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Again, I will call our Slovakian girl “Sofia”, which is not her real name, as she did not give me her real name.  But, it will make it easier to write about her experiences if I have a name to refer to! 

Sofia’s report is of interest, since it complements and extends my previous post, Spanked for Slightest Infraction of a Rule.  Sofia’s husband, who spanks her, appears to be very professional in the manner in which he disciplines Sofia, and controls her very well.  She is always naked when she has to be spanked, she has to take her own clothes off, she has to bring him the implement he uses on her, she has to bend over his knee, kneel on all-4’s, or bend over a desk to be spanked, and she is spanked for 20 to 30 minutes, the length of time a spanking should be administered.

I am very impressed as to how well her husband disciplines Sofia.

From my previous post, we learned:  Many girls contact me asking to be trained to be obedient and submissive and to learn to take care of her home properly and serve her man properly.  And, most of the girls know exactly what is required to help them learn–(1) Be made to submit totally to what she is told to do, (2) Spank her for the slightest infraction of any rule, (3) Spank her hard when she has to be spanked, (4) Train her to present her bare bottom as ordered for her spankings, and to hold her bottom in position until her spanking is over, and (5) Be very strict with her, tell her exactly what she is expected to do and what is expected of her, spank her for any misbehavior regardless of how insignificant it may appear to be, and just take control of her life and tell her what to do every minute of the day–when to get up, when to go to bed, how to dress, when to shut her mouth, when to take a bath, when to go shopping, what make-up to wear, and so on, just control everything she does.  It appears as though Sofia is supervised, controlled and spanked in much this same way.

Sofia is still being spanked but was spanked the most when she was 17-years-old by her parents, and then again when she was 24 by her husband.

In addition to being spanked, Sofia is also figged; i.e., ginger root is inserted in her anus.  Ginger root results in a burning sensation and is used most often in the anus but may also be inserted in a girl’s vagina.  Although it is most often used for punishment, some girls are excited when anticipating its use. Of course, it can be inserted anywhere—in the girl’s anus, vagina, or in her mouth.  For another post about ginger root and other “heat” punishments, please go to:  Lovely 24-year-old Girl Spanked by Mentor.

See the following photo-story about the use of ginger root.

As noted above, Sofia was spanked by her parents before she was married, and after she was married, she is now spanked by her husband.  However, sometimes she is also spanked by her husband’s business-partner.  Actually, a girl being spanked by a business-partner or her boss at work is fairly common for girls who are spanked.  If a business-partner is visiting in the home, and the girl talks-back to him or is disrespectful toward him, she will be spanked right there in front of him, and often the business-partner is the one who will do the spanking.  With many girls who have written to me, they may simply be ordered to get undressed to be spanked by anyone in the home.  If their husband/boyfriend/fiancé tells them to get undressed and bend over to be spanked, they must obey, or she will be severely whipped by her husband.  Girls must learn to obey, and are harshly spanked and whipped if they don’t.  Most important is that if they are told to get their clothes off and bend over to have a designated-spanker spank them, they had better obey.  I have had many such reports.

As for being spanked at work, one girl wrote and said that she wanted to work for a friend of her dad’s, but her dad said she could only if his friend would spank her at work if she was late, did not get her work done as ordered, or misbehaved in any way, or just to give her preemptive spankings; e.g., when she shows up for work each day she will have to go to her boss’s office and bend over his knee for a Preemptive Work Spanking.  Of course, the boss agreed, and the girl was often spanked at work, and started getting spanked before she left work each day.  30 minutes before her work was over each day, she had to report to her boss, take her clothes off and go over his knee for a 10-minute hand spanking.  Then, if there had been any problems with her during the day, he would keep her over his knee and use a hairbrush to spank her again for 15 minutes for each problem she had.  Often, she was up to 20 to 30 minutes late leaving work.  But also, when she got home, her dad would make her take her clothes off and bend over his knee for a hard 20-minute spanking, as her boss would call him and tell him that he had to spank her.

Sofia says that she is spanked 1 to 3 days a week with 1 to 8 spankings, so she apparently is spanked more than once a day when she is spanked. This is about the norm for girls who are spanked, but they are most likely spanked 3 or 4 days a week, with 5 to 12 spankings each week.

The only ones who see Sofia get spanked are her husband, of course, and his business-partner.  However, she reports: “One time at a party I got a spanking in the bathroom of our hosts and the other party-guests could hear the spanks and my crying and begging.  It was extremely humiliating for me.”  Since it only occurred once, she clearly learned her lesson to behave herself when with guests!

[Although, maybe she has more stories to tell!?  Write and tell us!]

