LDD (Loving Domestic Discipline) lists a variety of types of spankings, but I believe it does not go far enough in terms of distinguishing what they are and the reason for the various types. In fact, several of their “types” are classified as though they are the same thing with different names. Further, I have introduced a new classification of spanking defined as Proprietary Spankings that will be presented below.
Basic Concept of Domestic Discipline:
Domestic Discipline (DD) is designed to help establish a better-controlled home or domestic environment. DD spankings are administered to help control a girl so that she behaves better and is obedient to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. Domestic Discipline Rules (DDRs) are designed to better control a girl and make for a better well-run domestic environment. Domestic Rules are established to make it easier to control a girl. As a minimum, the girl can expect to be spanked on her bare bottom for any disobedience or misbehavior for which she should be responsible in a traditional home environment.
Extended Concept of Domestic Discipline:
DD, in addition to helping to establish a better-controlled home, is often used to control a girl in some desired manner; e.g., making her behave as desired, provide services as desired, etc.
DDRs and DD are frequently extended to better define the place of a girl in a home; e.g., is she required to submit in part or completely to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor in everything that she does; e.g., she must bathe whenever ordered, and only when ordered, etc.? Is she to behave submissively in public as well as at home; e.g., she is to pleasantly agree with whatever decisions her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor makes when in front of others, and will be immediately taken to the car and spanked hard if she doesn’t? Is she to provide sexual services as ordered, whether at home or elsewhere? Is she to provide sexual services to whomever she is ordered to serve, whether to house-guests or ordered to go out to serve? Is she to submit to a TPE (Total Power Exchange) in part or completely—which essentially defines her place in the home? It is important that the rules for the girl be very well-defined so that there is no confusion for either partner as to what is expected; in particular, so that she knows why it is that she is being spanked when she is spanked. And, if she is spanked beyond what is considered as a Basic Domestic Discipline, she may be whipped hard with a belt, strap, etc.
Any girl who I train for any period of time must submit to a TPE which includes hard spankings and whippings, since otherwise, she may as well just go find a vanilla teacher. Bare-bottom strappings as shown here are fairly routine in any DD relation where I am the girl’s mentor or master.
Regardless of the extent of DD, one further clarification needs to be made in view of several discussions recently seen concerning the classification of “spanking”, “BDSM”, etc. As depicted here, my concern is with Domestic Discipline, or Loving Domestic Discipline, devoid of any abuse. Hard whippings are not “abuse” when both parties agree that such are needed. Whatever interpretation is desired for “BDSM”, my concern is with domestic spanking-discipline for the purpose of correction and punishment, and not abuse and degradation. This is so whether the discipline is in a home, school, or business environment. It should be noted; however, that “abuse” and “degradation” may be viewed differently by different partners. I have had girls ask to be humiliated and degraded as part of their punishment. If that is what they need, then it is made a part of their punishment sessions.
Any bondage is for the purpose of positioning a girl properly to be spanked or to restrain her for a certain period of time, rather than the strict bondage frequently depicted by BDSM. Very simply, the photo shown here of Mila being taken naked OTK in the kitchen to be spanked characterizes the discipline and punishment of which I am concerned.
Another extension of DD that I include is that of Proprietary Spankings. Proprietary Spankings as I construe them, are similar to Submission Spankings found in LDD; however, Proprietary Spankings are more focused in terms of intent, as defined below. In LDD, the following is asserted about Submission Spankings:
“Submission Spankings are also known as “just because” spankings. The woman will receive a spanking for no particular reason than justbecause the HOH decides to spank her; or just because the HOH feels that she may benefit from receiving a good spanking. Submission Spankings, as the title depicts, will help a woman with her submission to her HOH. These spankings will leave her with no doubt that she is subject to her HOH’s authority. Submission Spankings are also sometimes referred to as reminder spankings. They are very beneficial in reinforcing the woman’s submission and reminding her of her obedience and respect to her HOH.” [Source: http://rncblog.blogspot.com/2007/05/different-types-of-spanking.html]
Such spankings as described by LDD are given at any time, but as shown here, are frequently given in the evening when the girl must wear her nightgown so that she is ready at any time to be taken over a knee, have her bottom bared and spanked. However, in Extended DD, a girl may be required to wear a gown any time she is at home, or, preferably, she will always be naked when at home.
I believe that all of these types of spankings referred to above are distinctly different; i.e., Submission Spankings, Just-Because Spankings, Reminder Spankings, and Preemptive Spankings (which are sometimes referred to as Reminder Spankings) are all administered for distinctly different reasons, and it is important that we understand the difference in order to maintain a well-run and controlled home.
Proprietary Spankings are yet another type of spanking that is given in an Extended DD environment for a specific reason—to let the girl know that she is the “property” of her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. This will be discussed in more detail below as being a Punishment Spanking. Here we are concerned more with discipline, as shown above with Kyndall getting spanked in the bathroom.
