I have just received a kind message from our Slovakian girl, Sofia (and she confirms that it is not her real name!). I greatly appreciate her update and further report. Thanks, “Sofia”!
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Sofia says:
“If I understand it correctly Pam likes to be spanked.”
Yes, that is correct. Although she does not like to be spanked by her husband’s first wife! But she does like to be spanked to confirm that she is being controlled and enjoyed.
Sofia:
“There is a difference for me. I really hate to be spanked. It hurts like hell and for me, a well-educated woman, it is absolutely humiliating to be like a naked crying little girl. Especially if the spanking comes from men who are not my husband.”
This is where there are significant differences between what girls’ desire—some, like Sofia, resist being made to present themselves to be spanked by someone other than their husband/fiancé/boyfriend/master/mistress/etc. Others consider it a sign of their respect for their master to be obedient and do exactly whatever he tells them to do. However, these girls, like Pam, willingly subject themselves to being spanked and enjoyed by guests and others. But many girls resist and eventually leave the husband who is just abusing them; and that is the key sentiment—does the girl feel that she is being “abused” or not. If she feels abused, the relationship often does not last long.
However, Sofia also admits that, even though she is “well-educated”, she still wants to be controlled and spanked by her husband. This is more common than one might suspect. One girl wrote and admitted:
“Even as a professional woman, I still need to be controlled and spanked. At 34, I am still living at home, and my dad still spanks me when I misbehave or do not obey him. I have curfews, and domestic chores to complete. If I am late coming home when I am expected, I will have to take my clothes off, hand dad my hairbrush, and bend over his knee to be spanked. As a manger, I am very controlling at work, but when I get home, I am the one who must be obedient and do what I am told to do. And, I can only date men who will take control of me and make me obey them and behave properly. When I am disobedient to them, I do expect them to spank me hard. If they don’t, I will find a man who will. I always dress professionally by wearing a pleated skirt and blouse, with no panties or bra, so that I can be easily spanked or made to present myself naked to my man. I expect him to control me and make me submit to him for his enjoyment.”
This sentiment is expressed by Sofia given below.
“So, you ask: Why don’t I leave my husband? The answer why I am not leaving my husband is that I hate the spankings, but I love that he is a man who does whatever he wants to do with me. If he wants to spank me, he does it. If he wants sex, he takes me in every art of sex he wants. I love his dominance but wish he wouldn’t punish me so hard and so often and especially he would not allow other men to punish my naked body and speak about how funny I am crying with my red and sore ass.”
This is the dilemma that many girls have—they want a man who will take charge of them, make them obey and submit to their master, and yet they want limits on just what he can make them do. Not knowing either Sofia or her husband, I am not in a position as a marriage counselor, however, from reports I have had from girls who are in a similar situation, the marriage does not last, and the girl seeks out, and eventually finds, a man who will spank them and enjoy them, but will do so within the limits that both have agreed to.
I have repeatedly said that a true Domestic-Discipline Lifestyle (DDL) is very difficult to maintain, since it requires a man who is both dominant, and yet compassionate and understanding of the feelings of the girl. When that is not present, it is difficult to maintain over a period of years. Pam enjoys the total control that she receives and willingly submits to being spanked and enjoyed by whoever she is ordered to submit to, but, more likely, most girls will want certain limits on who can spank them. Although, here again, our Serbian girl, I believe it was Willow, in Maine, had to submit to being spanked by anyone within the religious community, and anyone her dad ordered her to submit to, which included sexual use. And, this also included another one of our Serbian girls in Alabama who also had to submit to being spanked and enjoyed by anyone she was ordered to submit to. The spanking and sexual enjoyment of Serbian girls seems to be a result of their culture, since I have many times more girls from Serbia than from any of the surrounding countries contacting me.
