naked when being spanked. Before going shopping, she may just be spanked to make sure she understands that she will not spend too much money. However, with few exceptions, her spankings should always be on her bare bottom. If I have a girl who routinely does not get up on time or get to work on her domestic chores as she should, I will give her daily spankings as soon as she gets up. These are different than Maintenance Spankings, since with a Preemptive Spanking there is a definite reason on which her attention needs to be focused.
Maintenance Spanking: Administered to assure continuing obedience; i.e., to assure that she will present her bottom to be spanked as ordered and to be submissively obedient to her disciplinarian. This is a routine “Obedience Spanking”. Administered 3 to 7 days a week, but is most effective when administered daily. Maintenance Spankings are frequently given with the girl naked and OTK being spanked by hand. Maintenance Spankings are often confused with Preemptive/Reminder Spankings. However, Preemptive/Reminder Spankings are administered for targeted activities like going shopping, whereas Maintenance Spankings are for general or global behavior reminders. They are administered so that the girl is continually alert to being obedient and behaving properly. There purpose is similar to the effect of making a girl hang her paddle and strap on the inside of her bedroom closet door. By so doing, every day that she gets dressed in the morning and opens her closet door, she will see her discipline/punishment implements and will be reminded of what will happen to her bottom if she is not obedient or misbehaves.
Disobedience Spanking: Administered when a girl moves during a spanking in a manner to avoid or obstruct her spanking, or reaches back to cover her bottom with her hand. She is then spanked again and made to hold her position until the spanking is done. If she continues to move to avoid her spanking or interfere with her spanking, she is then bound in position. These spankings are frequently given about an hour after her initial spanking, and must be harder and longer than her initial spanking. I prefer a position similar to that shown here for a Disobedience Spanking. In this position Mila has to strain to hold her position as she is whipped with a strap. It is clear if she rises up or moves to avoid her spanking. If necessary, a spread-bar can be used to keep her feet in place and various bondage implements can be used to keep her tied down. Most often it is not necessary since she will be whipped harder if bondage is required. A girl learns very quickly after the first time she is whipped much harder for not holding her position.
Before-Bedtime Spanking: These spankings are administered just before bedtime. This spanking is often administered when a girl demonstrates frequent disobedience or misbehavior during a week, although sometimes it is administered if the girl had to be spanked at any time during the day—get spanked during the day and she has to report for a Before-Bedtime Spanking. Given especially when she is sent to bed early for whatever reason. If a girl has to be sent to bed early, it is important that she also be spanked, preferably for 20 minutes by hand. Routine Before-Bedtime Spankings are administered to remind the girl to behave herself the next day and do better in her schoolwork or domestic chores or at work. Such routine spankings are frequently administered when a girl is being initially trained and disciplined to make sure she quickly learns to obey and behave herself. These spankings are frequently given in the bedroom with her disciplinarian sitting on the edge of her bed. When a girl first comes to me, I will give her a Before-Bedtime Spanking every night for at least 2 weeks so that she knows in no uncertain terms that I will spank her any time that I want to spank her.
Bedtime Spanking: Administered after girl is already in bed. These spankings are administered when a girl requires further punishment. After being in bed for at least 30 minutes (although frequently an hour or more), she is sent for, or her disciplinarian goes to her room, as shown here, makes her take her nightgown off and turn so she can be spanked. As shown here, she simply has to turn on her side so her bottom can be spanked, but other times she is made to kneel on her bed to be whipped. If she is sent for and has to report to her disciplinarian in another room, she reports to her disciplinarian naked, hands him/her the spanking-implement, and she is spanked hard. These are Punishment Spankings. These are frequently administered when several girls are present, like in a Finishing School. These should not be confused with Before-Bedtime Spankings that are administered, as the name suggests, before the girl goes to bed.
Bedtime Spankings are administered after the girl has gone to bed; she is gotten up and is spanked. I have been informed of certain institutions in the Philippines that use Bedtime Spankings very effectively to control unruly girls. The institution is a home for over 50 girls and each night, 1 or more of the girls, normally 3 or 4, are sent for to report to the Headmaster to be spanked. At night, their spankings can be heard by all of the other girls as they hear the paddle being applied to bare bottoms and the girls crying. As a result, the girls are most often very hyper-obedient during the day. Such Bedtime Spankings are not at all uncommon in certain countries.