When a girl knows why she is being spanked, she will learn better, be more cooperative in receiving her spanking and the household will be more controlled—she will feel that she is a part of the household in terms of making it a better place to live. Here, Kyndall bends over her Mentor’s knee to be spanked so that she will be more obedient in doing her domestic chores. Further, and most important, this helps to distinguish legitimate spankings from unwarranted beatings.
First, it is emphasized that there must be consistency in administering spankings. The following guidelines are helpful:
When a girl has been told that she will be spanked, she must be spanked—no exceptions.
If a girl disobeys a rule or disobeys her disciplinarian she must be spanked—no exceptions.
It is very important that there is consistency in administering spankings so that a girl knows that she cannot get away with anything. If she is not spanked when she misbehaves or is disobedient then she will get confused and believe that her disciplinarian is not serious about her behavior and does not actually care for her. Spankings are a sign to a girl that her disciplinarian loves her and cares for her, and he is not going to allow her to be disobedient or misbehave.
Confusion in discipline and punishment will lead to a dysfunctional household and a girl who will become out-of-control.
Types of spankings:
Submission Spanking: Given to assure a girl’s total submission to the control of her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. These are distinguished from Just-Because Spankings and other spankings, by them being very hard and long spankings and are for the purpose of establishing her submission. A Just-Because Spanking is just that, a spanking administered just-because the girl’s HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor wants to spank her for no apparent reason other than, possibly, her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor just likes spanking her. Submission Spankings should be administered for 20 minutes to 1 hour with few, if any interruptions in the spanking so that there is no question but that the girl will hold her position until her disciplinarian is through with her bottom and she realizes that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor does in fact control her. Most often, a strap, paddle or belt should be used. Frequently, Submission Spankings should be given when not expected. As shown here, Mila is in the kitchen when she is made to undress and bend over to be spanked. A yardstick is used on her here as she is spanked hard, but frequently a paddle or strap is used.
However, Submission Spankings are also used when a girl has been cheating on her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor, … or Boyfriend. Shown below is Mila being whipped by her Daddy with a strap for cheating on her boyfriend. She received a very hard whipping to make sure that she understood that she was going to submit to her boyfriend and no one else, and she was going to submit to her Daddy for a hard whipping when she cheated. These whippings are most often administered so that they are very hard and for a long time, up to an hour or more. Following whipping Mila in the living room, she was taken to her bedroom and whipped some more with her kneeling the the Kneeling Punishment Position as shown in the 2nd photo below. I enjoy whipping a girl in that position as it presents her bottom very well, and she has to hold her bottom in position until I finish with her.
Just-Because Spanking: Given at-will to confirm a girl’s submissiveness and obedience, but requires no specific reason. These spankings are distinguished from Submission Spankings in that they are not so severe, and are intended mainly to just assure obedience rather than submission. These spankings are often given when the girl is simply stopped in the home, made to bare her bottom and bend over to be spanked. This is mainly for control to make sure the girl is continually obedient and submissive. Most often these will be for 3 to 10 minutes by hand. As can be seen here, even by hand, her spanking must be hard. It is believed that all spankings should be for at least 3 minutes, and most often much longer, since anything less will not impress the girl that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor is serious.
Preemptive (Reminder) Spanking: Administered to assure proper behavior at an event or to encourage a girl to behave properly about the home or when company is expected. This may be required; e.g., when she is expecting company and she previously has misbehaved when they were present. May be administered for any behavior requiring control; e.g., when a girl first starts to drive, she may have a tendency to speed, not park properly, etc. Under those conditions she may be spanked before going out with the car to help her focus her attention on what is expected of her. Or she may be spanked before any social event or anytime that she is just going out; e.g., to go shopping or with the girls. As shown here, a girl is not always naked when being spanked. Before going shopping, she may just be spanked to make sure she understands that she will not spend too much money. However, with few exceptions, her spankings should always be on her bare bottom. If I have a girl who routinely does not get up on time or get to work on her domestic chores as she should, I will give her daily spankings as soon as she gets up. These are different than Maintenance Spankings, since with a Preemptive Spanking there is a definite reason on which her attention needs to be focused.
Maintenance Spanking: Administered to assure continuing obedience; i.e., to assure that she will present her bottom to be spanked as ordered and to be submissively obedient to her disciplinarian. This is a routine “Obedience Spanking”. Administered 3 to 7 days a week, but is most effective when administered daily. Maintenance Spankings are frequently given with the girl naked and OTK being spanked by hand. Maintenance Spankings are often confused with Preemptive/Reminder Spankings. However, Preemptive/Reminder Spankings are administered for targeted activities like going shopping, whereas Maintenance Spankings are for general or global behavior reminders. They are administered so that the girl is continually alert to being obedient and behaving properly. There purpose is similar to the effect of making a girl hang her paddle and strap on the inside of her bedroom closet door. By so doing, every day that she gets dressed in the morning and opens her closet door, she will see her discipline/punishment implements and will be reminded of what will happen to her bottom if she is not obedient or misbehaves.
