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This post is about the spankings of a Scottish Girl, who I will refer to simply as “Scottish-Girl”.
Normally such information is reported in a short report on my promo site, but, since Scottish-Girl provides such an extensive amount of information, it is more appropriate to present it here.
Scottish-Girl is 22, but was last spanked when she was 19, and was spanked most often at that age. In addition to being spanked, she was also given Corner-Time Undressed, Lectured, and given Chores. She was not spanked too often, only 1 or 2 days a week, with 1 to 5 spankings (probably only 1 or 2).
She was spanked by a male family friend who was actually her aunt’s “boyfriend”. She provides a lot of detail concerning these spankings that will be given below. She was spanked on her bare bottom and in front of a male neighbor. She was always spanked on her bare bottom and most often she was essentially spanked naked from the waist down. Although at times she was spanked wearing only her bra or nighty.
Of course, since she was being spanked by her aunt’s boyfriend, she did resist when she was spanked. And, as with most other girls, when she resisted, she got spanked harder. And, as will be seen by her report given below, the “boyfriend” probably spanked her because he “enjoyed” spanking her and, therefore, enjoyed taking her clothes off, which he did for her spankings. After getting her clothes off, he would spank her by hand, or with a strap or hairbrush.
When she was spanked, she would be spanked for about 10 minutes with 20 to 30 strokes or up to a maximum of 40. The length of time for her spanking with such few strokes is probably due to her struggling against being spanked. For example, if I am spanking a girl by hand, I will administer 100 slaps/minute! In 10 minutes I would have spanked Scottish-Girl with 1,000 slaps! If I used a hairbrush on her, she would receive 600 strokes! And if I used a strap on her, she would receive 500 strokes! So, Scottish-Girl is lucky she did not have me administering her spankings!
One thing that is quite normal is that if she misbehaved away from home, she got spanked when she got home. About 60% of the girls who misbehave away from home are spanked when they get home. The other 40% are spanked immediately, normally by being taken to a car or some secure area to be spanked. Although a few are spanked on their bare bottom immediately right in front of whoever is present. The girls who are spanked in front of whoever is present are normally visiting a home where they know that she gets spanked, or at a family picnic outside where, again, it is known that girls get spanked. During and especially prior to the 1950’s, it was not uncommon for a girl to be spanked when family members got together for a family gathering on a farm. During one such gathering on a farm in Illinois during the 1940’s, a family reunion of 100 or so got together. Of course, the girls were all wearing skirts and blouses, and girls of any age up to about 20 were sent to bed in the afternoon for an hour for a nap. But during the festivities outside, starting in the morning about 10:00, 2 or 3 girls would be seen bending over their dad’s knee as he sat at the picnic table getting a hard bare-bottom spanking for something. When required, the girl would have to raise her skirt, pull her panties down to her knees and bend over her dad’s knee to be spanked in front of everyone else. Everyone just kept on doing what they were doing since there was nothing unusual about a girl getting spanked, even on her bare bottom. If the girl had to be spanked more severely, she would then be sent running and crying to a bedroom in the home to be spanked again. Her dad would follow, along with a few who wanted to see her spanking, and go to the bedroom where the girl had to strip naked and kneel on the bed for her spanking. The dad would then normally remove his belt and whip her hard.
However, in a Strict Religious Community, the girls are simply spanked on their bare bottom regardless of where they are and who is present. And most often in these communities, the girls will have to strip naked to be spanked. It is just no big thing! If a girl has to be spanked, she will strip naked and bend over as ordered to get spanked. And most anyone can administer the spanking, especially her boss from work, her teacher, her pastor, her babysitter (yes, girls in these communities may have babysitters regardless of age), her brother, or anyone else who normally spanks her. “Babysitters” are assigned to these girls at times when they need fairly constant supervision and control. Especially in the evening or on the weekend when her parents may not be at home, a babysitter will be provided to watch after her. And, these babysitters can and do administer spankings as required or just whenever they want to spank the girl. Just-Because and Maintenance Spankings are often administered by the babysitters. And the girl must present herself as ordered or her dad will severely whip her when he gets home. Spankings are just very routine and the girls know that they will be spanked when they are assigned a babysitter.
Scottish-Girl got spanked for many of the same reasons that other girls get spanked: Talking-Back, Swearing, Not Doing Chores, Not Doing What She is Told to Do, and Drinking, and she is given Just-Because Spankings and Maintenance Spankings.