Since only her husband and business-partner see her get spanked, they also are the only ones who see her get spanked on her bare bottom.  Although she reports that before she got married, her parents and brothers would see her spanked on her bare bottom.

Her spankings are given in the bedroom and living room. Although she is seldom spanked away from home, at times she is, and she is spanked on her bare bottom.  Sofia is spanked the way a girl should always be spanked—on her bare bottom. But also, she is always spanked naked, again, the way a girl should most often be spanked, with few exceptions. And, when she is spanked away from home, she is spanked again when she gets home with “a really painful beating because he is very angry in this case.” Again, Sofia is being cared for and spanked the way a girl should be—if a girl misbehaves away from home, when she gets home, she should be given a severe and painful beating, since there is no excuse for misbehaving away from home, and she is disrespecting her husband (fiancé/boyfriend) when she does. Disrespect must not be tolerated, and a girl must be given a “painful beating” whenever she is disrespectful, insolent, or acts in any way that disrespects her Master. Sofia is being disciplined properly.

Sofia’s spankings in front of her husband’s “business-partner”, as it turns out, is not just one partner, but 3 partners, all men. And, she does have to learn that when she is going to be spanked, she will cooperate and get her clothes off when ordered to do so. Although most often she cooperates when she has to be spanked, one time she did not cooperate:

“The first time my husband wanted to spank me in front of his business-partner I didn’t cooperate. The result was that I received a hard beating … and every one of his business-partners (3 men) were allowed to spank me.”

Regardless of where a girl is when she has to be spanked, if she is ordered to take her clothes off for her spanking, she must obey. And, when she doesn’t, she will be spanked harder and longer, or as Sofia says: “I received a hard beating!”

But this evidently has occurred several times, since when she does not cooperate in being spanked, she is spanked harder, or caned, and, if the business-partners are involved, they will each be able to spank her.  And, her preparation for getting spanked is also done properly by her husband.

[NOTE: I am impressed by how well her husband controls her and administers very deliberate and well-controlled spankings and punishments–no flailing, nothing out-of-control, just very firm control of Sofia and administering hard and long spankings.  There is no flailing, as there often is with boyfriends/ fiancé’s/ husbands who are just starting out and believe that punishment must be abusive and aggressive. No, with Sofia, she is told to do something, and she does it or she will be severely spanked and punished.]

When she must be spanked, her husband orders her to take her clothes off, and she is the one who takes them off. This is important so that she learns that he is in control and she will obey and do so in a submissive and obedient manner. If she fails to obey, she is spanked harder, or in the case of Sofia, she will be caned, or given ginger root punishment, or some other hard punishment.

And, her spanking positions are also very well-designed, in that she is taken OTK, or made to get on all-4s, or bending over a desk.  Each of these positions presents her bare bottom fully exposed in a manner that can be easily spanked. See the following photo-story.

In addition to the implements shown in the above photo-story, Sofia is also spanked, of course, by hand, and with a paddle and belt. It is clear that she is very well cared-for, is closely supervised, and strictly controlled … the way a girl should be controlled and spanked.

And, again, I am impressed with the duration of Sofia’s Punishment Spankings—they are 20 to 30 minutes.

And, she is also given Just-Because Spankings that are for 10 minutes. Disciplinarians often ignore the importance of Just-Because Spankings. These are very important for maintaining total control of a girl and making sure that she is always submissive and obedient and behaves properly. When a girl is told to strip naked and bend over to be spanked, she must obey and never question why she is being spanked, since that is a sign of resistance to her spanking, and she must be given a Disobedience Spanking about an hour later!

When she receives Just-Because Spankings, she knows that she can never resist or question why she is being spanked, since it may be Just-Because. And such spankings help to assure that she will always be obedient and will always be thinking about what she is doing, and what can happen to her bottom at any time if she misbehaves or disobeys.

Sofia is spanked for many reasons, and they all are focused on making sure that she behaves properly, is focused on serving her husband properly, and taking care of her domestic chores as they should be done. She is spanked for the following reasons:

(1) Disobedience. This is most likely the reason for most of her spankings, as it is for most girls.  Making sure that a girl is obedient is one of the more important controls that must be asserted over a girl.  And, it is the reason that most husband/ submissive-wife relationships do not last … it is very time-consuming supervising, controlling and spanking a wife, since if the discipline is not consistent, then the wife will not believe that her husband is serious and will become more-and-more out-of-control. This is especially so when time must be taken away from business responsibilities to correct a disobedient wife. One girl who wrote to me stated exactly that: “If I am not spanked hard when I disobey or misbehave, then I will not think that my man loves me and cares about how I behave and what I do. He must spank me hard so that I believe he is serious about my behavior.”