Disobedience Spanking: Administered when a girl moves during a spanking in a manner to avoid or obstruct her spanking, or reaches back to cover her bottom with her hand. She is then spanked again and made to hold her position until the spanking is done. If she continues to move to avoid her spanking or interfere with her spanking, she is then bound in position. These spankings are frequently given about an hour after her initial spanking, and must be harder and longer than her initial spanking. I prefer a position similar to that shown here for a Disobedience Spanking. In this position Mila has to strain to hold her position as she is whipped with a strap. It is clear if she rises up or moves to avoid her spanking. If necessary, a spread-bar can be used to keep her feet in place and various bondage implements can be used to keep her tied down. Most often it is not necessary since she will be whipped harder if bondage is required. A girl learns very quickly after the first time she is whipped much harder for not holding her position.
Before-Bedtime Spanking: These spankings are administered just before bedtime. This spanking is often administered when a girl demonstrates frequent disobedience or misbehavior during a week, although sometimes it is administered if the girl had to be spanked at any time during the day—get spanked during the day and she has to report for a Before-Bedtime Spanking. Given especially when she is sent to bed early for whatever reason. If a girl has to be sent to bed early, it is important that she also be spanked, preferably for 20 minutes by hand. Routine Before-Bedtime Spankings are administered to remind the girl to behave herself the next day and do better in her schoolwork or domestic chores or at work. Such routine spankings are frequently administered when a girl is being initially trained and disciplined to make sure she quickly learns to obey and behave herself. These spankings are frequently given in the bedroom with her disciplinarian sitting on the edge of her bed. When a girl first comes to me, I will give her a Before-Bedtime Spanking every night for at least 2 weeks so that she knows in no uncertain terms that I will spank her any time that I want to spank her.
Bedtime Spanking: Administered after girl is already in bed. These spankings are administered when a girl requires further punishment. After being in bed for at least 30 minutes (although frequently an hour or more), she is sent for, or her disciplinarian goes to her room, as shown here, makes her take her nightgown off and turn so she can be spanked. As shown here, she simply has to turn on her side so her bottom can be spanked, but other times she is made to kneel on her bed to be whipped. If she is sent for and has to report to her disciplinarian in another room, she reports to her disciplinarian naked, hands him/her the spanking-implement, and she is spanked hard. These are Punishment Spankings. These are frequently administered when several girls are present, like in a Finishing School. These should not be confused with Before-Bedtime Spankings that are administered, as the name suggests, before the girl goes to bed.
Bedtime Spankings are administered after the girl has gone to bed; she is gotten up and is spanked. I have been informed of certain institutions in the Philippines that use Bedtime Spankings very effectively to control unruly girls. The institution is a home for over 50 girls and each night, 1 or more of the girls, normally 3 or 4, are sent for to report to the Headmaster to be spanked. At night, their spankings can be heard by all of the other girls as they hear the paddle being applied to bare bottoms and the girls crying. As a result, the girls are most often very hyper-obedient during the day. Such Bedtime Spankings are not at all uncommon in certain countries.
Obedience Spanking: Any spanking that is for the purpose of obtaining a girl’s obedience, which is most any spanking except, possibly for Punishment Spankings that are designed just to punish the girl. And, as here, Obedience Spankings are given wherever the girl is, which here is in the back of a van. Whereas other spankings are administered for very specific reasons, Obedience Spankings are administered any time that the girl is disobedient and her disobedience is not covered by any other type of spanking. Frequently these spankings will be followed later by a Punishment Spanking; e.g., she is spanked when away from home and then spanked again when she gets home. These also cover such spankings as she may receive at school, and when she gets home she is given a Punishment Spanking. Or, she is disobedient or misbehaves when shopping, is taken to the car and spanked, and then spanked again when she gets home. Etc.
Punishment Spanking: Given to punish a girl for whatever reason. These spankings are really not for discipline or correction, but just to punish the girl for something she has done that is very serious. Although not often recommended, Punishment Spankings may be administered longer than 1-hour, & sometimes are given at a cabin or remote location over a long weekend (Friday evening through Sunday afternoon is what I prefer) with repeated spankings during the Punishment Weekend. The breaks can be anywhere from 10 minutes to over an hour.
One dad used the barn in which to take the girl to punish her during an hour punishment session. Appropriate straps are readily available in many barns as are places to tie the girl in position to whip her.
Normally I prefer to spank the girl immediately upon arriving at the cabin, normally beside the van, and then again after she has taken the luggage inside and gotten everything ready for the weekend. Then she has time to prepare and serve dinner and then clean up afterwards. When she is done, she is spanked again before sitting down for a quiet evening. Of course, before bed she is spanked again. The next morning she is spanked to start her day, and then every 2 to 4 hours she is spanked again, or she is spanked before and after any assigned activities like cleaning the cabin or doing outdoor chores. Of course, a nice hike in the woods always includes a spanking or two.
Punishment Spankings are most effective when the girl is told when her next spanking is going to be, what implement will be used on her (which she has to bring and hand to her disciplinarian), what position she is to be in and must assume immediately at the designated time. This helps to focus her attention on her punishment and causes desired anxiety. Also the weekend spankings help the girl to really focus her attention on what is expected of her.