So, it appears as though part of the problem is one of culture rather than just personal; i.e., the religious community or social structure in which the girl lives may often determine her own desires as to how she is treated—is it customary for girls in the community; e.g., to be spanked by the pastor of the community and therefore the girls will submit to his spanking-attention as ordered, and is it customary for a girl to be spanked by her boss at work, or by the husband of the girl she is babysitting, etc.? If so, then she comes to simply expect it. But, if a girl enters into a marriage where she has not been brought up to believe that a girl must submit to being spanked by whoever she is ordered to submit to, then there will most likely be a long-term problem as to whether or not the marriage will last. There are men who are domineering, and yet understanding and compassionate, who will take the desires of the wife into consideration. And, there are men who are not.
In this case, it is up to Sofia and her husband to work things out, but I would recommend that they may need some intervention of a marriage counselor soon who understands the DDL.
Sofia:
“If my husband leaves the room for a moment, one time they talked about their wish to be allowed to spank me and force to beg them to fuck my ass. If my husband would allow them to fuck my spanked ass, I would leave him.”
OK, now we see that Sofia does have certain limits, as many girls do, and these limits should be worked out before marriage, and not after. Again, however, there are some girls who have no limits, and will do whatever she is ordered to do, and they enjoy doing so. That also, should be worked out before marriage. One girl stated:
“When I disobey my boyfriend, I expect him to strip me naked, take me over his knee and spank me hard. If he doesn’t, then I do not think that he loves me and cares about what I do. When he wants me to satisfy him, then I must obey as he orders, or, again, I do not believe that he really enjoys my body and wants me to satisfy him. And, if I don’t satisfy him, I want him to whip me hard to show me that he expects me to obey him and do what I am told to do.”
The reason is that most men just do not want to subjugate their wife, and, when that is what the wife wants, then such can cause just as much tension and discontent as the marriage in which the husband demands more than what the wife enjoys. All of this should be worked out before marriage. Pam has similar problems, both in terms of her sexual desires and need to be spanked. Her husband is not interested in having sex more than once or twice a week, whereas Pam wants it 3 times a day! She also wants to be spanked every day, but her husband will not spank her at all. So, she has a definite problem being a trophy wife.
Sofia:
“Another question: Could he be a loving-dominant without spanking and forcing me into obedience? Could I feel his dominance more as when his strong body is against my skinny body?”
The answer is, “Yes”! But, again, that must be determined jointly, and is not obtained when the wife simply gives in and does not resist. But that is between Sofia and her husband. Or, between any girl and her husband, regardless of the problems. No recommendations can be made when the details of the relationship are not known, and the couple has not been met.
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So that Sofia, our Slovakian girl, does not believe that she is unusual in being made to submit to being spanked by her husband’s business-partners, I am providing the following report from a girl, who I will call “Pam” (not her real name), who communicated with me and reported to me for training from 2012 to 2016. Her submission and service, however, was far more extensive than that of Sofia. Pam was not only frequently spanked by business-partners and associates of her husband, but she was also made to provide sexual services for them. As noted above, if she resisted in any way, she would be severely whipped and spanked!
The following photo-stories provide some of the details. More reports will be posted later since her experiences and services are very extensive and show what is possible.
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Again, I will call our Slovakian girl “Sofia”, which is not her real name, as she did not give me her real name. But, it will make it easier to write about her experiences if I have a name to refer to! 
Sofia’s report is of interest, since it complements and extends my previous post, Spanked for Slightest Infraction of a Rule. Sofia’s husband, who spanks her, appears to be very professional in the manner in which he disciplines Sofia, and controls her very well. She is always naked when she has to be spanked, she has to take her own clothes off, she has to bring him the implement he uses on her, she has to bend over his knee, kneel on all-4’s, or bend over a desk to be spanked, and she is spanked for 20 to 30 minutes, the length of time a spanking should be administered.
I am very impressed as to how well her husband disciplines Sofia.