Obedience Spanking: Any spanking that is for the purpose of obtaining a girl’s obedience, which is most any spanking except, possibly for Punishment Spankings that are designed just to punish the girl. And, as here, Obedience Spankings are given wherever the girl is, which here is in the back of a van. Whereas other spankings are administered for very specific reasons, Obedience Spankings are administered any time that the girl is disobedient and her disobedience is not covered by any other type of spanking. Frequently these spankings will be followed later by a Punishment Spanking; e.g., she is spanked when away from home and then spanked again when she gets home. These also cover such spankings as she may receive at school, and when she gets home she is given a Punishment Spanking. Or, she is disobedient or misbehaves when shopping, is taken to the car and spanked, and then spanked again when she gets home. Etc.
Punishment Spanking: Given to punish a girl for whatever reason. These spankings are really not for discipline or correction, but just to punish the girl for something she has done that is very serious. Although not often recommended, Punishment Spankings may be administered longer than 1-hour, & sometimes are given at a cabin or remote location over a long weekend (Friday evening through Sunday afternoon is what I prefer) with repeated spankings during the Punishment Weekend. The breaks can be anywhere from 10 minutes to over an hour.
One dad used the barn in which to take the girl to punish her during an hour punishment session. Appropriate straps are readily available in many barns as are places to tie the girl in position to whip her.
Normally I prefer to spank the girl immediately upon arriving at the cabin, normally beside the van, and then again after she has taken the luggage inside and gotten everything ready for the weekend. Then she has time to prepare and serve dinner and then clean up afterwards. When she is done, she is spanked again before sitting down for a quiet evening. Of course, before bed she is spanked again. The next morning she is spanked to start her day, and then every 2 to 4 hours she is spanked again, or she is spanked before and after any assigned activities like cleaning the cabin or doing outdoor chores. Of course, a nice hike in the woods always includes a spanking or two.
Punishment Spankings are most effective when the girl is told when her next spanking is going to be, what implement will be used on her (which she has to bring and hand to her disciplinarian), what position she is to be in and must assume immediately at the designated time. This helps to focus her attention on her punishment and causes desired anxiety. Also the weekend spankings help the girl to really focus her attention on what is expected of her.
For Punishment Spankings, I prefer a position similar to that shown here as it makes the girl have to strain to hold her position (she must keep her back arched to properly present her bottom), which increases the effectiveness of the spanking. I expect her to be in position with her bottom properly presented when I enter the room so all I have to do is get to work on her bottom.
Proprietary Spanking: These spankings are administered, normally after sexual use or inspections, or when the girl has cheated on her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor (or Boyfriend as noted above under Submission Spankings) and had sex without his permission, to impress on the girl that her body belongs to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor (Boyfriend) and she is not to allow anyone else to use her without his permission. Proprietary Spankings are, of course, used only if an Extended DD relationship has been established and the girl has signed a TPE in which she agrees that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor controls her completely.
The main difference between a Proprietary Spanking and Submission Spanking is one of intensity and focusing of attention. That is, for cheating, a girl may be given two Punishment Sessions–one Submission Spanking Session and one Proprietary Spanking Session. This helps to increase the anxiety of the girl, knowing that her punishment is not over after the first one-hour punishment session, and realizing that she will receive another one-hour punishment session that is even more severe. It is important that a Proprietary Punishment Session is very severe.
For these spankings, it is important that the girl is carefully controlled—she is made to assume her position to be spanked very precisely and she must hold her position until her disciplinarian finishes spanking her. As shown here, Mila is made to assume the Inverted-V Position, an excellent position for administering very hard spankings, and her spanking does not start until she is properly positioned.
Also, during these spankings, I frequently massage or probe the girl vaginally to let her know that I control her sexual activity and she will be obedient to me.
Of course, these spankings are also administered when a girl is required to “service” guests of the home and she fails to do so. Most often I will work over a girl’s bottom in her bedroom after she comes home and her “client” tells me that she refused to service him as desired. Here Kyndall gets her bottom beat hard with the Blistering-Spanking Hairbrush, resulting in her crying convulsively. For Proprietary Spankings, it is preferred that a girl be made to cry convulsively by spanking her exceptionally hard. Girls are very hyper-obedient after having their bottom “blistered”.