For Punishment Spankings, I prefer a position similar to that shown here as it makes the girl have to strain to hold her position (she must keep her back arched to properly present her bottom), which increases the effectiveness of the spanking. I expect her to be in position with her bottom properly presented when I enter the room so all I have to do is get to work on her bottom.
Proprietary Spanking: These spankings are administered, normally after sexual use or inspections, or when the girl has cheated on her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor (or Boyfriend as noted above under Submission Spankings) and had sex without his permission, to impress on the girl that her body belongs to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor (Boyfriend) and she is not to allow anyone else to use her without his permission. Proprietary Spankings are, of course, used only if an Extended DD relationship has been established and the girl has signed a TPE in which she agrees that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor controls her completely.
The main difference between a Proprietary Spanking and Submission Spanking is one of intensity and focusing of attention. That is, for cheating, a girl may be given two Punishment Sessions–one Submission Spanking Session and one Proprietary Spanking Session. This helps to increase the anxiety of the girl, knowing that her punishment is not over after the first one-hour punishment session, and realizing that she will receive another one-hour punishment session that is even more severe. It is important that a Proprietary Punishment Session is very severe.
For these spankings, it is important that the girl is carefully controlled—she is made to assume her position to be spanked very precisely and she must hold her position until her disciplinarian finishes spanking her. As shown here, Mila is made to assume the Inverted-V Position, an excellent position for administering very hard spankings, and her spanking does not start until she is properly positioned.
Also, during these spankings, I frequently massage or probe the girl vaginally to let her know that I control her sexual activity and she will be obedient to me.
Of course, these spankings are also administered when a girl is required to “service” guests of the home and she fails to do so. Most often I will work over a girl’s bottom in her bedroom after she comes home and her “client” tells me that she refused to service him as desired. Here Kyndall gets her bottom beat hard with the Blistering-Spanking Hairbrush, resulting in her crying convulsively. For Proprietary Spankings, it is preferred that a girl be made to cry convulsively by spanking her exceptionally hard. Girls are very hyper-obedient after having their bottom “blistered”.
Proprietary Spankings are also administered if she is caught with another boy or found flirting without permission. These are frequently given to girls who are dating since they have to ask permission to have sex, and most girls will not ask. When she gets home after a date, most girls are spanked simply because they probably did have sex! Here, Mila is being spanked in the Kneeling-Punishment Position. If I am in charge of the rooming home, then every Friday and Saturday evenings, after the girls return from their dates, they will be heard crying loudly as I whip their bottoms hard, whether they had sex or not—it is just presumed that they did. If they actually did not have sex, then the spanking they are receiving is a Just-Because Proprietary Spanking! Whatever the case, every Friday and Saturday evening, if a girl has a date, she will be spanked when she gets home. If she is late, she’ll receive two spankings!
To be effective, Proprietary Spankings must be 15- to 30-minute spankings or longer to make sure the girl knows who controls and owns her; they must be administered with a paddle, strap or belt, or other implement designed to administer a hard spanking; e.g., a very hard hairbrush or bathbrush; and the girl should be made to assume 2 or more positions for her spankings to emphasize that her disciplinarian controls her. I believe that Proprietary Spankings are most effective when administered during a 1-hour or longer punishment session.
For such spankings, I recommend a hairbrush similar to that shown here—Master’s-Correction Hairbrush. This hairbrush is 10½” long, 5¼” long handle, 3¼” wide head, and ½” thick. It delivers a very hard and focused spanking to each cheek.
Sadie was in jail on some drug-related charges. Well, her Master/Daddy will not tolerate such behavior.
As she is brought home by Daija, Sadie is quickly stripped naked and given her first of many spankings. Her first spanking is with the ping-pong-paddle. But, it does not stop there:
A paddle is then used on her and she is made to kneel on the floor in the Punishment Position. Sadie will frequently be made to assume this position, especially next time when her Master will have the Stirrup Strap to whip her hard.
She is also made to bend over with her hands on the wall after she had reached back to cover her bottom when being spanked. As you will see in the movie below, Sadie was screaming and crying the entire time.
Even after gagging her, she was still screaming! The whipping hurt so bad she could not control herself. And after her spanking and whipping she could hardly walk, let alone sit down! When her Master got through with her, she understood that he was not going to put up with her behavior.
When her Master got through with her in the living room, he sent her to her bedroom to continue her punishment. She was made to bend over the end of the bed as she continued to be whipped with the Punishment Strap. The spankings and whippings were real, as are the tears. No “acting” here. She is crying for real!
A great presentation of Sadie’s bottom including the bruises caused by the whipping.
Of course, her Master cares a lot for Sadie and lets her know it as he comforts her … after beating the crap out of her! She knows that he cares for her and must spank, whip and beat her without mercy so that she learns that going to jail is not worth what she gets when she gets out. In fact next time she may wish to stay in jail rather than have to confront her Master.
Sadie crosses her arms behind her back in submission as her Master comforts her and lets her know that he will continue to punish her hard to make her obey and behave. Although he is very caring and takes very good care of her, he will not tolerate her misbehavior and will beat her hard when she misbehaves. See the movie below of Sadie’s beating. (It should be available the morning of January 25th.)