From my previous post, we learned: Many girls contact me asking to be trained to be obedient and submissive and to learn to take care of her home properly and serve her man properly. And, most of the girls know exactly what is required to help them learn–(1) Be made to submit totally to what she is told to do, (2) Spank her for the slightest infraction of any rule, (3) Spank her hard when she has to be spanked, (4) Train her to present her bare bottom as ordered for her spankings, and to hold her bottom in position until her spanking is over, and (5) Be very strict with her, tell her exactly what she is expected to do and what is expected of her, spank her for any misbehavior regardless of how insignificant it may appear to be, and just take control of her life and tell her what to do every minute of the day–when to get up, when to go to bed, how to dress, when to shut her mouth, when to take a bath, when to go shopping, what make-up to wear, and so on, just control everything she does. It appears as though Sofia is supervised, controlled and spanked in much this same way.
Sofia is still being spanked but was spanked the most when she was 17-years-old by her parents, and then again when she was 24 by her husband.
In addition to being spanked, Sofia is also figged; i.e., ginger root is inserted in her anus. Ginger root results in a burning sensation and is used most often in the anus but may also be inserted in a girl’s vagina. Although it is most often used for punishment, some girls are excited when anticipating its use. Of course, it can be inserted anywhere—in the girl’s anus, vagina, or in her mouth. For another post about ginger root and other “heat” punishments, please go to: Lovely 24-year-old Girl Spanked by Mentor.
See the following photo-story about the use of ginger root.
As noted above, Sofia was spanked by her parents before she was married, and after she was married, she is now spanked by her husband. However, sometimes she is also spanked by her husband’s business-partner. Actually, a girl being spanked by a business-partner or her boss at work is fairly common for girls who are spanked. If a business-partner is visiting in the home, and the girl talks-back to him or is disrespectful toward him, she will be spanked right there in front of him, and often the business-partner is the one who will do the spanking. With many girls who have written to me, they may simply be ordered to get undressed to be spanked by anyone in the home. If their husband/boyfriend/fiancé tells them to get undressed and bend over to be spanked, they must obey, or she will be severely whipped by her husband. Girls must learn to obey, and are harshly spanked and whipped if they don’t. Most important is that if they are told to get their clothes off and bend over to have a designated-spanker spank them, they had better obey. I have had many such reports.
As for being spanked at work, one girl wrote and said that she wanted to work for a friend of her dad’s, but her dad said she could only if his friend would spank her at work if she was late, did not get her work done as ordered, or misbehaved in any way, or just to give her preemptive spankings; e.g., when she shows up for work each day she will have to go to her boss’s office and bend over his knee for a Preemptive Work Spanking. Of course, the boss agreed, and the girl was often spanked at work, and started getting spanked before she left work each day. 30 minutes before her work was over each day, she had to report to her boss, take her clothes off and go over his knee for a 10-minute hand spanking. Then, if there had been any problems with her during the day, he would keep her over his knee and use a hairbrush to spank her again for 15 minutes for each problem she had. Often, she was up to 20 to 30 minutes late leaving work. But also, when she got home, her dad would make her take her clothes off and bend over his knee for a hard 20-minute spanking, as her boss would call him and tell him that he had to spank her.
Sofia says that she is spanked 1 to 3 days a week with 1 to 8 spankings, so she apparently is spanked more than once a day when she is spanked. This is about the norm for girls who are spanked, but they are most likely spanked 3 or 4 days a week, with 5 to 12 spankings each week.
The only ones who see Sofia get spanked are her husband, of course, and his business-partner. However, she reports: “One time at a party I got a spanking in the bathroom of our hosts and the other party-guests could hear the spanks and my crying and begging. It was extremely humiliating for me.” Since it only occurred once, she clearly learned her lesson to behave herself when with guests!
[Although, maybe she has more stories to tell!? Write and tell us!]
Since only her husband and business-partner see her get spanked, they also are the only ones who see her get spanked on her bare bottom. Although she reports that before she got married, her parents and brothers would see her spanked on her bare bottom.
