Spanking Survey: 45-Year-Old Spanked Wife

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The following report shows some of the problems I have in publishing many of the reports I receive; i.e., they are inconsistent and difficult to determine if they are real or just made up.  If I do not believe them, I do not publish them! 

For example, in this report, the most glaring difficulty is who spanks her and who sees her being spanked.  When asked “Who Spanks You”, she replies:  “Male Pastor”.  But then in her detailed report she says that she is spanked by her husband and his dad.  So, which is it, or have these disciplinarians simply spanked her at different times in her life?  Who knows, but it raises questions as to the authenticity of this report. 

Next, she says that she is naked when she is spanked and she is spanked in front of “Anyone present”.  But then, when asked who she is spanked in front of bare-bottom, she replies:  “Grandfather”.  Well, if she is spanked “In front of anyone present” and she is “naked”, then she is spanked on her bare bottom in front of “Anyone present”.  Again, this glaring inconsistency raises into question the authenticity of this report. 

However, all of that said, her report does reflect the spankings of many wives who are spanked by their husbands and other family members, like her husband’s dad, and by members of the church like her pastor.  This report is very characteristic of authenticated reports from girls and wives who live in very strict religious communities, and previously in homes during and prior to the 1960’s when spankings of girls were more prevalent and acceptable.  Not only were girls spanked by their pastor, but they were also spanked by male neighbors, the dads of her girlfriends, male teachers, babysitting dads, male company in the home, and so on.  Practically all spankings were administered by men, although aunts and grandmothers were also known to administer some good spankings. 

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For this girl, who was spanked most often around 1990, it would appear that she lived in a very strict religious community where being spanked by a male pastor was accepted, as well as being spanked by her husband and his dad.  Being spanked by a fiancé’s or husband‘s dad is quite common in strict religious communities even today.  The fiancé’s/husband’s dad represents the primary authority figure, other than the pastor, so that he still provides some of the discipline and punishment in the extended family.  This is especially so if the girl is visiting her fiancé’s/husband’s home and misbehaves.  When she does it is the dad of the home who administers the required spanking. 

So, this report will be presented as she submitted it to me, but I will make notes along the way to help clarify some of the inconsistencies as well as to expound on how many of the wives and girls are treated from more reliable reports that I have received. 

She reports: 

I’m a girl who is (approximately) 45-years-old and am still being spanked.  However, I was spanked most often when I was 25.

In addition to being spanked, I am also given Corner-Time Naked.

I am spanked 1 or 2 days a week with up to 5 spankings.

I am spanked by my male pastor, my husband, and my husband’s dad.

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[NOTE:   In homes where the wife is spanked by the husband, his dad and the male pastor, she is often spanked by the pastor during a Family Meeting in the home when the pastor comes to visit once or twice a month.  When he comes in, the wife, husband, pastor, and possibly some others (grandfather, neighbor, and boss from work among possibly others) sit around a dining room table to discuss the misbehaviors and disobediences of the wife.  The wife must sit with her head bowed and her hands clasped in her lap.  She must not speak.  The husband then states how she has been misbehaving since their last meeting, and how she has been disobedient, like not completing her domestic chores, spending too much money shopping, talking-back to her husband, and so on.  Then others at the table report anything that they have seen about her behavior that needs correction.  When it is clear that she will have to be spanked, she is ordered to stand up and stand in front of her pastor.  Since she knew that she was going to be spanked during this Family Meeting, she had to wear only a sheer gown that could be easily removed.  As she stands in front of her pastor, he grabs the bottom of the gown and she bends over as he pulls it off over her head.  She then must stand at-attention with her hands clasped behind her head or arms crossed behind her back. 

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She is then told what implement to bring to the pastor, most often a hairbrush so that each cheek can be more easily spanked, although straps, paddles, etc. may also be ordered.  She hands it to the pastor and then goes over his knee or assumes whatever position she is ordered to assume.  As everyone watches, he proceeds to spank her hard for as long as he wants, but most often for at least 10 minutes.  When he finishes spanking her, she has to stand naked in the corner for up to an hour as the others discuss how they will help to control and correct her during the next week or two before their next meeting.  If she works, then her boss may say that he will be spanking her more often at work, and will spank her each day before she starts work as a Preemptive Spanking as well as any time that she does not get her work done as ordered.  Sometimes, after about 30 minutes, if the husband believes that she needs to be punished some more due to her insolence or significant misbehavior or disobedience, he may call her back and make her bend over the side of the table.  He will then use his belt or a strap to spank her hard, and then send her back to the corner for another hour.  Then as she remains in the corner crying, the others attending the meeting will have snacks and drinks, and talk about how the wife was going to learn to do better and how hard she should be spanked next time if she didn’t.] 

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[She continues:] 

When I have to get spanked I do cooperate in getting undressed and getting ready to be spanked.  If I don’t I’ll get spanked harder.  The one spanking me takes my clothes off.  A strap is used to spank me for as long as my disciplinarian wants to spank me.  But, the maximum number of strokes is about 50.