Sadie is spanked and whipped hard. The full version of this punishment session will be found on Spanking Library: .
Clarice has been away for awhile, but finally realizes that she needs to return to the Headmaster to receive the punishment she’s been missing.
Here she is in one of her “favorite” positions getting spanked with the yardstick! Since she really “enjoys” that position, I’m sure I can accommodate her again!
Clarice is a beautiful girl, but as with many such girls she just needs to be “reminded” to behave herself and obey.
Clarice will definitely be made to hand the Punishment Strap to her Headmaster for him to use on her bare bottom.
With her legs up and held tight, she is in a perfect position to receive the strap.
Clarice looks just great, even when it is cold. And, as you can see, she does not smile. Girls do not smile much when they come to the Finishing School. Unlike many other schools, girls at this school are here to learn and behave themselves, and they know that they will be spanked for the slightest infraction of any of the rules, or if they misbehave in any way, like joking around. When a girl is joking around, she is not in the proper frame-of-mind to learn. When the Headmaster speaks, the girls shut their mouths and listen … or they get spanked hard. If a girl is talking, she is not listening, and they are responsible for learning everything the Headmaster says. As with Clarice, girls at the Finishing School are serious about their learning, and when they aren’t, they end up as Clarice does as shown below!
Clarice looks even better bending over grabbing her ankles to receive her spanking after she was caught joking around with the other girls, who were also spanked hard!
As with all of the girls, she is given full-body inspections. Here she presents herself for her groin-area inspection to make sure that she is shaved properly. If she returns without having taken proper care of herself, her Headmaster will shave her smooth before spanking her for not taking proper care of herself. The girls know that they can be stopped at any time in the Rooming Home or the Finishing School and made to present themselves for nude inspections. If there is any problem, they will be spanked, as Clarice had to be as shown below.
More than likely, she will have to be bound so as to keep her bottom properly presented to be spanked. As will be seen in the movie below, Clarice often has difficulty maintaining her position when she is spanked.
And, as with all of the girls, she cries a lot. Of course, crying is expected when the girls are spanked and the Headmaster will continue to spank the girls until they are! And now, let’s see some of the spankings that Clarice previously received.
Here you will see a “Day of Punishment” that Clarice previously received. Just click on the above title frame.
Movies of her new punishment session will be seen soon on Spanking Library, and, of course, her previous spankings can be seen at Spanked Coeds … just click the banner below.
Enjoy the spanking of Clarice and watch for more to come!
As with all girls who come to the finishing school, Tabby is expected to be obedient and behave herself, and when she isn’t, she is spanked.
Of course, during her interview, she did have to be spanked, first, just to let her know that I would spank her, and then for coming to an interview not dressed properly, among other reasons.
Tabby is a very attractive girl who will be needing a lot of spankings to make sure she gets her work done properly.
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Daija and I had a great New Year’s Eve dinner. And then she just got really stupid!
Of course, she is looking for companionship, but is not going to the right places to find a responsible and trustworthy guy. Last night she let someone into the home who she did not really know. He ended up having to be thrown out and as he left he stole her purse. Fortunately all there was in it was money. This was at 2:00 a.m., and I was asleep in my part of the home and knew nothing about it.
This morning she told me what happened. I immediately gave her 2 spankings, about 15 minutes apart, with the Jokari paddle, each spanking was 3-minutes long. We then called the police and filed a report, but it is doubtful that they will be able to find the guy. We’ll go look for him this weekend.
In the meantime, Daija will be given a 30-minute “Stupidity-Punishment Spanking” for being so stupid as to let someone in the home she did not really know. Further, she will now not be allowed to have anyone in who I do not know is here and have approved. I am going to be much more strict with her. She has been allowed to pretty much do what she wants, but that is now changing. She can now expect much closer supervision and control, and more frequent spankings.
Other than that, I wish everyone a Happy New Year!
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We had a lovely New Year’s Eve dinner. I spent 4 days getting all of the dishes prepared. Besides the turkey, we had an excellent stuffing with a special turkey gravy, spicy beets, a meat and cheese platter, 2 fruit dishes, a special devil eggs recipe, and, of course, egg nog with rum and a blueberry liqueur.
And, then, …, Daija got spanked! Click the above photo to see her spanking.
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A girl wrote and asked if I give Birthday Spankings. Of course, I said “Yes”, but with a very strong qualification: To me, a Birthday Spanking is a “Punishment Spanking” for all of the misbehaviors and disobediences the girl had done during the previous year, and a “Preemptive Obedience Spanking” for the next year.
As I’ve mentioned before, I do not “play”. If a girl needs to be spanked, then she will be spanked hard so that she knows she has been spanked.
A Birthday Spanking is administered in 4 parts.
First, as shown here with Mila, the girl must strip naked and present herself to me to be lectured about her misbehaviors and disobediences, and told what will be expected of her during the next year.