OK, those are some of the details. But the more interesting thing about Scottish-Girl’s report is what lead up to her being spanked. Her report is an excellent insight into how girls start getting spanked who have not been previously spanked on a regular basis, if at all. Scottish-Girl states:
I grew up without really knowing my father. He left when I was young, never to be seen again. I was raised by my mother in Scotland and she was a fairly liberal parent if I’m honest. I’m an only child so I got away with quite a lot. I might have got the odd grounding if I was really misbehaving, but for the most part it was just a verbal telling off.
When I was 18 I failed my last year of exams needed for University, which meant redoing my last year. My Mum was disappointed in me, but she had her own troubles as that summer my mum also lost her job. To save money while she looked for a new job I went to stay with my Auntie on her farm about 2 hours away in a different part of Scotland. She lived there with her partner (she called him her boyfriend but he must be well into his 60’s). He wasn’t my uncle though, and, as they’d only been together about 3 years I’d only met him briefly once or twice.
Although I got on well with my Auntie, she made it clear to me that I wasn’t there for a free ride and I’d have to help out around the farm. That was fine in my eyes. I guessed it would take my mind off the embarrassment of going back to college with students a year younger than me in 3-months’ time.
I settled into a bit of a routine with various chores around the farm. It quickly became clear to me that I wasn’t going to get on with her boyfriend at all. He was short tempered and took issue with every job I did and every supposed bad habit I had. He kept muttering things about “if I were his daughter” and that “I’d obviously missed a firm hand growing up”. For the most part I ignored him and tried to keep out of his way.
About 3 weeks into my stay there I decided I would walk into the nearest town one Friday evening and see if I could find any folk my own age. My Auntie and her boyfriend had gone out, and as money was tight I thought I’d borrow £20 from their emergency “kitty”, which lived in a jar in the kitchen. I figured I could put it back once my Mum had sent some pocket money over and no-one would be any the wiser. Unfortunately for me, it turned out that Auntie’s boyfriend hadn’t gone out with my Auntie and he walked into the kitchen literally as I was raiding the kitty.
He flew off the handle and snatched the kitty from my hands and slammed it onto the kitchen table. I got a massive shouting lecture about how good they’d been to me taking me in and I was repaying them by stealing. He went on and on, and I tried to explain myself but he wasn’t listening.
Eventually he started telling me how he’d have to tell my Auntie and how upset and disappointed she’d be and then they’d tell my Mum and she’d be the same and that I would have to leave and go back to be a financial burden on my poor Mum. By this stage I was pleading with him not to and couldn’t we keep it between just us.
He matter-of-factly told me that the only way that would happen was if he could punish me as though I were his daughter and that meant a “smacked bottom” (as he called it). I was a little shocked as I felt as though I was far too old for this, and we were living in the 21st Century, but he quite calmly told me if the punishment remained a secret between him and I, then so would the crime.
The way I saw it he had backed me into a corner and I had no choice and so I accepted my fate.
It was an acceptance that would cost me many more hard spankings over the next 9 weeks, as he picked up on every excuse to punish my bottom when there was just him and I on the farm. He never once again threatened to expose me as a thief; I think it just became an unwritten understanding between us. Basically he held all the cards now, and if he thought I deserved to be spanked then there was precious little I could do about it.
Fast forward to the next summer (by which stage I had passed my exams and was just waiting to go to University) I was somewhat dismayed to find out my Mum had again arranged for me to stay with my Auntie and her boyfriend for the summer. This time a duration of nearly 4 months, and the discipline picked right back up where it had left off, including the most humiliating spanking I ever got, in front of the guy from the neighbouring farm, when I had accidentally left a gate open and some of his cows had got into the wrong field!
I can’t claim to have enjoyed what occurred over those two summers on the Scottish farm one little bit. But two things came from it. Firstly I found myself a lot more focused on my work in my reset year between the summers and I got much better exam results.
What Scottish-Girl admits here is what many girls have found out and is why many girls seek the control and discipline that they need to succeed. Spankings do work in terms of helping a girl to obtain their goals when they have not been able to do so otherwise. Spankings help a girl to focus her attention on what is expected; hence the need for: After-School Spankings, Morning Obedience Spankings, Before-Bedtime Spankings, Preemptive Spankings, Maintenance Spankings, Obedience Spankings, Submission Spankings, and other such spankings that help a girl to focus her attention on what is required for her to succeed. And, the spankings help her to obtain the grades or goals she desires. These are more of the punishment spankings; e.g., getting spanked for poor grades, not getting her homework done, and other such academic spankings. Also, to help her learn to always do her best, she is spanked for a variety of domestic reasons: Not Getting Her Chores Done Properly and On Time, Coming Home Past Curfew, Not Dressing Properly, and so on.