Her spankings are given in the bedroom and living room. Although she is seldom spanked away from home, at times she is, and she is spanked on her bare bottom. Sofia is spanked the way a girl should always be spanked—on her bare bottom. But also, she is always spanked naked, again, the way a girl should most often be spanked, with few exceptions. And, when she is spanked away from home, she is spanked again when she gets home with “a really painful beating because he is very angry in this case.” Again, Sofia is being cared for and spanked the way a girl should be—if a girl misbehaves away from home, when she gets home, she should be given a severe and painful beating, since there is no excuse for misbehaving away from home, and she is disrespecting her husband (fiancé/boyfriend) when she does. Disrespect must not be tolerated, and a girl must be given a “painful beating” whenever she is disrespectful, insolent, or acts in any way that disrespects her Master. Sofia is being disciplined properly.
Sofia’s spankings in front of her husband’s “business-partner”, as it turns out, is not just one partner, but 3 partners, all men. And, she does have to learn that when she is going to be spanked, she will cooperate and get her clothes off when ordered to do so. Although most often she cooperates when she has to be spanked, one time she did not cooperate:
“The first time my husband wanted to spank me in front of his business-partner I didn’t cooperate. The result was that I received a hard beating … and every one of his business-partners (3 men) were allowed to spank me.”
Regardless of where a girl is when she has to be spanked, if she is ordered to take her clothes off for her spanking, she must obey. And, when she doesn’t, she will be spanked harder and longer, or as Sofia says: “I received a hard beating!”
But this evidently has occurred several times, since when she does not cooperate in being spanked, she is spanked harder, or caned, and, if the business-partners are involved, they will each be able to spank her. And, her preparation for getting spanked is also done properly by her husband.
[NOTE: I am impressed by how well her husband controls her and administers very deliberate and well-controlled spankings and punishments–no flailing, nothing out-of-control, just very firm control of Sofia and administering hard and long spankings. There is no flailing, as there often is with boyfriends/ fiancé’s/ husbands who are just starting out and believe that punishment must be abusive and aggressive. No, with Sofia, she is told to do something, and she does it or she will be severely spanked and punished.]
When she must be spanked, her husband orders her to take her clothes off, and she is the one who takes them off. This is important so that she learns that he is in control and she will obey and do so in a submissive and obedient manner. If she fails to obey, she is spanked harder, or in the case of Sofia, she will be caned, or given ginger root punishment, or some other hard punishment.
And, her spanking positions are also very well-designed, in that she is taken OTK, or made to get on all-4s, or bending over a desk. Each of these positions presents her bare bottom fully exposed in a manner that can be easily spanked. See the following photo-story.
In addition to the implements shown in the above photo-story, Sofia is also spanked, of course, by hand, and with a paddle and belt. It is clear that she is very well cared-for, is closely supervised, and strictly controlled … the way a girl should be controlled and spanked.
And, again, I am impressed with the duration of Sofia’s Punishment Spankings—they are 20 to 30 minutes.
And, she is also given Just-Because Spankings that are for 10 minutes. Disciplinarians often ignore the importance of Just-Because Spankings. These are very important for maintaining total control of a girl and making sure that she is always submissive and obedient and behaves properly. When a girl is told to strip naked and bend over to be spanked, she must obey and never question why she is being spanked, since that is a sign of resistance to her spanking, and she must be given a Disobedience Spanking about an hour later!
When she receives Just-Because Spankings, she knows that she can never resist or question why she is being spanked, since it may be Just-Because. And such spankings help to assure that she will always be obedient and will always be thinking about what she is doing, and what can happen to her bottom at any time if she misbehaves or disobeys.
Sofia is spanked for many reasons, and they all are focused on making sure that she behaves properly, is focused on serving her husband properly, and taking care of her domestic chores as they should be done. She is spanked for the following reasons:
(1) Disobedience. This is most likely the reason for most of her spankings, as it is for most girls. Making sure that a girl is obedient is one of the more important controls that must be asserted over a girl. And, it is the reason that most husband/ submissive-wife relationships do not last … it is very time-consuming supervising, controlling and spanking a wife, since if the discipline is not consistent, then the wife will not believe that her husband is serious and will become more-and-more out-of-control. This is especially so when time must be taken away from business responsibilities to correct a disobedient wife. One girl who wrote to me stated exactly that: “If I am not spanked hard when I disobey or misbehave, then I will not think that my man loves me and cares about how I behave and what I do. He must spank me hard so that I believe he is serious about my behavior.”