Then, before spanking her, she must be thoroughly inspected for cleanliness, to make sure she has been taking care of herself properly and that she has not been playing around before her party, and to let her know that her Daddy controls her and everything she does. So, she is first taken to the Evaluation Room where she is made to lie back on the Inspection Table for her Daddy’s thorough inspection and evaluation.
Of course, if he finds anything that he does not like, as he does with Mila, the girl will have to be spanked even before her Birthday Punishment-Spanking! After she has been thoroughly inspected and evaluated, she is taken back to the guests for her Birthday Punishment-Spanking. (Although, in most cases, the guests will also witness her inspection and evaluation, and initial spanking.)
Then, she will be made to bend over my knee in the Inverted-V Position to be given a Hairbrush-Spanking with the number of strokes to each cheek corresponding to her age — in the case of Mila, she receives 19 strokes to each cheek. As can be seen, this is no “patty-cake” spanking, but a hard spanking, and she will be crying freely before I’m done. (Of course, if she is not crying freely, I will continue to spank her until she is! However, nothing to be concerned about since, as with Mila, the girl will be crying freely before I’m done with her bottom!) This spanking is for all of her misbehaviors and disobediences during the previous year.
Then, after her Punishment Spanking, she will be given a Preemptive Obedience Spanking to make sure she focuses her attention on what is expected of her during the next year. This spanking is administered with a paddle full across her bare bottom, and she is given the number of strokes that correspond to her age. And, she will be raised off the floor by keeping her hands on the floor with her arms straight and her head up, and may keep her feet off the floor also. (Proper presentation of a girl being spanked is important! Of course, if she does not keep her required position, then she must be given a Disobedience Spanking an hour later. Even during her own birthday party, if the girl needs to be spanked, she must be spanked.) This spanking is very hard and she may be crying hysterically before her spanking is done. At least the intensity of her crying will increase significantly. Here is where the disciplinarian has to be strong! Many will feel sorry for the girl and will lessen the intensity of the spanking, or quit altogether. But that should not be done. The girl must continue to be spanked hard, and the disciplinarian must not feel sorry for her, but must realize that she is receiving what she needs to be the good girl that is desired. She is not being given any favors if she is not spanked until she cries freely and, preferably, hysterically.
When her Birthday Spanking is done, she will remain naked as all guests continue to enjoy watching and listening to the girl cry and rub her bottom, or as she frequently does, continues to roll around on the floor screaming and crying as she rubs and holds her bottom, … as the guests enjoy cake and ice cream, giving of presents after the girl has stopped crying, and just enjoying the party.
Of course, being naked, she will also be enjoyed by her Daddy! 🙂
But, as with Mila, most girls will need a Disobedience Spanking for having not kept her bottom well-presented for her spanking. After enjoying her for awhile, Mila’s Daddy had to take Mila over his knee and spank her hard for not having kept her bottom in place earlier for her Birthday Spanking. As her guests watch, Mila is again crying freely, as her Daddy holds her legs down with his and as he enjoys slapping her bare bottom. 🙂
Domestic Discipline (DD) is designed to help establish a better-controlled home or domestic environment. DD spankings are administered to help control a girl so that she behaves better and is obedient to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. Domestic Discipline Rules (DDRs) are designed to better control a girl and make for a better well-run domestic environment. Domestic Rules are established to make it easier to control a girl. As a minimum, the girl can expect to be spanked on her bare bottom for any disobedience or misbehavior for which she should be responsible in a traditional home environment.
DD, in addition to helping to establish a better-controlled home, is often used to control a girl in some desired manner; e.g., making her behave as desired, provide services as desired, etc.
Any girl who I train for any period of time must submit to a TPE which includes hard spankings and whippings, since otherwise, she may as well just go find a vanilla teacher. Bare-bottom strappings as shown here are fairly routine in any DD relation where I am the girl’s mentor or master.
Regardless of the extent of DD, one further clarification needs to be made in view of several discussions recently seen concerning the classification of “spanking”, “BDSM”, etc. As depicted here, my concern is with Domestic Discipline, or Loving Domestic Discipline, devoid of any abuse. Hard whippings are not “abuse” when both parties agree that such are needed. Whatever interpretation is desired for “BDSM”, my concern is with domestic spanking-discipline for the purpose of correction and punishment, and not abuse and degradation. This is so whether the discipline is in a home, school, or business environment. It should be noted; however, that “abuse” and “degradation” may be viewed differently by different partners. I have had girls ask to be humiliated and degraded as part of their punishment. If that is what they need, then it is made a part of their punishment sessions.
I believe that all of these types of spankings referred to above are distinctly different; i.e., Submission Spankings, Just-Because Spankings, Reminder Spankings, and Preemptive Spankings (which are sometimes referred to as Reminder Spankings) are all administered for distinctly different reasons, and it is important that we understand the difference in order to maintain a well-run and controlled home.
When a girl knows why she is being spanked, she will learn better, be more cooperative in receiving her spanking and the household will be more controlled—she will feel that she is a part of the household in terms of making it a better place to live. Here, Kyndall bends over her Mentor’s knee to be spanked so that she will be more obedient in doing her domestic chores. Further, and most important, this helps to distinguish legitimate spankings from unwarranted beatings.