Scottish-Girl continues:
Secondly I do now have somewhat of a spanking fetish which I’m coming to terms with and which I am taking steps to explore.
A girl finding out that she may have a “spanking fetish” is one of the “benefits” of being spanked and learning that the girl’s goals have actually been achieved as a result of the spankings. However, there is more to consider. I responded to Scottish-Girl as follows:
Of course, you are not supposed to “enjoy” a spanking, which is why it works. And your results confirm how well a spanking works: (1) You are more focused, and (2) You got better grades.
I worked with a lot of college girls many years ago, and they all did much better as you did as a result of the spankings they received, especially in getting better grades, which was the point of them coming to me for me to mentor them and spank them.
As for your spanking fetish, that can go in a couple of different directions: (1) Just getting spanked when you feel the “need”; or (2) Living a Domestic Discipline Lifestyle. Do you know what it is you want?
Note about a DD Lifestyle: A DD Lifestyle is very difficult to maintain over a period of time unless you can find a true Dom who is also compassionate and understanding, and yet will give you the hard spankings required. If you are just “playing”, that is one thing and reflects choice #1. But, if you actually want the control, supervision, and spankings as a result of your daily activities, then that requires someone who understands what is needed, and such a person is very difficult to find.
ADDENDUM: Girls have reported to me about the spankings that they want and need and how satisfying a DD Lifestyle is for them. For example:
Girl #1:
I need to be supervised, controlled, and spanked so that I feel that I am cared for and loved; to help me be the best girl I can be; and so that I learn to be submissive and obedient to my husband, the way a girl should be. When I am made to strip naked and stand in the corner as my husband lectures me about my behavior and what he is going to do to my bottom, I know that he loves me and is concerned about me, and wants to help make me be a better girl and to be the good girl I should be. Then when I am draped over his knee getting spanked, I feel so safe and satisfied, knowing that I am going to be a better girl when he finishes spanking me and sends me back to the corner to think about my spanking and what I have to do to improve myself.
When he has to spank me, he normally will give me a prolonged and sustained spanking so that I learn to behave and obey. When I drape my naked body over his knee, I know that I will be there for 10 minutes or more, normally much longer as I kick and cry convulsively. In fact he now normally spanks me for at least 20 to 30 minutes so that I am crying and kicking my feet for a long time. He says that he has to spank me long enough so that I will “know” that I have been spanked and will be a better girl and wife. And to make sure that I am always thinking about being obedient and a good girl, he has to spank me almost every day. When he comes home from work I know that I will probably have to be over his knee getting spanked for not getting my chores done right, or having misbehaved and he has to give me a spanking to “catch up” on what I need. He doesn’t always spank me at the time I misbehave, but I have to write down what I did and then remind him the next time he wants to spank me so that he always has some reason to have me over his knee. I will normally have 5 or more misbehaviors listed so that when he comes home, or after dinner in the evening he will have a reason to take me over his knee and spend 20 to 30 minutes spanking my bare bottom. after dinner and after I have cleaned the dishes and kitchen, I get undressed and go to the den where he is reading and I very sensually and warmly kneel between his legs and crawl up into his arms and tell him how much I love him and that my bottom is ready to be spanked as I crawl across his knee. He then proceeds to slap my bottom hard as I kick and cry. And, I like this since I am then more focused on being the good girl and wife I should be every time I see my Misbehavior List that I have to keep on the table beside our bed. Then when he takes me to our bedroom to spank me, he can just sit down, check the list and then take me over his knee and spank me. I like that! It helps to keep me focused and knowing that he loves me and cares for me and how I behave.