(2) Bad sex. This is one of the most important things a girl has to learn—how to sexually-please her man.  And, she must be spanked hard until she does learn.  Again, this is one thing that all girls tell me when they want sexual training—they know that they will have to be spanked severely until they learn, and they want to be spanked severely until they do.  Sofia is being trained and punished as she should be for both of their future success.

(3) Hair on her vagina and legs—Full-Body Inspections. This is one area that many disciplinarians overlook. That is, a girl should be frequently inspected with full-body nude inspections to make sure that she is clean, is properly shaved, is taking proper care of her body, and obediently assumes whatever position she is ordered into for her inspection.  See the following photo-stories concerning the inspection of girls.

 

(4) Bad Cooking. Domestic chores, including cooking, are very important for a wife to attend to. If meals are not prepared in a timely and appetizing way, then the home-life will not go well, and the wife must be spanked. But she must also be spanked if the kitchen is not kept clean and neat, as well as the bathroom, bedroom, and other rooms in the home. With the girls I train, I will inspect their home, and they will be spanked for any problems with their chores. In fact, as I enter, they will strip naked, hand me a strap that I will carry with me ready to use on them, and then they follow me about the home as I inspect it. If there is a problem, they are made to bend over right there for a 15-minute to 20-minute spanking. At times, a girl may have to be spanked 2 to 4 times, thus taking up to 2 hours to complete the inspection and their spankings.

(5) Business-Partner Spankings. I have had reports from several girls who got spanked at work, or, as with Sofia, who got spanked in order to keep a job or for the benefit of their husband.

In particular, two girls, one from St. Charles, Illinois, and one from Knoxville, Tennessee, wrote to me extensively concerning what they wanted me to do with them in their training, and how they were being spanked by their husbands, but also by employees who they had to obey and serve. Unlike Sofia, who only gets spanked, these two girls had to serve others sexually when ordered to do so and had to “work” in the offices so that they would always be ready to be spanked or enjoyed any way others wanted to enjoy them.  If a business-partner wanted to enjoy the girl sexually, he would order her to report to a special office designed just for the discipline and spanking of girls, and to enjoy them sexually.  When they entered, they had to get undressed and bend over the desk that was placed there for them to bend over.  Then the man would have sex with her and then whip her for a Proprietary Spanking to let the girl know that he controlled her and she would obey him and do whatever he told her to do.

So, the fact that Sofia is spanked by her husband’s business-partners is not actually too unusual, as I have had several reports of just such activities.  This is especially so in the home, if one of the partners or employees is visiting the boss (her husband).  If the wife disobeys, or is insolent in any way, she will be immediately made to strip naked and bend OTK to be spanked right there in front of whoever is visiting.  Of course, the business associates know that she is spanked, and so nothing is thought of it, as they also spank her.  One girl reported that her husband would order her to kneel and provide sucking-services to the guests who would visit him.  She had to obey or be whipped hard in front of the guest.  Or she would be ordered to go with the guest to a Guest Bedroom and service the guest any way that he ordered.  She would often be heard crying as she got spanked hard by the guest.

In one report, guests would be invited over to the home for an evening in which the girl was going to be punished with multiple spankings, and be spanked by each of the guests. When the guests arrived, the girl had to greet them at the door naked, hand them a hairbrush and ask if they wanted to spank her right then.  Of course, most would, and they would sit down on the chair in the foyer and the girl went over their knee to be spanked. These spankings were only for 5 minutes, but with 6 or so guests invited, she still got a long spanking.

Sofia gave some excellent details about her spankings as follows:

“The first time I was spanked by his business-partners I was 24 and did not cooperate when my husband told me to undress for a spanking.  What led up to this was that when we were together, the partners were wondering about my behavior, that it was not good, and they told my husband that I was not behaving like the good girl that was expected.  They told him about their problems with their wives and girlfriends.  My husband decided to show them his ‘trick’. However, I didn’t cooperate and refused to take my clothes off so that I would be nude for my spanking, because it was too humiliating—everybody in the room could see my naked body and see me cry like a little girl.  My husband became very angry, removed my clothes and spanked me with his hand until I was freely crying.  Then he ordered me to bring my hairbrush, hand it to him and bend over his knee again as he spanked me until I was balling like a baby.  After his spanking his partners spanked me also with their hands and belts.”

Apparently, as a result, her husband’s business-partners learned how to train a girl properly and make sure that she is obedient and behaves herself, but, more important, Sofia learned that she would be obedient and behave herself.