Proprietary Spankings are also administered if she is caught with another boy or found flirting without permission. These are frequently given to girls who are dating since they have to ask permission to have sex, and most girls will not ask. When she gets home after a date, most girls are spanked simply because they probably did have sex! Here, Mila is being spanked in the Kneeling-Punishment Position. If I am in charge of the rooming home, then every Friday and Saturday evenings, after the girls return from their dates, they will be heard crying loudly as I whip their bottoms hard, whether they had sex or not—it is just presumed that they did. If they actually did not have sex, then the spanking they are receiving is a Just-Because Proprietary Spanking! Whatever the case, every Friday and Saturday evening, if a girl has a date, she will be spanked when she gets home. If she is late, she’ll receive two spankings!
To be effective, Proprietary Spankings must be 15- to 30-minute spankings or longer to make sure the girl knows who controls and owns her; they must be administered with a paddle, strap or belt, or other implement designed to administer a hard spanking; e.g., a very hard hairbrush or bathbrush; and the girl should be made to assume 2 or more positions for her spankings to emphasize that her disciplinarian controls her. I believe that Proprietary Spankings are most effective when administered during a 1-hour or longer punishment session.
For such spankings, I recommend a hairbrush similar to that shown here—Master’s-Correction Hairbrush. This hairbrush is 10½” long, 5¼” long handle, 3¼” wide head, and ½” thick. It delivers a very hard and focused spanking to each cheek.
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Following the Overview, this is the first of 4 reports concerning girls who are 18+-years-old and who are still spanked-at-home for discipline and punishment.
To see all of the reports in this series, click on this Category: Do 18+-year-old Girls Get Spanked-at-Home?; that is also found below in the right-hand column.
As cited in the Overview, there are more such girls being spanked-at-home than one might suspect, although not so many that one might actually know someone. However, if one lives in a conservative community—Amish or strict Baptist or Reformed Christian, etc.—one will most likely find more girls being spanked than in more urban cities or “progressive” and “enlightened” communities. But, even in larger cities, there are probably more girls being spanked than one might believe. However, with only 5% of the girl population being spanked, and most of them not really letting anyone know that they are, one can only rely on various anecdotal “evidence” to suggest that some of the girls you meet daily may still be getting spanked-at-home. The following provides some insight into these spankings and relate what has been seen as the more prevalent trend.
Here Stephanie reports to her bedroom to be spanked. She removes her gown and proceeds to bend over her Daddy’s knee to be spanked. Girls are spanked most often in their bedroom, and those who are spanked in their bedroom are most often spanked naked. The norm seems to be that they are told that they are going to be spanked, possibly at dinner, told when to report to their room and to “get ready” to be spanked. Although the dad normally does the spanking, the mom will most likely be standing there watching and telling the dad if the girl needs to get spanked more or harder. This was the case when I mentored Nancy in Orlando. Her mom most often said that I should spank her longer and harder. Her mom was also the one who would frequently make Nancy remove her clothes and bring her to me to be spanked.
The next most frequent place to be spanked is in the living room or family room. Again, in Orlando, I spanked both Nancy and her mom, Karen. And, quite often I would spank them both at the same time, which would be in the family room. They both had to strip naked and take their turn over my knee as I would use a paddle or hairbrush on them. Most often these would be 3×3-minute spankings; i.e., I would start with Nancy over my knee and spank her for 3 minutes, and then take Karen over my knee and spank her for 3 minutes, and then repeat the spankings 2 more times. That way they would each see the other being spanked, and they would each have time to think about the next spanking they were going to get. When they were waiting, they had to kneel in front of me to wait.
Also, when girls are spanked in the family room, they are most often spanked in front of others, they may or may not be naked, and more than one girl may be spanked at the same time. In the 1940’s and 1950’s during family gatherings on a farm, one or more girls would be seen or heard getting spanked either inside in the family room or outdoors. It didn’t make much difference—if a girl was going to get spanked, she was just spanked on the spot wherever that would be.
Stephanie’s Daddy administers a blistering spanking with her hairbrush as she kicks and cries. When spanked in the bedroom the girl is frequently spanked with a hairbrush and often spanked harder than when spanked in front of others. A girl in Laredo, Texas, was spanked for 5 minutes during a party she was having—specifically for having a party(!)—and she was taken to her room and spanked very hard as her “guests” listened to her screaming and crying. Then the dad went back to the party room and told the guests: “You can leave now so I can get back to finishing the spanking she is getting.” They left and he gave the girl another spanking.
Seen below is a short clip of the spankings that both Stephanie and Desiré received. The spankings that these girls receive are very similar to the ones I give when spanking more than one girl at a time.
There have been numerous discussions concerning whether or not girls who are 18+-years-old are actually spanked at home for discipline or punishment.