(2) Bad sex. This is one of the most important things a girl has to learn—how to sexually-please her man. And, she must be spanked hard until she does learn. Again, this is one thing that all girls tell me when they want sexual training—they know that they will have to be spanked severely until they learn, and they want to be spanked severely until they do. Sofia is being trained and punished as she should be for both of their future success.
(3) Hair on her vagina and legs—Full-Body Inspections. This is one area that many disciplinarians overlook. That is, a girl should be frequently inspected with full-body nude inspections to make sure that she is clean, is properly shaved, is taking proper care of her body, and obediently assumes whatever position she is ordered into for her inspection. See the following photo-stories concerning the inspection of girls.
(4) Bad Cooking. Domestic chores, including cooking, are very important for a wife to attend to. If meals are not prepared in a timely and appetizing way, then the home-life will not go well, and the wife must be spanked. But she must also be spanked if the kitchen is not kept clean and neat, as well as the bathroom, bedroom, and other rooms in the home. With the girls I train, I will inspect their home, and they will be spanked for any problems with their chores. In fact, as I enter, they will strip naked, hand me a strap that I will carry with me ready to use on them, and then they follow me about the home as I inspect it. If there is a problem, they are made to bend over right there for a 15-minute to 20-minute spanking. At times, a girl may have to be spanked 2 to 4 times, thus taking up to 2 hours to complete the inspection and their spankings.
(5) Business-Partner Spankings. I have had reports from several girls who got spanked at work, or, as with Sofia, who got spanked in order to keep a job or for the benefit of their husband.
In particular, two girls, one from St. Charles, Illinois, and one from Knoxville, Tennessee, wrote to me extensively concerning what they wanted me to do with them in their training, and how they were being spanked by their husbands, but also by employees who they had to obey and serve. Unlike Sofia, who only gets spanked, these two girls had to serve others sexually when ordered to do so and had to “work” in the offices so that they would always be ready to be spanked or enjoyed any way others wanted to enjoy them. If a business-partner wanted to enjoy the girl sexually, he would order her to report to a special office designed just for the discipline and spanking of girls, and to enjoy them sexually. When they entered, they had to get undressed and bend over the desk that was placed there for them to bend over. Then the man would have sex with her and then whip her for a Proprietary Spanking to let the girl know that he controlled her and she would obey him and do whatever he told her to do.
So, the fact that Sofia is spanked by her husband’s business-partners is not actually too unusual, as I have had several reports of just such activities. This is especially so in the home, if one of the partners or employees is visiting the boss (her husband). If the wife disobeys, or is insolent in any way, she will be immediately made to strip naked and bend OTK to be spanked right there in front of whoever is visiting. Of course, the business associates know that she is spanked, and so nothing is thought of it, as they also spank her. One girl reported that her husband would order her to kneel and provide sucking-services to the guests who would visit him. She had to obey or be whipped hard in front of the guest. Or she would be ordered to go with the guest to a Guest Bedroom and service the guest any way that he ordered. She would often be heard crying as she got spanked hard by the guest.
In one report, guests would be invited over to the home for an evening in which the girl was going to be punished with multiple spankings, and be spanked by each of the guests. When the guests arrived, the girl had to greet them at the door naked, hand them a hairbrush and ask if they wanted to spank her right then. Of course, most would, and they would sit down on the chair in the foyer and the girl went over their knee to be spanked. These spankings were only for 5 minutes, but with 6 or so guests invited, she still got a long spanking.
Sofia gave some excellent details about her spankings as follows:
“The first time I was spanked by his business-partners I was 24 and did not cooperate when my husband told me to undress for a spanking. What led up to this was that when we were together, the partners were wondering about my behavior, that it was not good, and they told my husband that I was not behaving like the good girl that was expected. They told him about their problems with their wives and girlfriends. My husband decided to show them his ‘trick’. However, I didn’t cooperate and refused to take my clothes off so that I would be nude for my spanking, because it was too humiliating—everybody in the room could see my naked body and see me cry like a little girl. My husband became very angry, removed my clothes and spanked me with his hand until I was freely crying. Then he ordered me to bring my hairbrush, hand it to him and bend over his knee again as he spanked me until I was balling like a baby. After his spanking his partners spanked me also with their hands and belts.”