Submission Spanking: Given to assure a girl’s total submission to the control of her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor. These are distinguished from Just-Because Spankings and other spankings, by them being very hard and long spankings and are for the purpose of establishing her submission. A Just-Because Spanking is just that, a spanking administered just-because the girl’s HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor wants to spank her for no apparent reason other than, possibly, her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor just likes spanking her. Submission Spankings should be administered for 20 minutes to 1 hour with few, if any interruptions in the spanking so that there is no question but that the girl will hold her position until her disciplinarian is through with her bottom and she realizes that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor does in fact control her. Most often, a strap, paddle or belt should be used. Frequently, Submission Spankings should be given when not expected. As shown here, Mila is in the kitchen when she is made to undress and bend over to be spanked. A yardstick is used on her here as she is spanked hard, but frequently a paddle or strap is used.
Just-Because Spanking: Given at-will to confirm a girl’s submissiveness and obedience, but requires no specific reason. These spankings are distinguished from Submission Spankings in that they are not so severe, and are intended mainly to just assure obedience rather than submission. These spankings are often given when the girl is simply stopped in the home, made to bare her bottom and bend over to be spanked. This is mainly for control to make sure the girl is continually obedient and submissive. Most often these will be for 3 to 10 minutes by hand. As can be seen here, even by hand, her spanking must be hard. It is believed that all spankings should be for at least 3 minutes, and most often much longer, since anything less will not impress the girl that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor is serious.
Preemptive (Reminder) Spanking: Administered to assure proper behavior at an event or to encourage a girl to behave properly about the home or when company is expected. This may be required; e.g., when she is expecting company and she previously has misbehaved when they were present. May be administered for any behavior requiring control; e.g., when a girl first starts to drive, she may have a tendency to speed, not park properly, etc. Under those conditions she may be spanked before going out with the car to help her focus her attention on what is expected of her. Or she may be spanked before any social event or anytime that she is just going out; e.g., to go shopping or with the girls. As shown here, a girl is not always naked when being spanked. Before going shopping, she may just be spanked to make sure she understands that she will not spend too much money. However, with few exceptions, her spankings should always be on her bare bottom. If I have a girl who routinely does not get up on time or get to work on her domestic chores as she should, I will give her daily spankings as soon as she gets up. These are different than Maintenance Spankings, since with a Preemptive Spanking there is a definite reason on which her attention needs to be focused.
Maintenance Spanking: Administered to assure continuing obedience; i.e., to assure that she will present her bottom to be spanked as ordered and to be submissively obedient to her disciplinarian. This is a routine “Obedience Spanking”. Administered 3 to 7 days a week, but is most effective when administered daily. Maintenance Spankings are frequently given with the girl naked and OTK being spanked by hand. Maintenance Spankings are often confused with Preemptive/Reminder Spankings. However, Preemptive/Reminder Spankings are administered for targeted activities like going shopping, whereas Maintenance Spankings are for general or global behavior reminders. They are administered so that the girl is continually alert to being obedient and behaving properly. There purpose is similar to the effect of making a girl hang her paddle and strap on the inside of her bedroom closet door. By so doing, every day that she gets dressed in the morning and opens her closet door, she will see her discipline/punishment implements and will be reminded of what will happen to her bottom if she is not obedient or misbehaves.
Disobedience Spanking: Administered when a girl moves during a spanking in a manner to avoid or obstruct her spanking, or reaches back to cover her bottom with her hand. She is then spanked again and made to hold her position until the spanking is done. If she continues to move to avoid her spanking or interfere with her spanking, she is then bound in position. These spankings are frequently given about an hour after her initial spanking, and must be harder and longer than her initial spanking. I prefer a position similar to that shown here for a Disobedience Spanking. In this position Mila has to strain to hold her position as she is whipped with a strap. It is clear if she rises up or moves to avoid her spanking. If necessary, a spread-bar can be used to keep her feet in place and various bondage implements can be used to keep her tied down. Most often it is not necessary since she will be whipped harder if bondage is required. A girl learns very quickly after the first time she is whipped much harder for not holding her position.
Before-Bedtime Spanking: These spankings are administered just before bedtime. This spanking is often administered when a girl demonstrates frequent disobedience or misbehavior during a week, although sometimes it is administered if the girl had to be spanked at any time during the day—get spanked during the day and she has to report for a Before-Bedtime Spanking. Given especially when she is sent to bed early for whatever reason. If a girl has to be sent to bed early, it is important that she also be spanked, preferably for 20 minutes by hand. Routine Before-Bedtime Spankings are administered to remind the girl to behave herself the next day and do better in her schoolwork or domestic chores or at work. Such routine spankings are frequently administered when a girl is being initially trained and disciplined to make sure she quickly learns to obey and behave herself. These spankings are frequently given in the bedroom with her disciplinarian sitting on the edge of her bed. When a girl first comes to me, I will give her a Before-Bedtime Spanking every night for at least 2 weeks so that she knows in no uncertain terms that I will spank her any time that I want to spank her.