This is a 4-part series report on this topic, in addition to the Overview.
There doesn’t seem to be much question but that 18+-year-old girls are definitely spanked by their boyfriends, but that is not the question. Being spanked by a boyfriend seems to be most common as a part of sex, although some girls are also punished by being spanked by their boyfriends.
The question is: “Are 18+-year-old girls spanked at home by their daddy, uncle, aunt, or someone else for discipline or punishment?” And, if the girls are spanked, how are they spanked—position, implement used, clothed or naked, etc.?
Most girls are spanked bare-bottom, even if they do keep their clothes on, or some of their clothes.
However, many girls are spanked naked.
I became interested in this question back in the late 1950’s and 1960’s when I was at The Ohio State University. While in school, I started teaching freshman and sophomore math courses when I was 19 as well as I also operated a typing business and hired several girls as typists to prepare student papers. One, in particular, recounted her spankings by her mother and the fact that her mother was making preparations for her own elder-care to be sure that her daughter would never take care of her! The concern by the mother, of course, was that the daughter would then take out on her the spankings that she had given to her daughter. At the time of our discussion, the girl was 20-years-old and was still being spanked by her mother.
I also instructed karate at the time and one of my students asked what she could do about her mother who was still spanking her at home. This girl was 21 at the time.
Now, not only was it becoming clear that girls who were 18-years-old or older were still being spanked-at-home, it was also becoming apparent that “daddy” was not the one necessarily doing the spanking—in many cases it was the mom, or if dad was doing the spanking, mom was encouraging him to spank her longer and harder. 88% are spanked by the dad, but frequently that is because he can spank the girl harder. That was the case when I took over the discipline of Nancy. Nancy’s mother could no longer spank her as hard as was needed and Karen welcomed the mentoring and discipline that I gave Nancy for that very reason.
OK, she’s not her “mom”, but it is still a girl-on-girl spanking! And, Daija just does a great job of spanking a girl!
As I’ve noted, from 1964 to 1966 I mentored a girl, Nancy, in Florida as she went to a community college. Since she lived with her single mom, she was also being spanked by her mom, but wanted and needed more firm corrective-attention. Her mom could no longer give Nancy the spankings she needed. Nancy contacted me and asked if I would mentor her and spank her when necessary. Of course, I agreed. 
The point here is that when I did spank her, it was her mom who always wanted me to spank her harder and longer, and would frequently bring her to me to spank.
Nancy was frequently brought to me by her mother so that I could spank her. Various implements were used, but normally she would have to bring me her paddle (rather than a ping-pong-paddle, although one was also used on Nancy at times when I wanted to focus more on each cheek individually). Nancy had to keep both her paddle and strap hung on the inside closet door in her bedroom so every day when she opened the closet she would be reminded of what was probably going to happen to her that day, and she had better work hard to behave herself and get all of her work done properly.
In fact, her mom was very open about the need for spankings, even her own. Soon after I started controlling Nancy, I also started controlling and spanking her mom, Karen, for domestic-chore problems. And, when I did, if Nancy was present, Karen still got stripped naked and spanked.
As shown here and below, both Nancy and Karen were spanked in front of each other. Karen wanted Nancy to see her getting spanked so that she learned that “spanking is all part of a loving and caring family.”
Most often, when Nancy or Karen were spanked OTK, a paddle was used on them.
Bedtime spankings were also quite common for both of the girls. And, at bedtime, a hairbrush was most often used so a more focused spanking could be administered to each cheek. Bedtime spankings were normally administered for 3 minutes—150 or 300 strokes, depending on which hairbrush was used (the regular hairbrush (300), or a hard, blistering hairbrush (150)). Spankings that consist of just a few strokes, fewer than 50, are really of little value. A girl has to be spanked long enough so that she will actually remember her spanking. And, she has to be spanked hard enough to make a real effect on her behavior. Light taps are of little value and are actually more frustrating for the girl than corrective.
Of even better benefit is to whip the girl. Seen below is a short clip of the whippings that Nancy and Karen received before bedtime. Not all Before-Bedtime Spankings are OTK. Nancy and Karen were made to present their bare bottoms as shown here since they were frequently punished in this manner during the day or evening. When they were, they would be told to go to their room and “get ready for your whipping”. When I entered their room, they had better be laying face-down on their bed with their hips over a pillow so I could get right to work on their bottom.
Part 2 will be presented soon.