Apparently, as a result, her husband’s business-partners learned how to train a girl properly and make sure that she is obedient and behaves herself, but, more important, Sofia learned that she would be obedient and behave herself.
When training a girl to be submissively-obedient, it is important that she is spanked for the slightest infraction of any rule. And, she should be spanked repeatedly and made to assume a variety of positions for her spankings so that she is more involved in her training. As shown in the following movie, Cortney is spanked repeatedly as she learns to obey and be responsible. This is a 37-minute movie that shows how a girl must be completely controlled and spanked repeatedly to make her obey.
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Many girls contact me asking to be trained to be obedient and submissive and to learn to take care of her home properly and serve her man properly. And, most of the girls know exactly what is required to help them learn–(1) Be made to submit totally to what she is told to do, (2) Spank her for the slightest infraction of any rule, (3) Spank her hard when she has to be spanked, (4) Train her to present her bare bottom as ordered for her spankings, and to hold her bottom in position until her spanking is over, and (5) Be very strict with her, tell her exactly what she is expected to do and what is expected of her, spank her for any misbehavior regardless of how insignificant it may appear to be, and just take control of her life and tell her what to do every minute of the day–when to get up, when to go to bed, how to dress, when to shut her mouth, when to take a bath, when to go shopping, what make-up to wear, and so on, just control everything she does.
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Here’s another report from a girl in the UK. She’s 20-years-old and is spanked by her girlfriend/Domme.
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I have had several reports from girls who are spanked by their Mistress/Domme female next-door-neighbor, girlfriend, or other girl who controls them. Most often, these girls are spanked and punished much more severely than girls are who are controlled and dominated by a Master. It seems as though when a girl spanks another girl, she is not at all concerned about how loud the girl screams and cries, she just keeps on beating her.
Our UK girl was spanked most often when she was 19, so she must have been spanked every day with several spankings as seen here by how many spankings she is even now receiving each week—at least 25 or more times!
However, there is some confusion concerning how many days she is spanked each week, since she says that she is spanked “at least 1 day”, but she is spanked “at least 25 times each week”! So, “at least 1 day” should most likely be “several days” or “every day”. Anyway, as with most girl-on-girl spanking relations, she is spanked hard and often.
I received a message from a girl who is being controlled by her boyfriend, and she enjoys being controlled by him. He caught her drinking without permission and spanked her hard and made her do corner-time for an hour. As you’ll see below, she did not like it! My response is … so what?! You are not supposed to like it, so stop complaining! The following photo-story puts it into clearer perspective, and is a message to all girls who actually want to achieve their goals.
And, she is spanked the way a girl should be spanked as she is whipped, caned, flogged, paddled, and spanked hard by hand.
As with our last UK girl, she is spanked in private, and no one else sees her getting spanked. At home, she is spanked in her bedroom or the living room. When away from home, she is spanked in private or a secluded public area but is not spanked again when she gets home. Apparently, she is most often naked when she is spanked, although she may have on her panties.
And, this is the kind of girl who is a joy to punish since she does cooperate when she needs to be spanked. And when she gets ready to be spanked, her girlfriend takes her clothes off. And then she is spanked OTK or made to grab her ankles or get into the diaper position.
She is not given any specific number of strokes or spanked for a certain time, but is spanked until her bottom is red. And, most important, she recognizes that she is spanked “because I deserve to be spanked”! Some girls are spanked for a certain period of time, or given a certain number of strokes. Although, as here, some girls are spanked until certain indicators are obtained, like a red bottom, or most often, until she has cried for a certain length of time.
For our 24-year-old girl in the UK, her spanking-relationship sounds like a very loving relationship, and I wish them all the best!.