Girl #2:
I felt lost and lonely for a long time until I found a man to take-me-in-hand to administer the punishment spankings that I need and had received from my dad and granddad previously. Of course, at the time I hated the spankings dad and granddad gave me, but then when I didn’t get them I missed them and realized just how much they helped me become the fine girl I am today. But I need someone to paddle and strap my bottom to make me behave and be the good girl I should be. In addition, I longed for a man to switch my bare bottom and legs before dragging me to the barn screaming and crying to administer a very long belt- or strap-whipping, just as my dad and granddad had done before. Although knowing that I am going to be severely whipped, I got excited when dad or granddad would grab me by my arm or hair and drag me screaming and crying to the barn to be whipped. We live on a farm and I needed a man to strip me naked and make me go outside and cut several bamboo stalks and prepare them to use on me. My dad planted a bamboo thicket many years ago so he would always have the rods he needed to whip me and my mom. He has frequently made mom strip naked and go outside naked and cut bamboo stalks and prepare them to use on her. She then has to go outside and bend over the large log from a tree that he cut down just to use as a Spanking Bench to have mom and me bend over. There is a blanket placed over the log to make it more comfortable for us to bend over. Then, as she presents her bare bottom for him to spank, he will spank her for a long time from her ankles to her bottom. And she cannot kick her legs or he will spank her even harder. After she is spanked, she is so much nicer, more obedient, and gets her work done much better. He spanks her several days each week. Now, my husband has planted just such a bamboo thicket and placed a large log in the yard to bend me over, just as Daddy used to do with me and mom. I have to get bamboo stalks that are fairly clean so that only a few twigs and leaves will have to be pulled off of them. The stalks are about ¼” thick and I have to get 4 or 5 of them and then tape them together to make a long “rod” that will be used on my legs and bottom.
Then I hand the rod to my husband as he makes me bend over as he wants and proceeds to spank me hard. As dad did, he frequently makes me go outside and bend over the log so my bottom is presented for him to whip. He has really been helping me a lot. I have medications that I have to take, but I don’t take them as I should. When I don’t, he first uses a strap on me as I have to bend over his knee. Then I am outside bending over the large log so he can really work on my legs and bottom. Then, he may drag me to the barn and bend me over a Spanking Horse that I had to make for him to bend me over. As I bend over, he starts whipping my legs with the bamboo rod or strap and then works up to my bottom. I’ll be out there for 45 minutes getting whipped.
Of course, I have trouble doing my domestic chores and have to be spanked. For this he normally makes me strip naked, if I am not already naked, and then send me to my room to kneel on the bed to be spanked with a yardstick and then be given an hour of punishment and spankings. He uses the yardstick since it is more “domestic” to emphasize that I had better get my work done right. He’ll spank me hard for as long as he wants before inspecting me, probing me, and generally just handling my body to show that he controls me and I had better obey him. These spankings do help me focus better on what I need to do and get my work done as required. However, after these domestic chore spankings, I will also get spanked before bedtime when I have to bend over the end of my bed so he can use a paddle on my bottom. I am learning to keep up better with my domestic chores, since when I don’t, I am crying most of the day.
One of the most severe punishments I get is when I talk-back to him. You’d think that I would learn not to talk-back to my husband, but I don’t. So, a couple of times a month I am being spanked with the bamboo rod, then taken OTK to be whipped with a strap, and then taken to the barn for up to an hour of spankings and whippings, and then severely spanked before bed.
My husband is very strict with me, but I have needed that strict control and am happy that I have it. I married my husband because he will spank me hard and make me obey. He does not always take me to my bedroom or the Punishment Room for a long spanking session. Sometimes he just wants to get right to my bottom and finish with me. He’ll make me strip naked, as always, and then take me to the Punishment Room and make me bend over so he can use my strap on me for 10 minutes or so and then go on with whatever he was going to do. And, properly spanked, and I am back doing what I should have been doing!
Then I continue with my message to Scottish-Girl:
If you go to my Blog, you will find a number of spanking videos in which I administer spankings to girls. As seen, the spankings are hard and the girls do cry. Being a mentor or a concerned “Daddy”, etc., does not mean that the spankings are just pats, they are not. The spankings are hard, as a spanking should be.
In fact, earlier this week I had an inquiry from a wife in Kentucky who wants to be spanked hard, but her husband is not that interested! She was asking what could be done so that she could get the spankings she wants in a Daddy/Little Girl Relationship. Unfortunately, if the “Daddy” is not all that interested, then she’ll just continue to get what they have had, which is that she is spanked at times, but most of the time he just ignores her, and she continues to become frustrated. Unfortunately, this can also result in them eventually separating. If you “need” to be spanked, then you should consider that when dating to the point where you might actually want to marry someone. A LDD Lifestyle (Loving Domestic Discipline Lifestyle) can be very satisfying for both partners, but you need to become accustomed to it with your partner long before you get married. Attempting to create such a lifestyle later most often never works.
On-the-other-hand, you must really be careful about finding someone who is abusive. Many years ago I had a girl write to me who lived in Dallas, Texas. She had let it be known to someone she thought was her friend, a boy, that she enjoyed spanking. Well, one evening he came over and beat the crap out of her and told her that he was “giving you what you want!” So, be careful!
So, one of the first things a girl must decide is, does she want a “spanking fetish”, or a “spanking lifestyle”?