Bedtime Spanking: Administered after girl is already in bed. These spankings are administered when a girl requires further punishment. After being in bed for at least 30 minutes (although frequently an hour or more), she is sent for, or her disciplinarian goes to her room, as shown here, makes her take her nightgown off and turn so she can be spanked. As shown here, she simply has to turn on her side so her bottom can be spanked, but other times she is made to kneel on her bed to be whipped. If she is sent for and has to report to her disciplinarian in another room, she reports to her disciplinarian naked, hands him/her the spanking-implement, and she is spanked hard. These are Punishment Spankings. These are frequently administered when several girls are present, like in a Finishing School. These should not be confused with Before-Bedtime Spankings that are administered, as the name suggests, before the girl goes to bed.
Obedience Spanking: Any spanking that is for the purpose of obtaining a girl’s obedience, which is most any spanking except, possibly for Punishment Spankings that are designed just to punish the girl. And, as here, Obedience Spankings are given wherever the girl is, which here is in the back of a van. Whereas other spankings are administered for very specific reasons, Obedience Spankings are administered any time that the girl is disobedient and her disobedience is not covered by any other type of spanking. Frequently these spankings will be followed later by a Punishment Spanking; e.g., she is spanked when away from home and then spanked again when she gets home. These also cover such spankings as she may receive at school, and when she gets home she is given a Punishment Spanking. Or, she is disobedient or misbehaves when shopping, is taken to the car and spanked, and then spanked again when she gets home. Etc.
Punishment Spanking: Given to punish a girl for whatever reason. These spankings are really not for discipline or correction, but just to punish the girl for something she has done that is very serious. Although not often recommended, Punishment Spankings may be administered longer than 1-hour, & sometimes are given at a cabin or remote location over a long weekend (Friday evening through Sunday afternoon is what I prefer) with repeated spankings during the Punishment Weekend. The breaks can be anywhere from 10 minutes to over an hour.
Normally I prefer to spank the girl immediately upon arriving at the cabin, normally beside the van, and then again after she has taken the luggage inside and gotten everything ready for the weekend. Then she has time to prepare and serve dinner and then clean up afterwards. When she is done, she is spanked again before sitting down for a quiet evening. Of course, before bed she is spanked again. The next morning she is spanked to start her day, and then every 2 to 4 hours she is spanked again, or she is spanked before and after any assigned activities like cleaning the cabin or doing outdoor chores. Of course, a nice hike in the woods always includes a spanking or two.
For Punishment Spankings, I prefer a position similar to that shown here as it makes the girl have to strain to hold her position (she must keep her back arched to properly present her bottom), which increases the effectiveness of the spanking. I expect her to be in position with her bottom properly presented when I enter the room so all I have to do is get to work on her bottom.
Proprietary Spanking: These spankings are administered, normally after sexual use or inspections, or when the girl has cheated on her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor (or Boyfriend as noted above under Submission Spankings) and had sex without his permission, to impress on the girl that her body belongs to her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor (Boyfriend) and she is not to allow anyone else to use her without his permission. Proprietary Spankings are, of course, used only if an Extended DD relationship has been established and the girl has signed a TPE in which she agrees that her HOH/Daddy/Master/Mentor controls her completely.
Also, during these spankings, I frequently massage or probe the girl vaginally to let her know that I control her sexual activity and she will be obedient to me.
Of course, these spankings are also administered when a girl is required to “service” guests of the home and she fails to do so. Most often I will work over a girl’s bottom in her bedroom after she comes home and her “client” tells me that she refused to service him as desired. Here Kyndall gets her bottom beat hard with the Blistering-Spanking Hairbrush, resulting in her crying convulsively. For Proprietary Spankings, it is preferred that a girl be made to cry convulsively by spanking her exceptionally hard. Girls are very hyper-obedient after having their bottom “blistered”.
Proprietary Spankings are also administered if she is caught with another boy or found flirting without permission. These are frequently given to girls who are dating since they have to ask permission to have sex, and most girls will not ask. When she gets home after a date, most girls are spanked simply because they probably did have sex! Here, Mila is being spanked in the Kneeling-Punishment Position. If I am in charge of the rooming home, then every Friday and Saturday evenings, after the girls return from their dates, they will be heard crying loudly as I whip their bottoms hard, whether they had sex or not—it is just presumed that they did. If they actually did not have sex, then the spanking they are receiving is a Just-Because Proprietary Spanking! Whatever the case, every Friday and Saturday evening, if a girl has a date, she will be spanked when she gets home. If she is late, she’ll receive two spankings!
To be effective, Proprietary Spankings must be 15- to 30-minute spankings or longer to make sure the girl knows who controls and owns her; they must be administered with a paddle, strap or belt, or other implement designed to administer a hard spanking; e.g., a very hard hairbrush or bathbrush; and the girl should be made to assume 2 or more positions for her spankings to emphasize that her disciplinarian controls her. I believe that Proprietary Spankings are most effective when administered during a 1-hour or longer punishment session.