[NOTE:  First, most wives and girls do cooperate when they have to be spanked.  If they don’t, then the most common consequence is that they will be spanked harder.  However, a more effective consequence is that the wife or girl be given a Disobedience Spanking about an hour after the first spanking.  This helps the girl to focus on just why she is being spanked.  Just spanking her harder does not really do any good since she does not know if she is being spanked harder because she did not cooperate or because of her misbehavior or disobedience.  By separating the two, it is more effective and she is spanked twice! 

50 strokes of a strap is actually not that many.  If I use a Punishment Strap or Stirrup Strap on a girl, I will administer 35 strokes/minute.  So, 50 strokes will not even be a 2-minute spanking.  Also, it is difficult to believe that if a disciplinarian is spanking her for “as long as he wants”, that he will spank her for less than 2 minutes, or for more minutes but with very few strokes during that time.  Even if I am using a Discipline Strap (that is lighter than a Punishment Strap) I will administer 50 strokes/minute.  So again, either this girl is not really being spanked all that much, or her husband is just not really spending very much time spanking her.  If I have to punish a girl that requires a severe whipping with a Punishment Strap, then I will spend 5 to 10 minutes or longer spanking her.  That could be up to 500 strokes.  Many girls write to me, or I interview them, and they confirm that they are whipped with 500 strokes or more when they need a severe whipping.] 

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[She continues:] 

If I misbehave away from home, I will get spanked on my bare bottom in private.

I am given Submission Spankings.

[NOTE:  Submission Spankings are very important in a strict religious or strict discipline home.  This is one thing that makes me believe that this report is fairly accurate.  I’ve had some recent reports from girls who claim that they are given not only Submission Spankings, but also Proprietary Spankings.  I coined the term ‘Proprietary Spankings’ about a year ago.  Prior to that time, it was never heard of, so I doubt that most girls are ever given Proprietary Spankings.  In fact, such spankings are only administered to Slavegirls; hence, the term “proprietary”.  Slavegirls are “property” and, therefore, they must submit to being given Proprietary Spankings to let them know that they are “property”.   Submission Spankings are different—they simply confirm that the girl will strip naked and bend over to be spanked when ordered to do so.  There is no proprietary intent involved.] 

[She continues:] 

I got spanked by dad when I was growing up, and after I got married my husband took the strap to me when I messed up. His dad spanked me too, but not a lot of times. I got my strapping in the living room usually and then I had to stand in the corner for a few hours. The whole family could see me, which I hated. Whoever spanked me took all my clothes off and that’s how I did my corner time. When I was in the corner I was not allowed to talk and all our kids knew that when Mommy was in the corner they were not supposed to talk to me.  

[NOTE:  In a strict religious home, or in a home where spankings are quite common, any girl will be spanked naked in front of anyone present, even the children.  One single mother told me that she wanted her daughter to watch her getting spanked so that she would learn that it was quite normal and she had to obey her disciplinarian when she was told to get undressed and bend over to be spanked.  When I spanked Nancy and her mom, Karen, in Florida back in the 1960’s, that was the norm.  When I had to spank Karen, Nancy would just stand and watch.  Frequently, I would spank both of them together, so that as Karen was sent to the corner, Nancy had to get undressed and bend over for her own spanking.  Many recent reports from girls living in a strict religious home also indicate that any of the girls in the home—wives, daughters, visiting girls, etc.—will be spanked in front of anyone present and will be stripped naked to be spanked. 

However, there are also “Naked Homes” in which everyone simply remains naked in the home for most of the time.  There is nothing unusual about seeing someone naked, and certainly not seeing them get spanked naked.  In a strict religious home or strict discipline home, when a girl is going to have to be spanked, she will most often have to strip naked and remain naked in the home until she is told she can get dressed.  As she is naked in the home, others will know that she is going to get spanked and when.  If she is normally spanked in the living room, then those present will go to the living room shortly before the girl is to be spanked and sit and wait.  After the girl is spanked, she must remain naked for the rest of the day, and when anyone comes to the door, she must greet them, still naked, and invite them in.  Also, she must remain naked and she cannot have any doors closed on her in the home, even the bathroom!     

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Now, since this girl was spanked by her dad and then her husband essentially took over with the spankings after they got married, it is probable that she was also spanked by her fiancé before they were married.  In most homes where the husband spanks the wife, he was spanking her before they got married.  In fact, reports that I have received show that when girls are spanked by their fiancé, they are spanked in front of her parents, especially if she is also spanked by her fiancé’s dad.  Over the years, several girls have reported that when their fiancé came to pick them up for their date, that they would give them a Preemptive Date Spanking in front of her parents, especially if she had a single mom.  When her fiancé came to pick her up, she would have to get undressed and bend over his knee to be spanked either by hand or with a hairbrush. 

When she is spanked by her fiancé’s dad, there may be more involved.  When she visits her fiancé if she misbehaves, then it is his dad who does the spanking.  In fact, frequently she is being trained in the home to do domestic chores, and when she does not help with dinner, or do assigned chores, his dad will spank her.  Also, however, when she misbehaves when in the presence of her fiancé, he may take her to his dad for him to spank, and tells her that even after they are married, he will take her to his dad once or twice a month for him to spank, normally on Saturday or Sunday.  These spankings help to establish the domestic control that her fiancé has over her, and that she must be obedient to whatever he tells her to do.]